What's The Point with Dev and Tee

Happy WTP Wednesday! On this week’s episode, we discuss the rise of the “Sassy Man Apocalypse". We question who’s courting who now and unpack how traditional gender roles in dating are flipping faster than a table on reality TV. We debate whether men tired of being the pursuers? Is the modern man craving the soft life too? And what does it mean when he wants to be treated like a Queen instead of a...

Happy WTP Wednesday! In this episode, we dive headfirst into the sparkly swamp of delusion—where curated feeds, main character energy, and vision boards collide. Are we manifesting our dream lives… or just really good at pretending online? We unpack the fine line between self-belief and self-deception, the pressure to keep up appearances on social media, and whether being "delulu" is actually the...

Happy WTP Wednesday! This week we’re exploring the powerful contrasts between being bitter vs. truly living, how bitterness can quietly steal your joy, and what it actually means to thrive instead of merely survive. We discuss subtle signs of bitterness, unpack why some people stay miserable despite having the potential to grow + so much more!   Follow us on IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nico...

Happy WTP Wednesday! In this episode, we’re diving into the do’s and dont's of dating and friendships — the green flags that say “go for it,” the red flags that scream “run,” and those tricky yellow flags that leave us conflicted. From love bombing to consistent communication, jealousy to genuine support, we’re breaking it all down We talk about real scenarios, hot takes, that may make you even qu...

Happy WTP Wednesday! This week we’re asking the hard-hitting questions like, are you actually too busy to date or just avoiding the scene all together? We’re chatting about moving with intention, being nice to men (yes, really), how to seem approachable without giving ‘stranger danger’ + and so much more!   Follow us on IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @_ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_...

We’re Backkkkkk! Happy WTP Wednesday! In this episode, we talk about our time away and why taking a break can be so valuable.   Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @_ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_ Apple Podcast: What's The Point with Dev and Tee Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhatsThePoint_Podcast Tiktok:Whatsthepoint_withdevtee Send your Topics/Listener Letters to: whatsthe...

Happy WTP Wednesday! On this week’s episode, we check-in and discuss the art of managing life. We share our opinion on life management, whether life can be managed, managing stress to live a better life + so much more!   Vibe of the week: Jill Scott - Golden   Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @_ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_ Apple Podcast: What's The Point with Dev and Tee Y...

Happy WTP Wednesday! We got another therapy episode for y'all, lol! On this week's episode we check-in on each other's mental health. We question how we’ve been feeling lately, what’s been worrying us & of course some positives, like what's been bringing us joy and peace. We also dive into our self-care plans, reflect on the last 6 months + so much more! (this episode was supposed to come out...

Happy WTP Wednesday yall! On this week’s episode We discuss the tremendous need for stillness, finding strength in being still, learning how to be still, being okay with living a “slow” life + so much more!    Vibe of the week: Ms. Lauryn Hill & D’Angelo - Nothing Even Matters   Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_ Apple Podcast: What's The Po...

Happy WTP Wednesday yall! On this week’s episode We hold each other accountable and discuss a time that we were the problem. We discuss how to know if you’re the problem, how to fix when you're the problem, different types of accountability partners + so much more!   Vibe of the week: A$AP Rocky ft. 2 Chainz, Drake & Kendrick Lamar Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @il...

Happy WTP Wednesday yall! On this week’s episode We share our opinions on why more women are choosing to remain childfree, the importance of protecting our young people, becoming mentors in the community, negligent parents + so much more!   Vibe of the week: Whitney Houston - Greatest Love of All Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_ Apple Podcast:...

Happy WTP Wednesday yall! On this week’s episode We define being a strong friend, whether we identify with the role, genuinely checking in vs trauma dumping, the importance of checking on your strong friends + so much more!   Vibe of the week: Mary Mary - God in Me   Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_ Apple Podcast: What's The Point with Dev and...

Happy WTP Wednesday yall! On this week’s episode We start off by discussing “it’s okay to say no”, we move on to talk about different ways to stop agreeing to things we don’t want to do, learning to stand firm in our “no”, sticking to our boundaries + so much more!     Vibe of the week: Destiny’s Child - No No No Pt. 1 & 2     Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovene...

