We're Not Fine

In this episode Doug and Dr Talia speak with Dr Kate Henry about Slow Productivity; a holistic, sustainable and well-being oriented approach to success. Who knew that was even possible? WNF family, this approach is for you if you are burnt out, exhausted, think of yourself as unmotivated, lazy, or if you struggle with chronic health issues. This approach is also for you if you are a workaholic and...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia take on New Year’s Resolutions. Why do so many of us struggle to keep our commitments to ourselves? Why is will power not enough? We tell you all the secrets to setting yourselves up for success and teach you science backed strategies to make your resolutions stick! We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shop Instagram: @were...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia Jackson discuss the concept of happiness; the hedonic treadmill, dopamine chasing, whether it is an absence of pain or existence of fulfillment, and we answer the question you have asked yourself “Can money buy happiness?” We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shop Instagram: @werenotfinepod Doug Jensen Profile: https://were...

In this bonus episode, Dr Talia Jackson and Dr Sterlin Mosley talk about narcissism as it relates to the enneagram. We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shop Instagram: @werenotfinepod Doug Jensen Profile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/ Email: contact@werenotfine.com IG: douglasljensen Twitter: dougjensen4Cs Dr. Talia Jackson Profile: https://werenotfine....

In Part One of our Two Part Guest Spot episode, Dr Talia shares her Summit from the Unlock Your Child’s Full Potential podcast with Billy Ivanova, and breaks down how to foster an emotionally intelligent home. Dr Talia also gives practical tips about boosting your own emotional intelligence and that of your children. In Part Two of this episode, Doug shares his amazing conversation with Kelly Gros...

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug can’t get enough of Professor and Narcissism researcher and author, Dr Sterlin Mosley. Be enlightened, shocked and validate. You will not believe all of the nooks and crannies of the narcissistic experience, nature vs nurture, and that’s not all… learn to spot signature narcissist moves you might not have recognized until now. https://amzn.to/47I90Am We're Not Fi...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia tackle the most common stressors of the season with humor and one or two harsh slaps of seasonal realism. We offer some suggestions about creating your new holiday traditions. HAPPY HOLIDAYS, WNF Family! We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shop Instagram: @werenotfinepod Doug Jensen Profile: https://werenotfine.com/our-tea...

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug respond to some Thanksgiving mail bags. Whether the holidays are a time of great heart warming joy and anticipation for you , or dread, loneliness and obligation, we embrace you and want to share it with you. Gobble Gobble, WNF Family! We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shop Instagram: @werenotfinepod Doug Jensen Profile:...

In this episode Dr Talia and Doug have a conversation with Heather and Marshall, a couple that met in an unexpected online connection and show us how they are working on their individual traumas together in real time. Discussion of abuse from about the 10 to 20 minute mark for those that want to skip. They touch on imposter syndrome, parenting, intimacy, and how they show up with honesty and benev...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia ask the controversial question “Does it always take two to tango” in every relationship, every problem, every fight, every break up? And the answer is a resounding YES… but with one big caveat. Tune in to hear our mail bag episode and if you are watching on YouTube, check out our new lighting. We are feeling ourselves! Want to start having juicy conversations wit...

In this episode, we speak with Lia Lamella, previous guest (see our 07/25/23 episode), talented electrician and thought leader, who is single handedly changing the culture in and around the skilled trades. In this collaborative episode we elevate the conversation around the stigma of mental health, the narratives around the stereotypes both genders have to battle in the industry, as well as creati...

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug have another mind blowing conversation with their favorite psychic and medium, Kaya Jelani. She answers more of their thousands of questions; what actually is our purpose on this planet, what is deja vous, how do you manifest your next great thing, what do full body chills mean, do your pets find you in the afterlife, and learn a shocking truth about how the univ...

In today’s episode, Doug and Dr. Talia acknowledge the traumatic stress impacting all of us after the terrorist attack on Israel and the cascade of horror that has unfolded since. Global crises cause peripheral traumatic stress to those directly affected, of course, as well as those at every level of caring. We talk about the symptoms of traumatic stress, we give you strategies to care for yoursel...

