Wealth, Yoga , Wine

The Mindset of Perseverance   There is a right and wrong way to pursuing a goal, that big achievement.   According to Price Pritchett, Perseverance can be killing your dream if you are being STUBBORN and not trying something different.   https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxXccX2Jt_6PMj9vtutLgiaCdo2CeUz30d?si=M1CUYsgXNnEIOA0T       https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxdK36QlhRjDOq4V90r1jUHoXdk8mYwoHN?si=EVPtGL7m2...

The Mindset of Venting There are seven rules to FAIR FIGHTING You can have a fight with your boss, a coworker, friend or loved one. Knowing the seven rules will really really improve your life! Two rules for this podcast: Ask permission to   V ENT DON'T gunnysack Luckily I was in therapy for thirty years - on and off,  with the best person I could possibly have. She taught me sooo much. The last f...

Misplaced Anger Have you ever been shocked, nonplussed by someone's anger toward you, feeling as though the situation simply didn't warrant explosive anger?? We have all been there haven't we. When we choose anger to deal with a misunderstanding..we simply don't have an "emotional vocabulary to repond in a healthier fashion.. The person who chose anger as the emotion to address a misunderstanding...

Where do you even start if you want to change your "WHATEVER.."     Let's take COCO GAUFF   https://youtube.com/clip/Ugkx_rHsUn5ueVYX7xFkNF0GqH1bB-6Jk40x?si=tY9MBkIx8G5V8cW youngest athlete at 19 years of age to win the US OPEN since 1999 to win. She tells us that she "adjusted slightly"   Also her dad who said that "you need to change things up I can't coach you any longer.." Now that's a seismic...

The mindset of Change   " LOOK INSIDE at what pulls at your consciousness, for there you'll find direction" says Dr. Price Pritchett.   "Your dreams, your desires, the thoughts that burn the hottest in your MIND ….point the way … to a new breakthrough.." I left New York before I sold my 40 acres and three houses ( and retired from a lucrative wine career) because I wanted a different life: no bliz...

The mindset of being unprepared - HURRICANES and other life challenges   Don't overthink getting prepared, think like a minimalist. Less is more.   Do your research from reliable sources Reliable sources are NOT your friends Mass media will give extreme views   Do prepare for your pets ....and the " what- if" something happens to YOU Who will take your pets Who will care for YOU. Even a small life...

Tending now - Collaborations Will Take You to Quantum Leaps Have you ever met someone and thought this is a good person to know? This can be business or a colleague   Recently I was interviewed by Paul Finkelstein, whom I met via Alignable. This interview process has created an interesting collaboration because it is out of my realm.   Meaning, that he is not in the podcaster industry nor in the p...

Pushing the envelope: Competition kills Creativity and Your Spirit Recent EXAMPLES:   The Women's Worldcup ended in disaster for the us, the United States … that is, according to the team mates, sports writers and announcers.   Listen up and then I'll comment on why this competitive attitude killed their chances.   'USWNT is playing to not lose, not playing to win'"   https://youtube.com/clip/Ugkx...

If you've been bullied on Social media .. Use this video clip to send to the bully..   https://apple.news/AJ0HHTOwzRNmkKB4zmv1M-Q   While bullying is NOT funny, I think when you address that person with this funny video called BULLY CATS… they will get your message to BACK OFF.   Cyber bullying is here to stay. Something that I read on Linkedin recently made me realize that there is also a " passi...

Why BASEBALL... Because there are some really funny videos and it's keeping with my summer attitude   Baseball funny videos -   https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&channel=ipad_bm&cs=0&sxsrf=AB5stBgD1zCV_N1nMmN_BE7XXje5CBs7Dg:1689625790652&q=Baseball+funny+videos&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwi1w7LIypaAAxWQsoQIHZ85DykQpboHKAN6BAgBEAk&biw=834&bih=998&dpr=2#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:51ead53c,vid:UAYs3XczBa4   ...

Not everyone is cut out for marriage or a longtime relationship   Project Everlasting is a summe read by Mat Boggs providing guidance for people in marriage and  relationships. My takeaways from this small book is really the backstory:   Mat Boggs wrangled his best friend, Jason Miller to embark on a 12,600 mile cross country trip and exploration.   Their mission: to interview long lasting love ma...

Matters of the Heart     4 Quadrants that comprise our Life:   Love & Relationships   Vocation   Health and Wellness     Time and Money Freedom     These are Mat Boggs five top relationship books that changed his life:     https://youtu.be/jwsunFF_3Ag   GOOD SUMMER READING     KUNDALINI yoga KIDS CAMP https://youtu.be/pTCTsGi7de0   MADE IN MEDITATION In a world of increasing distractions, children...