Happy WTP Wednesday y’all! On this week’s episode we discuss the role of being the eldest daughter. We share our own experiences with being the older sibling and reflect on the extra responsibilities and obligations that come with it. We explore the potential feelings of self-doubt, the pressures of being the “successful sibling” + so much more!     Vibe of the week: Beyoncé - 16 Carriages      Fo...

Happy WTP Wednesday y’all! On this week’s episode we dive into the woes of being in our twenties. We discuss the recent pressures of getting married and having children in your mid 20’s, feeling unstable, tripping about the future, inflation, outgrowing friendships + so much more.    Vibe of the week: SZA - 20 Something  Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovenewyork @The...

Happy WTP Wednesday! Do you think society would benefit from bringing back shame? It seems like no one has shame anymore...On this week’s episode We share our opinions on the need to bring back shame in society, people doing the most for social media and issues with the constant desire for clout. We also discuss the recent online petition to bring back shame + much more!  Vibe of the week: Offset...

Happy WTP Wednesday y’all! On this week’s episode We discuss the recent trend of being a “girl’s girl” and question what it takes to be one. We highlight the dangers of being the male-centered friend and pray for the women who have fallen victim to pick-me(ism). We share our opinions on the recent topic of bringing your man on a girl’s trip, asking your partner for permission in the relationship +...

Happy Wednesday y’all! On this week’s episode We discuss the idea of a “soft life” and we question whether it is really soft. We share our opinions on living your own life, whether you can live a soft life and work 9am-5pm, healing vs. wanting to be saved and so much more!      Vibe of the week: Summer Walker - Hardlife Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovenewyork @Ther...

Happy Wednesday y'all! On this week’s episode We conduct our own "therapy session" and discuss getting over bitterness and resentment. We discuss whether forgiveness is necessary? We share different ways to get over being bitter, recognizing when it's time to move on and let it go and so much more!    Vibe of the week: Let It Go - Keyshia Cole ft. Missy Elliot & Lil Kim     Follow us: IG: @Wha...

Happy Wednesday y’all and Happy Women’s History Month! On this week’s episode We break down Michelle Obama’s famous quote, we discuss our thoughts on matching energy, whether or not it has become a recent trend, exerting unwanted energy, playing games and so much more!    Vibe of the week: ENERGY - Beyoncé     Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @devan.nicolee Tee: @ilovenewyork @Therapisttee_...

Happy Wednesday y’all! On this week’s episode We question where people’s anger comes from. Is it jealousy, learned behavior or is it something else going on in their life? Why are people no longer smiling and greeting each other ?... and why is everybody so mean on social media? We also discuss the effects that being mean can have on your mental and physical health.    Vibe for the week: Golden Ch...

Happy Wednesday y’all! On this week’s episode We discuss dating for Love vs. Money, whether you should date while broke, the importance of being independent as a woman and cultural differences when dating for money. We also share our opinions on whether it matters who the breadwinner is and what’s tacky and tasteless when dating for money.    Vibe for the week: Gold Digger - Kanye West, Jamie Foxx...

Happy WTP Wednesday and Happy Valentine’s Day to all the real loverssss! On this week’s episode, We discuss letting things go in your 20s, knowing when to move on, the hardest parts about moving on, and taking accountability. We also share some tips for celebrating yourself on Valentine’s Day! The Vibe of the week: MOVIN’ ON - India Shawn and Anderson .Paak Follow us: IG: @Whatsthepoint_pod Dev: @...

Happy WTP Wednesday y’all & Happy Black History Month!! On this week’s episode We discuss the importance of minding your business, keeping your business to yourself and how to tell other people to mind theirs. We also introduce a new segment and explore the lyrics to our verse of the week. Tune in every Wednesday for more real-life-talk!    Verse of the week: **Alexa play “minding_my business...

Happy Wednesday y’all and Happy Holidays! On this week’s episode and season finale Dev and Tee discuss grief around the holidays, asking for a listening ear vs. advice, is sharing a similar experience wrong? the importance of tone and delivery and so much more! Tune in every Wednesday for more real life talk!  **Alexa play “Stop (Askin’ Me 4Shyt) by Victoria Monet”   Follow us:  IG: @Whatsthepoint...