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Episode 145 is here and we definitely didn’t stick to the script 😭🎙️ We opened with looksmaxxing and the Woo Lady conversation that we genuinely needed to have 👀 Ls and Wins of the week that had us fully in our feelings 💕 And then we need to talk about The Polygamist. Because we do. 💀 And then the Reddit post. His wife is having an affair with her boss. He found out. And he wants to know if he...

She helped clean his house 😭 She brought snacks for everyone. She just wanted everyone to have a good time. 💕 His friends arrived. Everything seemed fine. Then one of his friends made a joke about couples spending too much time together. Her boyfriend looked at her and told her to leave. In front of everyone💀 That night he texted her like nothing had happened. 😳 Steph & Tia had a lot to sa...

Episode 143 is here and this week we have a very special guest 🎙️ Audrey Indome from The ReceiptsPodcast joined us and we went everywhere 😭💕 Oversharing and setting boundaries with your parents. Driving struggles and dodgy driving instructors. Club culture, throwback outfits and finding your style. Reality TV and what's next for Audrey. 💕 The evolution of the podcast scene, dealing with public...

She's been seeing this guy for a little while 💕 He bought her Ben & Jerry's. She is lactose intolerant. She ate half the pint anyway. 💀 She clogged his toilet. She found the plunger. She fixed it. 😭 But there's no toilet brush. And she is on Reddit at 3am asking for help. Quickly. 💀 What would you have done? 👇 ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJu...

Episode 141 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️ Is clipping controversial takes actually worth the hype or is it just causing unnecessary drama? 👀 A war scare in Hackney that we genuinely need to discuss 😭 Queen Camilla got done dirty and we have thoughts 👀 The Michael Jackson conversation that needed to happen 💀 Is sexual attraction actually important in relationships and the stigma...

⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of self worth, childhood trauma, depression and relationships. Please take care of yourself while listening 💕 She believes she is too ugly to deserve loyalty. Too unworthy to expect faithfulness. The post broke our hearts. 😭 This one is for anyone who has ever believed they were too much or not enough to be loved properly. You are not. 💕 📞...

Episode 139 is here and we opened with a wardrobe sized crocodile that we need to discuss 😭💀 Then the birthday present struggle that every couple knows!  Finding your confidence in your 30s and where Steph & Tia are with their wellness journeys right now 💕 And then the Reddit post. She tested positive. Her partnerS refuses to get tested. 😳 Steph & Tia had absolutely no patience for thi...

His father's 90th birthday party 😭 Family flew in from everywhere. It was warm. It was emotional. It was beautiful. And then someone from his past walked through the door. 💀 14 years disappeared in an instant. 😳 Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️ Have you ever unexpectedly encountered the person connected to your deepest heartbreak? 👇 ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive c...

Episode 137 is here and this week we went somewhere really real 😭🎙️ From difficult conversations in friendships that nobody wants to start, to the insecurities that live inside female friendships that we rarely talk about honestly 💕 Peptide debate part 2 because apparently we weren't done 💀 And then the Reddit post. She went on a girls trip overseas with her closest friends. She came back havin...

She said no to him for 2 to 3 years 😭 He was persistent. She was a people pleaser. She eventually said yes. They got married when she was 18. She's in her early 20s now and she doesn't recognise herself anymore. 💀 No friends. No family to turn to. Can't afford to leave. And she just woke up. 😳 Steph & Tia had a lot to say and none of it was gentle 🎙️ Drop your thoughts below 👇 ➡️ Subscribe...

Episode 135 is here and we came with everything 😭🎙️ We open with bronchitis news that nobody asked for, then get into the most ridiculous thing we bought during covid that we need to talk about 💀 Then peptides — what on earth are they, why is everyone taking them and should we be worried? 👀 And then there's the Reddit post… Her boyfriend disappeared all night. His kids were still there. She had...

This week's Reddit Realness went somewhere really tender 😭🎙️ She went on a first date. He was sweet. He walked her home in the rain. They talked about books. She felt safe for the first time in a very long time. 💕 And she's punishing herself for all of it. 😭 The way she talks about herself in this post is the part that Steph & Tia could not move past. Drop your thoughts below 👇 ➡️ Subscrib...

