What We're Seeing

On this week’s episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin look back on the past four months as they reach the final episode of Season 1. In a full-circle moment, the conversation returns to community (one of the themes that began the podcast ) and to the way a small moment can keep taking up space long after it has passed.

On this week’s episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin continue the same conversation that began in last week’s episode, Why Do I Feel Unsafe Around Men? As the conversation moves on, the focus shifts from fear and safety to aggression, power and the different ways we respond when we feel threatened. What begins with a discussion about being perceived as agg...

On this week’s episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin explore fear, safety and the complicated ways our experiences can shape how we see men. After an attempted break-in leaves Kimberley feeling hypervigilant in her own home, they reflect on the line between responding to real danger and allowing past experiences to become a wider belief about who is safe....

On this week’s episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin explore their relationships with their bodies, from intense self-consciousness at a German spa to inherited body criticism, ageing, grey hair and changing ideas of beauty. They ask what it really means to care for the body rather than constantly trying to correct it, and whether loving your body begins s...

In this episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about noticing the judgments we make about how other people spend their money—and what those reactions might reveal about our own priorities. The conversation moves from designer clothes and expensive handbags into the less visible things money can represent: time, value, security, freedom and the choices...

In this episode of What We're Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about being okay with “I don’t know” when the next step is not yet clear. The conversation moves into trust, the pressure to have a plan, and the moment we realise the feeling we are looking for may already be here. A grounded conversation about uncertainty, trust, and letting life unfold without forci...

In this episode of What We're Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about the fear of getting things wrong and the pressure we create when life does not look the way we thought it would. Together, they explore perfectionism, preparation, self-judgment, and what it really means to trust that we cannot mess life up without bypassing the moments that still feel difficult....

In this episode of What We're Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about being single in their 40s, and the unexpected insights that emerge when we stop seeing it as something to fix. Together, they explore dating, self-worth, discernment, vulnerability, commitment, and the stories we can unknowingly bring into relationships. Along the way, they reflect on what it mea...

In this episode of What We're Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin explore what happens when the life we're trying to create no longer feels aligned with the life we're actually living. The conversation moves through ambition, freedom, old identities, family, belonging, and the invisible expectations we place on ourselves. Kimberley reflects on returning to New Zea...

In this episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about self-trust, dating, boundaries, and the pressure we place on ourselves to get relationships “right.” We explore staying open without abandoning yourself, the fear of speaking uncomfortable truths, and the difference between loving someone’s essence and being honest about what actually feels aligned i...

In this episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about overwhelm, overstimulation, emotional processing, and the stories we can unconsciously inherit about what life is supposed to feel like. We explore the guilt of slowing down, the fear of not appearing busy, and how easily we can absorb other people’s ideas of what should feel “hard.” The conversation...

In this episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin explore religion, spirituality, fear, intuition, cults, truth, and what it means to stay open without losing yourself. What begins as a conversation about church and funerals unfolds into a much bigger discussion around belief systems, fear-based thinking, gurus, media narratives, spiritual seeking, death, disc...

In this episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin explore what really happens when something triggers us, whether it’s rejection, criticism, feeling misunderstood, or simply feeling “too much.” What starts as a conversation about being told what to do turns into a deeper exploration of projection, childhood patterns, nervous system reactions, people-pleasing,...

On this episode of What We're Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about identity, reinvention, and the stories we keep telling about ourselves. We explore the strange in-between periods of life where old versions of ourselves no longer fit, how action creates momentum, and the unconscious ways we recreate familiar patterns through the identities we hold onto. From timeli...

In this episode of What We're Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin explore the idea of belonging. We talk about returning home, friendships changing, feeling disconnected from people we love, and the stories we create about where we fit. Somewhere in the middle of it, we started questioning whether belonging is actually something we can lose at all. A reflective conversation a...

In the very first episode of What We’re Seeing , co-hosts Kimberley Moriarty and Franziska Köslin talk about why honest conversations feel so rare, and why they matter more than ever. We share how we met, the friendship that grew from it, and why creating this podcast felt important to us. Along the way, we explore vulnerability, overthinking, meaningful connection, future worry, holding space for...