Where Do Gays Retire Podcast

WHERE DO GAYS RETIRE PODCAST Show Notes The Frying Pan Is Now the Fire — Where Do We Go From Here? Hosted by Mark Goldstein| Solo Episode |April 2026 Sequel to: "Out of the Frying Pan Into the Fire" (July 2025) When Mark recorded "Out of the Frying Pan Into the Fire" last July, he was mostly thinking about political instability in other countries. He wasn't quite expecting the frying pan itself to...

🎙️ Where Do Gays Retire Podcast wheredogaysretire.com Gay Retirement in Querétaro, Mexico: Real Costs, Healthcare, Visas & LGBTQ+ Life Featuring Bryan Hutson & Juan Gomar •Hosted by Mark Goldstein Most people think of Puerto Vallarta or San Miguel de Allende when they imagine retiring in Mexico. Bryan Hutson and Juan Gomar — the gay couple behind boutique candle brand Casa Beige — chose so...

🎙️ Where Do Gays Retire Podcast Episode: Cologne, Germany — The Gay Capital of Europe That No One Talks About Guest: Bryson Kelpe Have you ever considered Cologne, Germany, as a place to retire or live abroad? Most people haven't — and after this episode, you just might add it to your list. This week I sat down with Bryson Kelpe, an American expat therapist who left Tennessee behind in 2019 and bu...

Living in Vienna, Austria with Nikolett Kustos: An Expat’s Perspective Discover the nuances of life in Vienna through Nikolett Kustos's experiences as a Hungarian-born photographer and resident. From cultural differences to practical cost-of-living insights, this episode offers a comprehensive view of what makes Vienna a unique and appealing place to live. In this episode: Nikolett’s journey from...

Living in Cape Town: Insights on Retirement, Culture, and Practical Life Explore the diverse and vibrant city of Cape Town through the eyes of local William E., as he discusses its changing landscape, LGBTQ community, cost of living, safety, healthcare, and cultural scene. Whether you're considering retiring there or just curious about life in South Africa, this episode offers valuable, firsthand...

🎧 WHERE DO GAYS RETIRE PODCAST HIV+ and Retiring Abroad: Which Countries Actually Have Your Back? Solo Episode •Host: Mark Goldstein • 46 min 17 sec Episode Description If you are HIV-positive and thinking about retiring abroad, you have probably researched the cost of living, visas, and LGBTQ+ rights. But there is one question almost nobody addresses directly: what actually happens to your antir...

Living in Braga, Portugal: An Expat's Personal Journey Toward Peace, Community, and Tranquility Join us as we sit down with John Pistana, a retired American expatriate who moved from New York and Fort Lauderdale, FL, to the charming city of Braga, Portugal. Discover his insights on cost of living, community integration, healthcare, and what makes Braga a peaceful haven for retirees seeking safety,...

Today, we're diving deep into the sunny shores of Cascais, Portugal, and trust me, it’s not just a pretty postcard! Our guests, Alastair and Wes, share their journey from bustling city life to the chill vibes of this coastal gem, where they’ve found a safe haven to retire. They spill the tea on what it’s like to live in a place that’s all about art, food, and a good dose of relaxation, while also...

Summary In this episode, Mark Goldstein interviews Brad Shreve and Maurice Chevalier, a couple who recently relocated to Oliva, Spain, after years of contemplating a move abroad. They share their journey of deciding between Ecuador and Spain, ultimately choosing Spain for its quality of life and community. The couple discusses their specific criteria for choosing a location, including a preference...

Summary In this conversation, Mark Goldstein interviews Chad Pitts and Jorge Pitts about their experiences living in Zaragoza, Spain. They discuss their motivations for moving, the research they conducted, and their first impressions of the city. The couple shares insights into the cultural vibe, community building, cost of living, transportation, food scene, and healthcare in Zaragoza. They also...

We're diving into the sunny vibes of El Puerto de Santa Maria, a gem in southern Spain, where life is all about community and connection. Our guest, Daniel Cairns, swapped the hustle of London for the laid-back lifestyle of Andalusia, and he’s here to share how he and his partner are creating a welcoming home for expats in their Casa de Vecinos project. Together, they’re redefining retirement by b...

Ready to level up your retirement game? We're diving into the 10 essential questions every LGBTQ person should ask before picking their retirement city. Forget about palm trees and sunshine; we're talking about finding a place that vibes with who you are today, not who you were in your 20s. From walkability to genuine LGBTQ friendliness, we've got the scoop on what really matters for your happines...

