What left the group chat.

Nobody's Coming to Save You: Life Without Our Village. This week Jill, Mati & Tahj get into the one thing nobody warns you about when you raise a family in the diaspora: doing it all without your village. From the aunties, grandmothers and church family who raised us, to FaceTime grandparents 17 hours away, marriages that have to become a two-person team, and the bittersweet pull of a home...

Our first season was a massive achievement, marked by engaging discussions and heartfelt connections. We initially envisioned our audience as women like us, navigating life and its challenges. However, the feedback revealed a much broader demographic, including listeners from various backgrounds who found resonance in our conversations. This unexpected outreach has been heartwarming and proves the...

In this final episode of season 1, Mati, Tahj and Jill explore the complexities of adult friendships, sharing personal anecdotes about friendship auditions, parenting, and the challenges of maintaining relationships. They discuss the importance of resilience, the dynamics of making new friends, and the emotional weight of friendship trauma. The dialogue emphasises the need for understanding and fl...

In this episode, Jill takes Mati and Tahj into the into the concept of the mental load, particularly as it pertains to women of colour in Australia. They discuss the unique challenges faced by black women in predominantly white spaces, the invisible burdens of responsibility in parenting, and the cultural expectations that shape their experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of part...

In this conversation, Mati, Tahj & Jill discuss their experiences as women of colour living in Australia, focusing on the current climate of unrest related to race and anti immigration protests. They share personal feelings of heaviness and anger in response to anti-immigration rallies and reflect on their identities as proud migrants who have contributed positively to the country. The discuss...

In this engaging conversation, Mati, Tahj and Jill share personal stories about how they met their partners, the cultural expectations surrounding marriage, and the adjustments that come with married life. The discussion highlights the journey of love, the reality of marriage, and the growth that comes from shared experiences. Ultimately, they reflect on the importance of being intentional in rela...

In this episode of 'What Left the Group Chat', Mati, Tahj and Jill discuss their personal experiences as Black women raising children in a predominantly white society. They share highs and lows from their week, touching on the challenges of parenting, particularly in relation to cultural identity and racial dynamics. The conversation delves into their pregnancy and birth experiences, child...

In this engaging conversation, Mati, Tahj and Jill explore various themes surrounding beauty standards, personal journeys, and cultural identity. They share personal anecdotes about family, reality TV, and the impact of community on self-perception. The discussion delves into the evolution of beauty standards, the significance of hair in identity, and reflections on aging and body image. The ladie...

This week, Mati, Tahj, and Jill dive into showing up authentically at work, with a focus on the unique challenges Black women face in professional settings. They talk about navigating code switching, staying true to themselves, and the ways that culture, hair, and appearance come into play in the workplace. It’s a real and insightful conversation about balancing professionalism with authenticity....

In this inaugural episode of 'What Left the Group Chat', Mati, Tahj, and Jill introduce themselves and share their personal journeys as women of colour living in the diaspora. They discuss the importance of creating a supportive space for women, the challenges and joys of navigating cultural identity, and the entrepreneurial spirit that drives them. The conversation highlights the signific...