What to Say & How to Say It

Carl felt invalidated and accused when his wife came to him to confront him about the missing $2000 in their joint account. He knows he didn't touch it, but her wife keeps accusing him and not letting him defend himself. Join Nina to know what to do and say when you're in this situation when you feel invalidated. Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://g...

Feeling down? Wishing for things to change? Join Nina and Kyle Hargrove as they talk about what to say! Grab our pdf off our website, https://greaterimpact.org

You have spent years trying to connect, trying to have a good marriage, and your spouse just can't seem to understand your concerns, hear your issues, put your needs ahead of theirs, and you are so frustrated, maybe even ready to give up. What do you say? What can you DO? Join Nina & Shy for HOPE and strategy today. Grab our pdf for more help in changing your relationships today at  https://greate...

Your spouse is losing their everlovin' mind all over you, emoting up a storm you'd love to escape from. What to do? How to respond? What options do you have other than acting the same way THEY are, thinking maybe that will get you heard? Not a chance. Join Nina, Shy, and Kyle as they talk through options in this space. Grab the free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org , and STOP Walking...

Everyone knows that internal pressure of being STUCK thinking they HAVE TO do a thing someone wants... what do you do? How do you justify saying NO - especially when you don't want to disappoint the other person? Join Nina & Shy as they take a look at how saying NO could be the best thing for your relationship - and how your own identity issues show up in the struggle. Are YOU dealing with this co...

Does your spouse spend a ton of time on their device? Do you? Learn what that could be doing to your relationship as Nina & Kyle Hargrove talk through the impact our phones are having on our marriages. Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Sarah was 100% sure she knew what her husband was thinking. She "just knew" he was trying to embarrass her in front of her friends when he joked with her last night. What she didn't know was that the odds of her being correct were VERY low. The data is in! Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more -  https://gre...

We know people who just can't see their issues, even when they are right in front of them. Join Nina and Kyle as they talk about dealing with blindness in ourselves and others. Grab the PDF and stop walking on eggshells today -  greaterimpact.org

How do you navigate the challenge of someone lying to you? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this hard topic on today's podcast. Grab our PDF and stop walking on eggshells in your relationships today -  greaterimpact.org

Sometimes we apologize for things that are not ours to own in our relationships. Are you doing that? Sometimes we don't apologize when we need to, thinking the situation will just get better if we don't mention it again. That erodes trust, and can be the beginning of the end. Join Nina as she shares briefly about this topic to change your relationships today - be sure to grab our PDF, Stop Walking...

Did you know masterful conflict skills aren't enough to build a beautiful relationship? We spend a lot of time talking about conflict, but there is one conversation skill that will make a huge difference if you will learn it. Join Nina & Kyle Hargrove as they explore this simple, easy to learn tool. Be sure to grab our pdf off the website,  https:// greaterimpact.org  and stop walking on eggshells...

You know the drill, they are blaming, maybe even blaming YOU, and they just can't see what's real around them. How do you interact with that? What can you say to deal with the dreaded victim mentality? Join Nina and Shy as they explore this topic today! Grab our free pdf, STOP Walking on Eggshells, off our website at  https://greaterimpact.org   and solve some of your relationship issues today!

Dena felt frustrated. Seems like all she ever heard was complaining from her husband. She had fallen into that habit herself, and wondered how to change. Sound familiar? Join Nina as she gives you a tangible thing you can SAY to change your marriage. Stop by our website and grab our free pdf Stop Walking on Eggshells and change your relationships today at  greaterimpact.org

You may have seen a video "It's not about the nail," where a woman is complaining to her husband about head pain and has a nail sticking out of her forehead. He is frustrated, tries to fix her problem, but she resists until he shows compassion. Why are we trying to deal with things in ways that don't work? Join Nina & Kyle as they talk through how the problem really isn't the problem. Grab our fre...

Carol didn't get it... she moved back in with Stefan after they finished the conflict skills week-long training from an international ministry. Thousands of dollars spent. And YES, they had fewer conflicts. Why was she still so unhappy? What was missing? Join Nina as she shares the SAD SURPRISE few know - maybe this secret can help YOU change your marriage today! Check out our FREE pdf, Stop Walki...

Maybe you feel like you need to protect your spouse from your feelings, maybe you think the people at church wouldn't accept you if they knew what you really think. Maybe you are scared to tell your kids you don't really know what you are doing in a tough situation at home... sound familiar? Join Nina and Kyle Hargrove as they take a look at the challenges of authenticity, and faking it in our rel...

Loraine knew that she was NOT to blame for her husband's gambling debt. She knew the depletion of their savings was entirely his choice. Angered, feeling alone, she worried about how they would make ends meet. It wasn't fair that he'd done this to them. Join Nina and Kyle as they explore what savvy spouses do to deal with outcomes they didn't have a choice in. Grab our pdf, STOP Walking on Eggshel...

Jeffrey felt frustrated with trying to get his wife to understand how her behavior affected him. He'd brought up the rude comments she made to her dad about him felt, and she dismissed him. How could he get her to see her behavior was damaging their marriage? Can you relate? Join Nina and Shy as they talk about how taking responsibility is an issue for many relationships, and what you can do about...

You know the feeling, words come out sideways at you, and BAM! damage is done. How do you deal with unjust criticism before it happens and after? What's often the cause? Join Nina & Shy as they dig into this marriage-destroying behavior. Be sure to grab our pdf on how to STOP Walking on Eggshells from https://greaterimpact.org

You've been praying and begging God to move... and finally He does! NOW WHAT? Be careful or you'll get in the way of the coming awesome! Tune in to Nina and Kyle as they chat about this phenomenon that makes or breaks marriages - dealing with change. Be sure to grab our pdf on how to STOP Walking on Eggshells from  https://greaterimpact.org

Are you tired of being tired? Fed up with the stress of trying to fix your relationship? Are you wondering what you could be doing differently to salvage your marriage and family? Join Nina and Kyle as they discuss three things you have to stop doing to save your marriage. It starts with you. Dig into our free pdf on "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at  https://greaterimpact.org and build co...

#ThrowbackEpisode Tonya stared with disbelief at her coworker, Elise. The words spoken over her were hateful, mean, not to mention unprofessional. Elise had a reputation for being a powder keg, and most of the staff avoided her as they never knew what would set her off. We all have a relationship with someone who has a short fuse. That anger often triggers an anger response in us, and so the cycle...

Wondering why you keep having challenging situations, frustrating outcomes, or disagreements? Wishing you could STOP feeling like garbage and being taken advantage of? Join Nina and Licensed Professional Counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as they discuss two things you have to stop doing to save your marriage. Be sure to skim our free pdf on "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.o...

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, listen to Nina & Shy as they explore what are the 3 keys to becoming a respected person in our relationships. Join them and learn more! Get more help from our free pdf, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells on our website,  https://greaterimpact.org

Your spouse comes home late again, doesn't call, doesn't text, and you notice the chore they said they'd do is still undone. Moreover, no real communication other than kid logistics for months, and sex is hardly happening.... What to do? Check out today's episode where Nina and Shy discuss what to do to not give up, and get more help from our free pdf, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells on our w...