Well Since We're Here!

In "Celebrity Standards: The Kelly Rowland Dressing Room Debate," viewers are taken behind the scenes of a contentious incident involving singer Kelly Rowland and her alleged departure from the Today Show. As rumors swirl about the reasons for her abrupt exit, ranging from diva behavior to pregnancy concerns, the episode explores the broader issues of celebrity treatment and fairness in the entert...

host Gucci reflects on personal growth, navigating difficult family dynamics, and the importance of mental health. He shares his journey of quitting smoking, rejoining counseling, and confronting unresolved issues with his father. Through candid storytelling, Gucci explores the concept that "two things can be true at the same time," drawing parallels between personal experiences and societal react...

Get comfortable and prepare for an uncensored deep-dive into the untouched topic of natural sex and personal hygiene. With our special guest Zaire, we peel back the layers on body hair preferences, body odors, and their role in our sexual encounters. Is there a place for real body smells in the bedroom? What does natural sex truly mean to you? Let's bust the taboos and get real about the nitty-gri...

Would you dare to redefine the traditional relationship practices you've grown accustomed to? Brace yourself for an enlightening discourse on polyamory, with our guest Zaire, an experienced practitioner, who generously shares his explorations and journey. We wander through the meandering paths of multiple romantic relationships, probing the discreet layers of love, openness, and the possibility of...

Get ready for some truth bombs as we tackle the divisive issue of LGBTQ+ identity and stigma, spotlighting the contrasting reactions towards Dwight Howard, accused of being part of the LGBTQ+ community, and an anti-LGBTQ+ pastor-mayor. We're taking a hard look at the necessity for proactive advocacy for marginalized communities, honing in on respect and understanding for those bold enough to own t...

You know how it feels when you struggle to put a jigsaw puzzle together, but the final piece just doesn't fit, no matter how hard you try? That's often how it feels for parents trying to understand and support their LGBTQ children. We often wonder – what's the right way to handle these situations? Well, fear not, because we are armed with insights and advice from a mother who's been there and done...

Ever wondered how labels and toxic masculinity impact the gay community? We'll unpack this complex issue and examine the implications of identifying as 'strict top' or 'bottom'. We're taking an honest look at the challenges and pressures these labels introduce, and the effect it can have on relationships. From inadvertently missing potential partners to suppressing genuine desires for the sake of...

Does the approval of others truly define our worth? Does it shape our identity or limit our potential? Join me, Gucci, your host, as we dive headfirst into a riveting conversation about acceptance, identity, and the power of self-worth. Drawing from personal experiences of growing up in a Southern Baptist and Native American household, I offer an intimate insight into the challenges faced by the L...

In the relentless pursuit of the elusive 50-50 relationship, are we losing sight of what truly matters? Join me, Gucci, as we untangle the intricacies of relationships, taking a deep dive into the realities of shared responsibilities and income imbalances. We explore how striving for an equal exchange between different income levels can often lead to overextension, and why it's crucial to recogniz...

From the depths of self-hatred to the peaks of self-love, let's journey across the rugged terrain of my personal transformation. You'll witness how I battled with internalizing my differences initially as a tool of self-torture, only to later wield it as a weapon of strength. Drawn from my experiences, we'll unravel the complexities of our behaviors and how awareness of such can ignite growth and...

Because we screw, that doesn’t mean I do! TFYM? Just because we had a great time sexually and the vibe was high, I’m now sober and realize it was just a one time thing! How do I severe ties with someone who I don’t see in my future plans without being disrespectful and rude?  It was just great sex but what’s next ? Don’t let lustful actions make you bite off more than you can chew Great sex doesn’...

Are you religious meaning you congregate with your perspective religious choice and freedom? Or do you have a relationship with GOD outside of a religious organization?  Do you congregate or fellowship within your chosen religion or have a separate relationship with GOD? Do you attend church ? Fondest and darkest memories attending religious services  Aunt S, L Sunday morning routine    2. Are the...

They say opposites attract! But how far is too far adjacent! In regard to compatibility how much do you prefer to have in common with potential life partner? Why being opposite may work in relationships The adventure of always guessing the next move Sometimes having your own identity outside of us is helping to remaining you at the core  When we both think or act the same it gets boring    2. The...

Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss; Who do I believe I mean versus who I really meant to someone else?  Understanding your value and worth as it pertains to interconnected people interactions! Am I a place holder? Accepting your position or role in someone else’s life Having realistic expectations of the role you play in other people lives across all aspects! Expecta...

What you heard is not what I meant! When you internalize your partners truth and wish they lied to coddle you and your feelings Easy on that salt and pepper shaker bitch  Sometimes the truth is painful so be prepared if you seek answers    2.Learn to not only listen but to hear! Don’t listen to respond. When you become defensive and listen to rebuttal but not actually to learn what the real issues...

Having expectations that aren’t merited in our personal relationships! Wanting the lions share of the harvest and haven’t sowed a seed Steak and lobster on my dime ? Can I get a number  Double standards in our community    2. If you was a ain’t shit family member don’t expect shit parents included  Absenteeism in my life but present for the rewards and benefits Im financially stable because of my...

                               ***Sweetest Day Special and Podcast Sneak Peek*** Ways to show your spouse you love them with non monetary gifts!  Budget friendly gifts that shows thought and consideration.  Saying I love and appreciate you usually works!  “Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” Support the show “Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c...

Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss;   The Ways ,I as a Gay POC may have to navigate the world in, “ This is not a test!” Ways I have to minimize who I am in order to remain respected  Pretending to  be straight or overly masculine  Overly feminine or a like a caricature of oneself (think Wanda, sheneneh, madea, quite the opposite of Vera because other variety or skit...