When Life Swings - Swing Back! Resilience Podcast with Phylecia Kellar (formerly ballin and bipolar)

Sometimes the hardest part of growth isn’t starting something new — it’s letting go of what no longer fits. In this episode, I’m talking about why 2025 was never meant to be about expansion first — it was about building the foundation . And for that foundation to be solid, I had to make difficult choices… including losing relationships I had outgrown. We dive into: What it really feels like to los...

Resolutions fade — systems don’t.  In Part 2 of the NO RESOLUTIONS series, we break down how to actually accomplish your goals this year by ditching the vague “new year, new me” mindset and replacing it with clear, actionable structure. Instead of setting giant year-long resolutions that fall apart by February, this episode teaches you how to: ✨ Build quarterly goals that keep you focused ✨ Crea...

This New Year’s Eve, we’re not doing resolutions. Not the pressure. Not the unrealistic lists. Not the “new year, new me” noise. Instead, we’re choosing two words — two anchors — that will drive everything we do in 2026. In this episode, Phylecia shares her two words: Plan + Execute. Because if you have a plan… you can execute. And if you execute… you can change your life. This is about focusing o...

TO NOTE: EVEN IF YOU DO NOT CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS - THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU! This Christmas Eve, I want to slow everything down and sit with you for a moment — not to talk goals, not to push, not to hustle… but to honor the fact that you made it . Through the highs, the lows, the burnout, the breakthroughs, and every messy middle in between — you kept going. And before we step into a new year with n...

We’re only in the first quarter of your journey — so why are you comparing your progress to someone who’s already in their fourth? In this episode, I break down the real reason comparison steals our joy and stalls our growth. Whether it’s fitness, career, mental health, or personal development, too many of us look at someone else’s highlight reel and assume we’re falling behind… when really, we’re...

Let’s talk about the lies we’ve all been told about mental health — and what’s actually true. In this episode, Phylecia breaks down six of the most common myths that keep people silent, ashamed, or afraid to get help. From the idea that mental illness is “rare” or “a sign of weakness,” to the misconception that therapy is just talking or that recovery isn’t possible — we’re busting through the sti...

Here’s the truth — no one’s immune to bullying. Not even the confident ones. Not even the “cool” ones. In this episode, Phylecia shares a story about a strong, confident girl who was bullied simply for standing out — for having muscles, for being herself. The takeaway? Haters are gonna hate. Bullies will always find a target. But their words only stick if we let them. This episode is a reminder th...

This Thanksgiving feels different — because gratitude means more when you’ve had to fight for your joy. In this heartfelt episode, Phylecia reflects on turning 37, what that day looked like, and why it wasn’t about perfection but pride — pride in the growth, the lessons, and the strength it took to get here. It’s a reminder that gratitude isn’t about everything being easy. It’s about seeing how fa...

The holidays can be a beautiful season — but also the perfect storm for chaos, stress, and slipping out of routine. Before life starts running you, this episode is your reminder to slow down, set intention, and protect your peace. Phylecia breaks down the do’s and don’ts of staying aligned before the holidays hit: ✅ Keep your diet, sleep, and exercise steady. ✅ Set a budget and stick to it. ✅ P...

Resistance is inevitable — whether it’s in your habits, workouts, or goals, life will always push back. But sometimes, the key isn’t to fight harder… it’s to find the path that makes sense for you. In this episode, I talk about learning to work with your natural rhythm instead of against it — choosing times, routines, and environments that support your growth rather than drain it. Because success...

In the words of Jocko Willink — when you’ve already set your intention and built your system, there’s no more overthinking to do. That’s the difference between motion and progress. In this episode, we’re breaking down the simplest (and most powerful) formula for actually getting things done:  1️⃣ Set the intention.  2️⃣ Write it down.  3️⃣ Build the plan.  4️⃣ Execute. Because when you skip this p...

I have been thinking about doing this for awhile, and we did for the 101st episode. I want to reshare this episode since it's how we all got started. Here you will hear a story of how I got first diagnosed Bipolar. First we go into what was really going on in my life leading up to this, you will go inside my mind during mania. You will hear how I thought Dr. Phil's son was dressed up as...

