What Tha Group Chat Say

This week, we're taking the group chat on the road! Instead of recording in our usual setup, we grabbed our microphones and headed to Paint at the Park at Chase Field for a night of painting, baseball, laughs, and catching up with friends. And yes... George made another appearance. 😉 In this episode, we talk about: ⚾ Recording live from Chase Field during Paint at the Park 🎨 Why painting might...

Episode 14: We're Back! We're back! ❤️ After a month away, the group chat is finally back behind the mic—and we've got a lot to catch up on. This episode feels exactly like jumping back into your friends' group chat after everyone's been busy living life. We catch up on new relationships, international travel, funny neighborhood stories, and everything that's happened while we've been away. In thi...

This conversation started with relationships, faith, and emotional safety… but turned into a deeper discussion about religion, spirituality, judgment, and personal growth. In this episode, we talk about: Religion vs spirituality and how people define both differently Church hurt and judgment inside religious spaces The pressure some women feel to stay in unhealthy relationships Respecting differen...

This episode started with a TikTok clip… and quickly turned into a much deeper conversation about marriage, religion, abuse, self-worth, and knowing when it’s time to leave. We talk openly about: The pressure some women feel to “just pray on it” How religion can sometimes be used to encourage women to stay in unhealthy situations The difference between faith and manipulation Emotional abuse, contr...

Episode 11: Keya Back On The Hot Seat We’re revisiting Episode 2 because after listening back… we realized we barely scratched the surface. This time, Keya opens up more about her second divorce, what counseling did (and didn’t) fix, learning to recognize red flags, and how faith shaped the way she approached marriage and relationships. The conversation naturally turns into something even bigger:...

We had a plan for this episode… and then completely ignored it 😂 If you’ve ever been in a group chat, you already know— the conversation never stays where it started. One minute we’re talking about one thing… next minute we’re somewhere completely different That’s exactly what this episode is. In this episode, we get into: Random stories and real-life moments Relationships, dating, and everything...

This episode started with a couple of cheating scandals… and turned into a real conversation about relationships, double standards, and why people cheat in the first place. From public scandals to personal experiences, we’re talking about: Why the blame often falls harder on women The double standards between men and women when it comes to cheating Whether cheating is about opportunity, ego, or so...

This episode started with a question… but turned into a real conversation about co-parenting. What happens when one parent moves on, gets married, and now a new partner is part of the household? That’s where things can get complicated. In this episode, Keya and Drea share real experiences navigating co-parenting—from setting boundaries to figuring out what respect and discipline should look like a...

This episode? The group chat puts Vonnie on the spot 😅 We’re going all the way back to the beginning—how it started, what those early days looked like, and how a fast-moving, unconventional relationship turned into something that’s lasted over 20 years. And let’s just say… it did NOT start how you’d expect. From wild first impressions to questionable decisions (that somehow worked out), the conve...

The group chat is doing what it does best… having opinions. In this episode, we’re reacting to real-life situations, relationship dynamics, and questions straight from our audience. From vulnerability in dating to boundaries, communication, and what’s actually worth working through, this conversation goes everywhere—in the best way. We’re talking about: What it really means to be “unfinished” in a...

This is Part 2 of Drea’s story. In Part 1, things escalated quickly. In this episode, we sit with what came after. From arrest and court to losing stability and trying to rebuild, this conversation walks through the real-life impact of what happens when a situation goes too far. Not just in the moment—but in everything that follows. Drea shares what that time looked like for her: navigating the le...

How Situationships Started for Me… and Where It Led Me (Part 1) This one is real. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Drea opens up about how her experiences with relationships and situationships started, and how those early patterns shaped what she accepted, expected, and normalized over time. What begins as a conversation about dating and blurred lines turns into something deeper. We talk a...

Travel sounds like a great idea… until the group chat actually leaves the house. In this episode, the conversation turns to trips, travel habits, and the reality of being outside in your 40s. From overpacked suitcases to questionable vacation decisions, the group chat shares stories about traveling with friends and the moments that didn’t quite go as planned. Some trips bring people closer togethe...

Episode 2: Red Flags Are Red Flags In this episode, the group chat gets honest. Keya shares her story about marriage, divorce, and the lessons that come from looking back at relationships with clearer eyes. From marrying young to navigating the emotional toll of a relationship that slowly stopped working, we talk about the moments where you realize something isn’t right… even when you try to convi...

Welcome to What Tha Group Chat Say. Three lifelong friends. Three different paths. One group chat that has seen it all — and now it has a mic. In our very first episode, we’re bringing you into the conversation. We talk about how our friendship started, how life took us in different directions, and why we finally decided to press record. You’ll hear real conversations about life in your 40s — the...