Texting someone you are attracted to https://youtube.com/shorts/EjDWDRv6wJs?feature=share   5 Secrets to Texting Someone You Might Like | Dating Advice for People by Mat Boggs Don't text your entire day, don't text you're bored,     Playfulness and Planning   Meaning is it going to brighten someone's day when they hear from you   Planning as in logistics: where, when, what time     Add value to th...

Top Ten Mistakes We All Make   on a First Date 1) Being Negative - you want the date to be fun 2) Asking "Daterview " Questions- don't grill your date 3) Being rude to the wait staff , someone who takes your money.. at a sporting event etc.. ( the date might think that  you will eventually exhibit the same "bad manners" to them.. 4) Talking about your former relationships - being resentful, angry...

Summer romance versus the real thing Romance, dating, flirting these are timeless ——- in our daily lives.    However dating has changed dramatically since the pandemic and that's why you will want Mat Bog's guidance.    I listen to Mat Boggs because his advice on relationships is funny, insightful and he has tips for men and women based on his twenty years experience.   For instance here's one of...

Cultural RESPECT as a Digital Nomad.. Don't be the Ugly American     If you believe that you are NATURALLY   polite, listen up to these cultural nuances i n certain countries as  it's super important to KNOW the SPECIFIC QUIRKS.. For instance VOCE - which is the familiar pronoun form for YOU..BUT.. IT is very rude in European Portugese AND even stranger..They will use your name when speaking to yo...

Digital Nomads - Think Outside the Box   Are excited to embrace the differences that each country holds? For instance, the slower pace is huuuge in Portugal, Spain and even the French country side.   " You can't change Portugal, but you can change the way you fit in to Portugal " says Nick from Algarve Addicts.   Polite!   Europeans are far more polite than Americans.   It's something we don't hav...

Imagine moving to your new country of choice not knowing anyone..   Liz Sharma @ Talk the streets did exactly that six years ago.   It's been a wild ride also as she met her new husband at the very first MEET UP that she attended.   Here's a great video of that explains it all https://youtu.be/XioGL6l7z1o AND a bonus video for those who will plan their first exploration trip https://youtu.be/iDsD0...

Time management vs TASK MANAGEMENT   There is no such thing as Time Management even though we hear this repeatedly. We all have twenty four hours in our days.   The TASKS - our ACTIONS - are what leads us to completion ..reachung our goals, achieving success. Trying to manage the clock, is similar to managing the   moon phases, the sun, the stars.  Here's an example:   I recently took a class from...

Investors, Takers, versus GIVERS Mentality   Owning a startup or creating a new service requires capital After selling my 40 acres and three houses I was left with no money to invest for a new adventure   In the past, I borrowed from my best friend.   A good investor..very rare..an even better best friend.      Listen to the podcast for tips   to guide you and to warn you against the takers.   An...

Imposter syndrome part 1   Life Coaches abound everywhere . I even got " sucked" into the process   when I was researching a   career change. Sadly a lot of people do.. One aspect of this Imposter syndrome is that people , I believe, are simply looking at the money they will make. That is the underlying angle when you are " pitched."    Remember however, what attracted you to this industry.. You D...

Have you ever met someone who is the most helpful, smart, honest, all those good qualities and will genuinely help you in your business.. I met such a colleague on Instagram. This gentleman has the most unique, interesting and eclectic ( in a good way) podcast. WVuncommonplace   He is especially knowledgeable with all kinds of technology and likes to guide me on improving my podcast.   One week in...

Progress versus Perfection   Start before you are ready, Dr. Price Pritchett tells us..   Are you someone who overthinks, hesitates, asks way too many people for their opinions before you take that big leap for your dream? Magic comes alive when you take baby steps toward a goal, a project, your big dream Here is an example of a cool little startup business by a woman who created her new venture d...

"I used to be ordinary, says Dr.   Wayne Dyer. Then I discovered that I actually wanted to lead an extraordinary life where it ascends the ordinary of paying taxes, having one career, raising children. We all do this.   Something in my soul was calling to me to do more" https://www.drwaynedyer.com Here is an example of someone who transcends the "ordinary life" of mom, wife, employee. She began a...

Do you have what it takes to be a good story teller? It's a trick question because I'm specifically talking about professional speaking with an audience. Maybe a wedding.   Or a eulogy Here's what it takes:   Has to be about you or something you know by heart.   No NOTES.   True story.   Funny is better than dramatic I share an old story about my prankster days when I was a corporate researcher. L...