Every journey begins with a starting line — but how often do we hold ourselves back before we even take the first step? In this episode, I’m diving into the truth about starting, staying, and finishing: 🎯 Why commitment matters more than motivation in the beginning. 🔄 How consistency becomes the engine that carries you forward. 💪 Why tenacity is the difference between quitting and transforming....

We made it — 100 episodes! 🎉  In this milestone conversation, I’m stepping back to reflect on the journey so far: what’s been going right , what’s been going wrong , and the messy middle in between. This isn’t a highlight reel — it’s a real-life check-in. I’ll share updates on my own life, lessons learned from building this podcast, and how I’m navigating the balance of resilience, routine, and j...

In this episode, we’re leaning into the season of change and uncovering seven simple ways to reignite joy in your everyday life . From unplugged walks and fresh hobbies to creating space for what you love, these practices help you slow down, reset, and reconnect with yourself. Here’s what we’ll cover: 🌳 Why device-free walks open the door to clarity and creativity. ✨ How to notice the beauty wov...

In this podcast today we're covering goals, dreams and ACTION STEPS. So many podcasts can be about goal setting but what does that really mean? We need to: 1) Know the vision (the goal) - if you don't have the vision, I've given you journal prompts to find it 2) Set the intention - affirm what you're going to accomplish 3) Understand what your action step is that day / week - i...

Have you ever wished and prayed your kids would do or wouldn't do certain things? But when we really look in the mirror - where did they learn that? Maybe instead of praying FOR them, we pray for US so that they have someone to set the example. My niece and nephew are the kids in my life. I always say a prayer for them - but (once again) through walking, I came up with a question to myself......

This podcast is not about vaping, or not vaping.... (although if you do Vape, it is helpful) This podcast today is going to cover a few things I've found since I discovered walking. We take walking for granted, but I have been able to disconnect, focus internally with no distractions and ask hard questions. My challenge to you if you're not a "walker" - go for a walk everyday f...

In this podcast I referenced Pat Flynn’s new book: Lean Learning. In a world full of information, knowledge and access, we get overloaded and never actually know what our ONE next step is. I’m going to story tell in the ways that information overload has come true in my own life, and what keeping it simple and focused can really accomplish. If you don’t know what your best next step is, talk to so...

In this podcast today we’re going to discuss NOT getting cocky, when we get cocky, we stop doing what was working - we fall - we then have to reset and climb back up. If you’re sitting here today and things are going well - keep doing what you’re doing - but continue to have these 3 things in place - Belief, discipline and consistency. If you’re sitting here today and you have fallen - focus on a...

In this podcast today I’m going to sound a bit aggressive but it’s to HELP you - I promise! Talking to people struggling with Bipolar and people who have loved ones who struggle!  I had someone reach out about her mom being in a manic episode and I want to give you my full method to how I’ve been able to contain Bipolar after being hospitalized in 2010. Meds, psychiatry and therapy are ALL part of...

In this podcast today, you're going to hear a bit of my story regarding how I "Collect" Data for my health and financial journey but this podcast is actually about showing up for YOU and what that really looks like. You do not have to be on a weight loss / health journey, I want you to listen to this podcast, and show up for yourself for 90 days and see what happens. Track your move...

"Look at how far we've come so far" was a quote my best friend and I came up with while walking to our houses growing up. We lived in the country, so walking home was a bit of some distance to 8 year olds, but I love the mindset of that. That's what we're going to chat about on today's pod. We're a bit over halfway through the year so I want you to ask yourself -...

In this podcast today we're focused on a quote I heard Tony Robbins say - I don't think 'HE' came up with this, but I heard him say it. People who focus too much on the past are most likely more depressed than others. Those of us who focus too much on the future, are most likely suffering with more anxiety than others. Those who focus on the present, are most likely more at pea...

In this podcast today we're going to dive into this simple quote: What you focus on - you create more of..... That's so powerful and so simple.  If you focus on the negativity, we're going to find more of it, and vice versa. I have someone in my life who has a beautiful life, from my vantage point he's living THE Life. But he chooses to focus on negativity, he chooses to find t...