Ever been curious about retiring in Oaxaca, Mexico? Well, grab your sun hat, because today we're diving into that dreamy destination! We chat with David and Harvey, a dynamic duo who’ve crafted their lives in this vibrant city after years of exploring Latin America. They'll share the scoop on community vibes, cost of living, and the oh-so-important healthcare scene. Spoiler alert: it’s all about c...

Today, we're diving headfirst into the world of Americans moving to Spain! We'll chat about why folks from the LGBTQ community are flocking to this sunny slice of Europe, seeking safer and more affordable retirement spots. Our guest, Christopher Hughey, is a relocation guru who's got the inside scoop on what it takes to make the big move. From climate to cost of living, he's got the lowdown on eve...

We’re diving into some heavy stuff today, folks! This episode is all about survival and community, wrapped in a personal story that hits hard. Mark Goldstein shares his experience surviving an aviation disaster 43 years ago, and how that day shaped his journey. We talk about the importance of choosing safe, queer-friendly places and how community can be your lifeline. Plus, we throw in some tips o...

We're taking a virtual trip to the gorgeous city of Montpellier in southern France, where retirement life for the LGBTQ community is as bright as the Mediterranean sun! Joining me, Mark Goldstein, is the fabulous Lloyd Meeker, who's got the inside scoop on everything you need to know—housing, healthcare, and the local vibe. Imagine living in a place where being gay is a total non-issue and the com...

Club Heasa - Building a Gay Men’s Oasis in Costa Rica with Colin Brownlee In this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein interviews Colin Brownlee, who has established Club Heasa, a men-only vacation and short-term rental community in Costa Rica. Colin shares his journey from a marketing career in Vancouver to building a successful hotel business in Costa Rica, and even...

Today, we're diving into the fabulous world of Fountain Grove Lodge in Santa Rosa, California, where Chuck and Ed just settled in. They're not just talking about where to retire; they’re sharing their journey to find a vibrant, LGBTQ-friendly community that feels like home. You’ll hear about their charming transition from the river towns of Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to this sunny, welcoming spot...

Today, we’re diving deep into Friendship Village in Tempe, Arizona, the place where aging meets peace of mind. Our guest, Cole Marvin, spills the tea on what makes this community so special for LGBTQ seniors. From its inclusive culture to a variety of amenities designed for fun and connection, Cole shares how they prioritize creating a vibrant living experience. We’ll chat about the juicy details—...

Today, we’re diving into the spicy topic of walkability and whether you can retire without a car. Spoiler alert: you totally can! I’ve lived in places where cars were as necessary as oxygen, and others where you can strut your stuff on foot with ease. We’ll chat about why walkable neighborhoods are the bee's knees for your health, social life, and wallet, plus I’ll share some fab locations where y...

We're diving into the cozy world of retirement in this episode, where we chat with Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert, a fabulous couple living it up at Friendship Village in Tempe, Arizona. They've got a sweet setup in a community that’s not just welcoming but also filled with activities and amenities that make retirement feel like a never-ending vacation. Joe and Terry recently celebrated 30 years t...

This week, we're diving into the sunny vibes of Vigo, Spain, where our guest, Daniel Louis Loboto, is living it up under a digital nomad visa. He’s all about redefining community after coming out later in life, and he's got some fantastic insights on why Spain is the place to be for retirement. From the affordable cost of living to the lush, green landscapes, Daniel spills the tea on what makes Vi...

Join me as we dive into the sun-soaked paradise of Gran Canaria, where the LGBTQ community is not just accepted but celebrated! This episode features the fabulous Raquel Rojas, an award-winning media exec who spills the tea on life in this vibrant island. We'll explore everything from the dreamy beaches and delicious local cuisine to the surprisingly low cost of living and the warm, friendly vibes...

Today, we're diving into the sun-soaked paradise of Madeira, Portugal, where Paul and Kevin share their epic journey from Seattle to this dreamy island. They've been living it up on Madeira for over four years now, and let me tell you, they have no plans of ever leaving! We’re chatting about everything from the cost of living, which is basically a steal compared to Seattle, to the laid-back lifest...

We’re diving into the sunny vibes of Nerja, Spain, and trust me, it’s not just a pretty beach town; it’s the kind of place where you can actually picture yourself kicking back in retirement bliss! In this episode, we chat with Richard Carnaby, who’s on a mission to build his dream home on the eastern Costa del Sol. He spills the tea on why he and his husband chose Nerja over more touristy spots li...