Nick shares how his experience of grief and feeling like an outsider has in fact been a gift of heightened observation, a unique perspective, and an unmistakable style of magical realism. We talk introversion, creativity, relationships, finding inner peace. Prepare to be blown away. “We find a part of ourselves we didn't know existed, a soul mate. Souls touching Souls, that is the power of art." @...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Dr April Brown about intimacy; why it is crucial and how to improve it in all areas of our lives to enrich our experience, and not just in the bedroom! https://www.draprilbrown.com/?fbclid=PAAaZBePrNHrQBSLs5Gw--M-WHNEUUx8WgUysVtJIRzCHuFzWo3t4vaV5X4VE_aem_AQrBKLtQiAomm-IWDtsD4lgpH8epAYX7tzBDE3HayWvYD0vu6tXhlOSG7kziAvBRLSY We're Not Fine https://werenotfine...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Susan Gold, endurance athlete, A-List Talent Agent, and Author of Toxic Family: Transforming Childhood Trauma into Adult Freedom. As Susan shares her journey through childhood abuse, navigating a marriage and divorce from a narcissist, as well as deep diving into her own healing work and leaning in to a brutally honest life, we offer a trigger warning. Li...

Why is talking about money so terrifying to most people? Emmy nominated TV journalist and President of Platinum Wealth Management, Jennifer Rogers Markwell, teaches us about the connection between our money memories and our unresolved issues around money as adults. She walks us through a mindset shift around facing our own finances and how to have these once fraught conversations with our partners...

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug look at all angles of the theory that opposites attract but don't last. Some qualities need to be aligned, or at least complimentary, for a couple to thrive and not wear on each other’s last nerve. And they might not be what you think! We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shop Instagram: @werenotfinepod Doug Jensen Profile...

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia take on a mail-bag from a young man who has found that the change to domestic life and adulting together has sucked all of the sexiness and spark from their three year relationship. We share the tricks of the trade to reigniting interest in each other, spicing up your conversations, turning up the spark in the bedroom and reconnecting to your initial reasons&nbs...

Ethical leadership coach and public speaker, Shana Francesca, shares her powerful story of growing up in an alt right Evangelical Christian cult, in an abusive family and an abusive community. She opens up about using her inner resources of curiosity and creativity to take ownership of her life and create an empowered narrative. Be amazed and inspired with us as Shana tells us about her lived expe...

Show notes: https://werenotfine.com/episode-54/ In this week’s episode, Dr. Talia and Doug cut to the chase with a handful of mailbags from friends who know exactly why their friends are still single but don’t know how to break it to them. We can all learn from these cautionary tales and course correct before our best friend tells us their opinion of our toxic traits. There is nothing better than...

View the show notes here: https://werenotfine.com/episode-53/ In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug talk to Dr. Henry Emmons, a Holistic Psychiatrist blending soul with science, about how to boost your resilience, become more disappointment proof and learn to sit with your internal chaos long enough to make a more mindful next step. We're Not Fine https://werenotfine.com Shop the Pod: https://wereno...

You hate your friend’s partner or even worse, your friends hate your partner! In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia help a few listeners navigate this treacherous situation as the hater, the hated, or as the one in the middle. Tune in to weigh all of your options, ask yourself some challenging questions, and show up in ways that feel good to you regardless of the role you might be playing in this di...

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug talk to Lia Lamela, a spunky and incredibly resilient woman who shares with them her harrowing story of falling in love and having the illusion of a loving marriage chipped away day by day until it became a matter of life and death. Hear how she turned her fear into urgent action even when there seemed to be no way out. We’re Not Fine Family, we want you to be a...

In this episode Doug and Dr. Talia hear from two different people who have had opposite but equally miserable anniversaries. One is hurt by his girlfriend’s lack of effort, and the other is devastated that her boyfriend is disappointed in her gift. Who needs to step up? This episode tackles how to deal with disappointment, how to level set your expectations and clearly communicate them, and how to...