We Got Balls

Have you ever wondered why you just can’t stop the shameful behaviors that frustrate and haunt you? Why does every effort you try to 'stop it' end in futility, disappointment or both? Listen in as Scott and Chris get to the bottom of why “just stop it!” can never work. #men #masculinity #sober #sobriety #recovery #addiction #shame #arousal #desire #attraction #story #vulnerability #growth Subscrib...

What does the future of porn look like? And what are you really looking for when you are searching the internet for porn. Join Chris and Scott as they get curious about the deeper meaning behind your porn search and how you can outgrow them. #men #masculinity #shame #arousal #desire #attraction #story #vulnerability #growth #therapy #ai #aiporn #aigirlfriend #pornhub #search SUBSCRIBE NOW so you d...

The guys are back again to discuss what is trending in porn search. Uncover why your desire for nurture and novelty mixes well with your desire to get off and cope with life. Scott and Chris also share where what they have seen on the road back to connection. You won’t want to miss it! #men #masculinity #shame #arousal #desire #attraction #story #vulnerability #growth #gilf #hentai #pornhub #searc...

You may have grown up in a house (or at a church) that you think was good. But Chris and Scott want you to be curious about how your childhood may be a direct cause of your sexual struggles. Listen in as they discuss how rules, punishments and shame set the table for a lifetime of compulsive sexual behaviors. #men #masculinity #shame #religion #rigidity #arousal #desire #attraction #story #vulnera...

There is something visceral and real about a big juicy butt. Whether you like to look at it or are eager too grab it (with consent, of course) it will get you sprung! Round things out with Scott and Chris as they discuss the fruitfulness of looking for a big ass. You won’t be let down! #ass #bigass #bigbooty #booty #butt #bigbutt #juicy #gyatt #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerabil...

There are times when your mom cam be too close. For many men, the struggle of enmeshment with mother or triangulation in your family of origin leaves you all kind of confused. Engage with Chris and Scott as they cut through the messiness of enmeshment and point you toward healing. #family #familyissues #mommy #mommyissues #enmeshment #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #men #...

You are who your momma made you. The themes of care, nurture and acceptance run through all our lives SO deeply. Draw deep from the conversation with Scott and Chris how your most powerful longings were shaped by how your mother could and couldn’t care for you! #family #familyissues #mommy #mommyissues #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #men #masculinity #growth Still Face E...

We all have issues with our Dad. Some of them are small and many have formed the course of our lives. No matter what, it is good to get curious about our Family of Origin and how we were relational formed. Engage with Chris and Scott as they discuss how families play a huge role in what makes you, you! #family #familyissues #daddy #daddyissues #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerabil...

Some things only become real when you learn about them. For those of you know about or have experienced pegging, you want to check out this episode. Go deep with Chris and Scott as they discuss the dynamics around prostate stimulation and how the ladies are intrigued by our conversations. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #body #men #masculinity #pegging We hope you've enjo...

Change doesn’t happen from information only — sorry! The only way you can transform your life for the better is to have new experiences. Gain some insight as Scott  and Chris share about their experiences at their weekend recovery intensive. You too can know the same growth in your life but checking out dates for future intensives (both virtual and in person) at https://www.wegotballspod.com! #aro...

Getting naked doesn’t have to be a shameful thing. Your body was made to be good and to be celebrated in caring and boundaried ways. Join Chris, Scott and their friend Thomas Fairman as they discuss all things nudity, masculinity and body. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #body #men #masculinity #naturism #nudist #nude #natural You can connect with Thomas at https://www.wy...

Shame has so many effects on your life. From low self esteem to procrastination to performance in the bedroom, shame can destroy you. Listen in with Scott and Chris as they share their experiences with shame and their bodies not working as intent ended. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #body #men #masculinity #erectiledysfunction  We hope you've enjoyed this real, raw, mas...

Every human being is concerned about their body, men included. Join Scott and Chris as they discuss their own experiences with male body exposure and understand how you can help address the shame that you carry around your body. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #body #men #masculinity  We hope you've enjoyed this real, raw, masculine sex talk with Chris Inman and Scott Con...

