When In White

Jenna got married one month ago and she is not holding back. We're talking pre-wedding anxiety, the moment she thought she was going to poop walking down the aisle, what actually went wrong on the day, and the gap between what weddings look like on Instagram and what they actually feel like in real life. Honest, funny, and a little chaotic, just like wedding days actually are. Follow us on Ins...

Jenna got married one month ago and she's already spilling. Before she got engaged she had a whole vision of what was going to matter most and the decor was at the top of the list. Spoiler: she did not care about it at all on the day. We get into what she'd spend the money on again without blinking, what she stressed about for months that didn't matter, and close it out with a rapid fi...

This one's a little bittersweet. After 5 years worth of episodes together, Alley and Maddie are sitting down one last time to reminisce about their favorite conversations, the moments that made them laugh, the ones that made them cry, and everything this podcast has meant to them both. Maddie is off to chase a brand new dream — and we couldn't be prouder. Tune in next week when we kick off...

It's June. You're booked. You're exhausted. And somewhere between the third wedding this weekend and your fourth gas station coffee, you're starting to wonder:  am I actually getting paid what this season is worth? If you're charging based on what  feels right , we're just going to say it — you're probably undercharging. Pricing should be built, not copied. And peak sea...

Your guests are about to show up in 90-degree heat wearing cocktail attire — and how you handle that is going to make or break the energy of your entire day. (Yes, really. Hot, dehydrated guests = flat photos and an empty dance floor.) In this episode, we're breaking down exactly how to keep your people comfortable, hydrated, and actually  having fun  at your summer wedding — from the moment t...

We're holding each other accountable this week! In Ep 19, we're putting each other on the spot with our Summer Bucket Lists — and rating each other's plans for realism, ambition, and actual follow-through. From San Diego Zoo & camping trips, Tahoe Bike Trails and crafting the perfect signature mocktail to finally fixing those den bookshelves (it's been a year, okay?), we're...

Okay, we did a thing! This week, we're taking you behind the wheel (pun absolutely intended) of our very first ceramics class at @awheelgoodtimeceramics — and friends, we have THOUGHTS. From the thrill of trying something completely outside our comfort zone to the surprisingly profound lesson that yes, you can mess up AND start over, this episode is part recap, part pep talk for anyone who nee...

Last month we admitted something embarrassing — we've been doomscrolling instead of actually showing up on social media. Well, that stops NOW. Part two is here and we are giving you the full game plan: what to do every single day, how to get in front of the right people, and the strategy that's actually getting wedding vendors booked. Brides, this one's for you too — because understand...

The smell of texture spray. The moment the first banger drops and EVERYONE rushes the dance floor. That quiet escape during couples photos when it's just the two of you. Being intentional about your getting ready space — because you're the queen and the vibe should match. The dress change. The send-off. Wedding days are PACKED with moments that live in your chest forever, and we are going...

We were told we could be anything. So why did we end up here? This episode we're spilling our "other life" fantasies — and honestly? Maddie's answer will shock you. We're talking about the dreams we almost chased, the ones people tried to talk us out of, and how we found our way to exactly this. Grab your coffee, because this one gets personal. Find us on Instagram at @whenin...

This one's a little chaotic in the best way. We're talking about the moments that actually inspire us — and spoiler, none of them are a mood board. Light through a window. A scrapbook. Something you noticed on a walk that you can't stop thinking about. This episode is basically us making the case for quiet... and giving you full permission to do less, notice more, and let the ordinary...

Real talk: Alley's been over here hoping her friends will engage with her posts, and Maddie's been doom-scrolling just to decompress. Neither of us is doing this "right" — and instead of pretending otherwise, we're putting it all on the table. This episode is less strategy session, more confession booth. We're taking an honest look at where our time is actually going, wha...