Episode 133 is here and we are not tiptoeing around anything this week 😭🎙️ We open with a conversation that needed to happen and then we get into the therapy conversation that Black women specifically have been waiting for someone to have honestly 💕 Finding a therapist who actually gets it. Who gets you. Who doesn't make you feel like you have to explain your entire cultural context before you c...

Her neighbour's son has been flirting with her for a year 😳 She told her husband. His reaction gave her the ick more than the neighbour ever could. 💀 Steph & Tia could not move on from this one 🎙️ Was the husband wrong or is she overreacting? Drop your verdict 👇 ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a...

Episode 131 is here and this week we have THREE Reddit dilemmas and not one of them has a clean answer 😭🎙️ From the struggles of maintaining friendships as adults, to the Ls and Ws of the week — And then the Reddit posts. 💀 She believed he was cheating. He wasn't. She ended it. Now she knows the truth. Now she wants him back. He is not interested. 😳 Her husband's best friend is back in the pict...

During her pregnancy something felt wrong 😭 Her gut was telling her something. She even had a nightmare about it. He told her she was just anxious. She believed him. 💕 Years later he confessed. 😳 And everything she felt back then? She was right. 💀 Now he wants forgiveness because at least he eventually told the truth. She's not sure she can. 😭 Steph & Tia had a lot to say and none of it w...

Episode 129 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️ From the real cost of holiday prep that nobody talks about honestly, to the worst online purchases we've ever made and fully regretted 💀 Then the big feet conversation that every woman with big feet has been waiting for someone to finally have 😭 And then there's the Reddit post. His wife believes she is the prize. Not in a healthy self wo...

This week's Reddit Realness and we are fully on the bride's side 😭🎙️ She has spent almost a year planning her wedding. She has gone above and beyond for every single guest. 💕 Enter her best friend of 15 years. Let's just say she has never had to do anything for herself. 💀 She has one request for the wedding. The bride said no. And the fallout? 😳 We cannot. 💀 Steph & Tia had absolutely zer...

Episode 127 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️ From beauty maintenance and the looksmaxxing conversation that had us fully divided, to the plus size women and worthiness debate that needed to be had, to Steph doing something she rarely does 👀 And then there's the Reddit post. His wife filed for divorce. He accepted it. He was moving on. Then her best friend ghosted her. Now she wants t...

She's been with him for 4 years. Married for one. She had absolutely no reason to doubt her husband. 💕 A few months ago her husband had sex with his ex-wife. The woman who left him 10 years ago for someone else. She only found out because her husband's ex is now pregnant. And the ex's new husband isn't the father.  Her husband is. 😳 When she confronted him he admittedeverything. His explanation...

Episode 125 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️ From the Love Island stan wars that are getting completely out of hand, to the diaspora conversation that had us fully in our feelings, to the Reddit post that we genuinely could not move past 👀 Because how do you find out your best friend of 14 years isn't having you as a bridesmaid? Not a falling out. Not an argument. Just… not asked. 😳...

This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most quietly devastating posts we've ever covered 😭🎙️ 15 years of friendship.8 year relationship. 2.5 years engaged. She brought up her discomfort about their dynamic more than once while she was still with him. She was told she had nothing to worry about. She trusted them. 💕 They broke up. He moved out. Less than 4 months later her best friend of 15 yea...

Episode 123 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️ From whether working in entertainment warps your entire perception of reality, to mortgages making us genuinely boring people, to the real reason everyone is coming for Emma Grede right now 👀 And then there's the Reddit post. He has identified as gay his whole life. He is in his 30s. He is now questioning everything he thought she knew abo...

This week's Reddit Realness has an update and the update has absolutely no chill 😭🎙️ 4 years together. Engaged for one. They bought a house. They had plans. He thought it was the best relationship of his life. 💕 Then she started going cold. Distant. Disengaged. Quiet quitting the relationship until he had no choice but to end it himself. 💀 He came to Reddit for closure. He wanted to understand...

Episode 121 is here and we came with absolutely everything 😭🎙️ The wins of the week are giving, the lies we've been caught out on are sending us and the vent of the week about post date reviews on social media has us fully divided 👀 And then there's the Reddit post. He pees on the bathroom floor. Every day. She has asked him to stop. She has asked him to clean it up. He does neither. 😳 Steph &a...