All that being attracted to the same s*x in an erotic way indicates is that your emotional needs from your parents, which are legitimate, especially for affection, attention and approval from other men, were not met at home. The church struggles to have compassion on these wounded men and women. Chris and Scott want to help you see your goodness in spite of your struggle and enter into the desire...

The holidays are supposed to be a joyous time, but for many of you, they are filled with difficulty. From heavy emotions to triggering family dynamics, this time of year often breaks your routines and drives you to acting out. Listen in as Scott and Chris share their experiences around the holidays and invite you to be kind and curious with yourself. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vul...

No matter what skin color turns you on, there is an intimate connection. Sit in with Chris and Scott as they explore the deepest of arousal templates, the universal human characteristics we all share. Whether it is determined by your family, your culture, or your life experiences, you are hard wired to be attracted to something! #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #interracia...

There are an endless combination of experience that create s*xual arousal. As you consider your life experiences that lead you to feel connected and comforted, the only way to see them as good and not shameful is to show them kindness. Scott and Chris want you to get curious and be kind to the experiences that turn you on. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #fetish #fetishes...

Guys, when you struggle with compulsive s*exual behaviors, there is always a cost. You may not always see it or feel it, but it is there. It adds up over time to corrupt the essential aspects of you life. Get curious with Chris and Scott as they share from their own stories how their struggle has cost them. #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability #cost #struggle #men #masculinity...

Money makes the world go round, especially in the adult industry. And there is always a new platform or presentation by which s*x is sold. Listen in with Scott and Chris as they break down the economics of Onlyfans, adult content creators and more. #camming #of #leak #shame #arousal #attraction #story #vulnerability  We hope you've enjoyed this real, raw, masculine sex talk with Chris Inman and Sc...

Touch is a powerful thing. The most sensual organ in your body is your skin. By taking touch and trying to hijack your emotional process, you can turn healthy touch in to compulsive arousal. You won’t want to miss out as Chris and Scott discuss the healing nature of non-s*xual touch. #massage #touch #shame #arousal #happyending #attraction #story #vulnerability  We hope you've enjoyed this real, r...

Have you ever been tempted to send explicit messages or even naked pictures of yourself? If this is what turns you on, check in with Scott and Chris as they get to the root of why we are so aroused by sexting. #pictures  #text #shame #arousal  We hope you've enjoyed this real, raw, masculine sex talk with Chris Inman and Scott Cone.  SUBSCRIBE NOW so you don't miss any exciting episodes. You can C...

What attracts you to the young, the new and the nubile? It’s the desire for life and everlasting youth! We all have a desire to stay young and live in the glory of our youth for as long as possible. Engage with Christ and Scott as they break down the arousal template of the young and help you be curious and caring toward yourself. #teen #barelylegal #arousal # shame #attraction  We hope you've enj...

Is this you?  - I'm a bad worthless person - If anybody knows what I'm really like - I'll be rejected.  - Nobody meets my needs. This is the playbook for everyone who is aroused by public sex. You are dying to be seen and you’ll risk everything to make it feel real. Listen in with Scott and Chris they show compassion to those who struggle in this way and invite them to curiosity and connection. #p...

Everyone has a story and today is Sam’s chance to share his. From a childhood of abuse and trauma to healing and re-connection, Sam gets raw and real about his arousal template and tells us how it lead him to a transformed life. Get curious with Chris and Scott as they welcome Sam in to the We Got Balls community! #arousal #desire #shame #attraction #story #vulnerability We hope you've enjoyed thi...

Sex has long carried with it a measure of shame. That experience of shame and self-contempt is ramped up when you struggle with porn and  compulsive sexual behaviors. Listen in as Scott and Chris as they demystify these shameful attractions and offer you grace. The real answer to this question is “the worst kind of porn is the one you are most ashamed about.” #shame #guilt #attraction #fetish #for...