Wedding season is a weird thing to navigate when everyone around you is planning at the same time. In this episode, we're getting into the stuff nobody really talks about — the "I saw that first" tension, the comparison spiral that creeps in even when you love your friend, and how to genuinely celebrate someone else's big moment when you're deep in your own. We're also as...

No prep. No filter. Just Alley & Maddie answering five questions we probably should have thought harder about before saying yes to. This week we're doing a rapid fire personal episode and honestly... it got real fast. We're talking about what we wish we'd known before year one, the things we pretend to like but genuinely don't, what made us cry recently (spoiler: it was a TV sh...

Real talk... most people download their wedding gallery, post a few favorites, and then never look at them again. And that genuinely makes us a little sad. This week we're talking about all the ways you can actually hold onto your wedding day beyond a folder on your phone. Prints & albums. Pressed florals & resin. What to do with your dress. Scrapbooking for the chaos lovers. We're...

You know that guilty feeling when you haven't posted in a few days and your brain starts spiraling? Yeah. We're going there. This week Alley & Maddie are talking about the very real pressure vendors feel to be discoverable, likable & visible... all the time. Where does that expectation even come from? Clients? Each other? The algorithm? Ourselves? We're getting honest about the...

We recently re-listened to one of our older episodes about choosing your wedding date and realized… it still hits. In this episode, we break down why your date truly inspires everything. Your theme. Your dress. Your florals. Even your honeymoon plans. We talk about: • Why Saturdays still book first • Why location changes everything when it comes to “wedding season” • Why dates like 10.10 are wildl...

Motherhood hits differently when you’re also running a business. In this episode, we get honest about what it actually looks like behind the scenes. Maddie shares how she time blocks her business around her kids and what that really requires mentally. I open up about the quiet loneliness that can come when your friends don’t fully understand the season you’re in. We’re talking boundaries. Identity...

The debate continues. In Part 2, we respond directly to each other’s arguments about trying wedding vendors ahead of time. Is it a smart, intentional move — or an unnecessary expense? We dig into: Budget realities Trusting experience vs. testing it When trials actually make sense And what couples should prioritize most We end with our final closing statements — and you might be surprised where we...

Should you test your wedding vendors before the big day — or trust the portfolio and move forward? In this episode, we kick off a structured debate on whether couples should try out photographers, videographers, hair, and makeup artists ahead of time. We each present our opening statements and core arguments, breaking down: Experience vs. aesthetic Energy and personality compatibility Protecting y...

One of the most common fears couples carry into wedding planning is quiet but heavy: “What if I regret my choices?” In this episode, we zoom out — not based on trends or predictions, but on  five years of witnessing real weddings and real marriages unfold . We talk about what couples  think  they’ll care about years later… and what actually stays with them long after the day is over. We unpack why...

Booking season is exciting… and overwhelming.  In this episode, we share  five good things and five hard things about booking season  from a photographer’s perspective, plus what brides should know to navigate it with more clarity and less stress. We talk about inquiry details, timelines, boundaries, ghosting, and why intentional booking leads to a better wedding experience. If you’re engaged or a...

Micro weddings are officially  having a moment —and no, it’s not because couples are giving up on their dream day. In this episode, we’re unpacking why micro weddings are popping off in 2026: the economy, shifting priorities, and a collective “we’re done doing things just to impress people” mindset. Fewer guests, lower costs, and way less pressure—without sacrificing beauty, intention, or magic. W...

In this episode, we’re breaking down what it  really  looks like to exceed your 2026 goals—without the pressure to overhaul your entire life overnight. We talk honestly about: Eating to your macros in a way that’s sustainable (not restrictive) Setting movement goals that support your energy instead of draining it Keeping business goals light, intentional, and aligned And the question that kept com...

Snuggle in with us as we dive into a cozy round of Christmas Would-You-Rather questions—rooted in nostalgia, family traditions, and the little moments that make this season feel like magic. Grab your cocoa and join the conversation as we explore the rituals, movies, and memories we hold closest to our hearts.