When Marriage and Purpose Collide

In this episode, we dive into the latest TikTok trends making waves on social media. Are these trends helping or harming the Christian community's understanding of marriage between two believers? We unpack the implications and explore how they align with biblical principles. We also tackle the topic of modern dating dynamics: Why are fewer men approaching women today? Could fear of rejection be ho...

In this episode, we dive into the exciting possibilities of finding love at conferences, summits, and conventions, including events like AfroTech. We also explore the dynamics of introducing your special someone to your family during the holidays—what should you expect, and how can you navigate it successfully? Lastly, we tackle a thought-provoking question: Are differences in voting choices a dea...

We’re keeping it real about our Intentional Dating event for Christian singles—the good, the bad, and the no-shows. From blind dates to big lessons, we felt the highs and the heartache.. singles go through. Tune in for the raw truth about faith, dating, and finding your person Can’t Wait to Date Course for Christian Single Women- Pre-Sale 11/29 Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet for...

Lucretia sits down with India Martin and Gigi Gilliard. They open up about their experiences with sisterhood and relationships after renouncing and denouncing Greek sororities. Together, they unpack the emotional and spiritual journey of redefining connections, including the most important one—our relationship with God. Whether you're seeking deeper friendships, spiritual growth, or clarity in set...

Is having a best friend still a thing? And what does friendship look like as a follower of Christ? How do you navigate friendships when other best friends are involved? In this episode, we sit down with Precious Whitener and Darlyshia Menzie to explore the ups and downs of their friendship. They share how they overcame a rough patch, grew closer, and became more spiritually grounded and accountabl...

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In this episode, we sit down with India Martin and Gigi Gilliard to explore the evolution of friendships through life’s transitions, navigating conflict, and establishing healthy boundaries. We also open up about our experiences with sisterhood and relationships after renouncing and denouncing Greek sororities. Together, we unpack the emotional and spiritual journey of redefining connections, incl...

In this episode, we will have a conversation with Kelly Needham author of the Friendish and discuss what is never talked about when it comes to Christian friendships, unrealistic expectations, navigating different season with friends from childhood to adulthood, crucial conversations to have with friends. Can’t wait for you to listen! Kelly Needham is a follower of Christ, Bible student, and COO o...

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In this episode, we share exciting podcast updates and reflect on how our summer went. We also dive into how we plan our year, offering insights on what it looks like to plan your year with your partner—or even your future partner. Whether you're curious about goal setting as a couple or preparing for a new season together, this episode provides helpful tips and inspiration for intentional pla...

DJ and Lucretia sit down with Brandon and Emily Lee to delve into their unique love story. After meeting online, Brandon and Emily dated for a few months before breaking up. About a year later, they reunited online and began a new chapter together. They share the transformations that occurred during their time apart, the boundaries they established upon reuniting, and their journey toward marriage...

Join DJ and Lucretia as they sit down with John Pledger for a transparent and vulnerable discussion about the pressures in marriage that led to his divorce. John is honest and doesn't hold back as he shares his ongoing healing journey and what's next for him. This insightful conversation sheds light on the importance of accountability and maintaining a strong relationship with Christ befor...

Join DJ and Lucretia discuss the complexities of dating within your church community. They explore the dynamics of couples attending church together, weighing the benefits and challenges. But what about married couples attending different churches? And what about dating someone who only attends church online? They share their own personal story of how they navigated the church scene after tying th...

Join DJ and Lucretia in this episode as they dive into the latest TikTok trends and share their thoughts and perspectives. They explore the concept of the "soft guy era" and why it's gaining popularity among single men.  In addition, the hosts discuss the topic of whether college-aged women should prioritize pursuing a husband or focusing on their degree. They also delve into the rol...

In this episode, DJ and Lucretia chat with John Burleson about his experiences with purposeful dating. John shares valuable lessons learned from his journey, offering practical insights for those navigating the dating scene today. Tune in for actionable advice and personal stories that can help you find your future purpose partner. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious ab...

In this episode, DJ and Lucretia deep into the early years – from those relentless nights of no sleep to juggling the chaos of multiple kiddos. Join us as we stroll down memory lane, sharing the good, the bad, and the messy milestones that define parenthood. Get ready for some real talk about what works (and what doesn't) in the world of parenting, and maybe even pick up a few survival strateg...

Join us for an inspiring conversation with Russelyn Williams, a Christian Speaker, Author, and Blogger, as she shares her journey of maintaining purity into her 40s. With over 9 years of experience empowering young people and women, Russelyn discusses the value of personal worth and the benefits of saving sex until marriage. Through her transparent testimony and commitment to helping single Christ...

Join DJ and Lucretia as they dive into the ups and downs of single life and the daunting prospect of marriage. They share relatable stories and explore the pressures singles face in today's society. They also discuss the vital role married friends play in offering support and understanding to singles. Plus, they dish out essential questions every potential spouse should ask before saying &quot...

DJ and Lucretia invite Sonni, Founder of Heart and Home Community, to speak about her journey of surviving loss, abuse, and  toxic relationships.  Sonni Pitts is a mom of two beautiful boys, Christian counselor and MSW. She has a passion for people and seeing them whole, healed and thriving.  Website itstheheart.org Get Your Heart and Health Scripture eBook  https://www.itstheheart.org/store Wake...

"In this engaging episode, Dj and Lucretia delve into the complexities of physical and sexual attraction within the realm of dating and relationships.  Join us as we explore the nuances of attraction, share personal insights, and invite listeners to chime in on the discussion. Your feedback is invaluable to us, so don't hesitate to share your thoughts! Tune in and join the conversation.&q...

In this episode, Lucretia and DJ discuss first date expectations among singles nowadays. They also discuss their own first date expectations when they first met. Are expectations to high? We will discuss in this episode. To order eBooks and get resources, click here. (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube Apple Podcast Google Podcast Spotify Podcast Subscribe fo...

In this episode, Lucretia will share how God led her out of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. Correction: I crossed Fall 2004. If you are a Christian in a Greek org, get your rituals and oaths and line it up with scripture. Pray, Fast, and Seek God completely!! Something to help on your journey to understanding 👇🏾👇🏾 Resources: For Community, Repentance Prayers, and Denouncing Templates https://www....

In the season finale, DJ and Lucretia dive into the world of relationships, addressing burning questions from their devoted listeners. From dating and marriage dilemmas and insights on navigating the single season, join them for a candid and engaging episode.  See you all in Season 5!!! To purchase Schedule A Dating with Confidence & Clarity Strategy Session, Purchase “Finding Purpose Within the C...

Dive into a thought-provoking conversation on our latest podcast episode as we explore the crucial yet often overlooked topic of Black men's emotional safety in relationships. we unravel the stigma surrounding therapy and discuss the importance of creating a safe space for our boyfriends and husbands. From challenging societal norms to fostering open communication, we explore actionable steps to b...

Discover the enduring love sparked by 12 dates! Join Dj and Lucretia in the latest "When Marriage and Purpose Collide" episode as they chat with Rabbi Shlomo Rivka and Slatkin. Dive into the couple's journey, exploring the trials of marriage and gaining insights into their unique approaches to restoration. Whether you're a newcomer to love or a seasoned partner, this episode is a...