Elise Castle and Mike Jensen

We Couldn't Help But Wonder - A Journey Through Sex and the City

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Mike Jensen has seen the Sex and the City series many times. Elise Castle has never seen a single episode. "We Couldn't Help But Wonder" what would happen if these two went on an episode by episode journey through the whole series. Join us as Mike watches for the (insert embarrassing number here) time and Elise is watching for the very first. We will discuss how the series holds up almost 20 years later, our own experiences living in NYC, and the debate over too much cranberry juice in the Cosmopolitan.

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Elise Castle and Mike Jensen

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wecouldnthelpbutwonder.com

Latest episode

Nov 17, 2025

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Episodes

S4 Ep10: Belles of the Balls 10.02.2019

This episode can basically be summed up in one word, but we'll let you figure out what that word is.  Some get tugged, one almost gets purchased because one got removed, a doctor needs to check out what Trey's are making, both Samantha and Big prove they "have them."  It's balls, guys.  The word is balls.

S4 Ep9: Sex and the Country 03.02.2019

Did you know that Aidan has a country house?  Well, he does and Carrie is expected to visit regularly.  When she brings Samantha along for company Samantha finds some company of her own.  Meanwhile Charlotte happens upon a startling scene at the MacDougal family country home, and Miranda makes Steve cry after hearing some startling news.  This episode ROCKS!  (kinda)

S4 Ep8: My Motherboard, My Self 27.01.2019

So this is a big one, and Big isn't even involved.  Miranda experiences a loss and the girls all deal with it in various ways.  Carrie recedes from Aidan, Charlotte buys fruit baskets and flowers, Samantha distracts herself in her usual way, Mike cries, and Elise has to take over the conversation a few times.  And yes, I just included Elise and I as part of "the girls."  Let's all breath and reboo...

S4 Ep7: Time and Punishment 20.01.2019

Miranda and Charlotte have a phone confrontation about life choices, Samantha has a taxi cab confrontation and is told to deal with some waxing choices, and Carrie and Aiden have some passive aggressive confrontations all about one very Big choice from her past.  Hey!  I picked a theme and stuck with it!  I should write for this show...

S4 Ep6: Baby, Talk Is Cheap 13.01.2019

This one is all about babies.  Charlotte and Trey are thinking about having one, Samantha is dating a guy who talks like one...  Okay, so that's really all the baby stuff there is, but I suppose you could say that Carrie is a infant when it comes to email, and Miranda...  No, I'm not going to try and think of a baby metaphor for Miranda's date.  Plus we have an awkward double date at Tortilla Flat...

S4 Ep5: Ghost Town 06.01.2019

Miranda has a ghost!  Carrie has an ex!  Charlotte has a Mother in Law!  Samantha has a talkative girlfriend!  And I have no more exclamation points... Enjoy the show!  (Oh look, I had one more)

S4 Ep4: What’s Sex Got To Do with It? 16.12.2018

Carrie gets ‘played’ by her jazz musicain boyfriend while Charlotte and Trey play all over town.  Miranda eats a lot of cake and Samantha eats... well, you’ve seen the episode.  Mike actually remembers to do the DVD recap and Elise has a startling diagnosis for an old school musical theatre character.  Yep, we’ve got trouble.

S4 Ep3: Defining Moments 09.12.2018

For an episode Elise and Mike claim not to like very much a lot happens here.  Carrie, Samantha, and Miranda all meet potential new love interests, Charlotte tries to figure out what's going on with hers, but most importantly there are TWO different Michael John LaChiusa The Wild Party shout outs, along with a brief history of another short lived Broadway musical.  And don't get Mike started on me...

S4 Ep2: The Real Me 02.12.2018

Elise and Mike follow the ladies as they model, date guys from the gym, get nude photos taken, and take a good look at their... well, you'll see.

S4 Ep1: The Agony and the Ex-tacy 02.12.2018

We're back for Season Four!  Samantha is in love with a priest!  Miranda has a new comedy routine!  Charlotte needs to know what's going on in her marriage!  And Carrie is turning 35!  And Mike is using too many exclamation points...  Enjoy!!!

S3 Ep20: A Look Back at the Pilot 25.11.2018

It's a bonus episode!  Mike and (mostly) Elise take a quick look back at the pilot after having watched the first three seasons.  Does anything stand out as being strange all these years later?  Does Carrie have a cell phone?  And what color is her hair?  All this and more is discussed as we get ready to launch season four next week!

S3 Ep19: Season Three Recap! 11.11.2018

Let's take a look back at season three.  We talk about favorite lines, a lot of moments we can't really let go of, least favorite episodes, favorite episodes, and it all starts with the entire season distilled into less than four minutes.

S3 Ep18: Cock-a-Doodle-Do! 04.11.2018

It's the season 3 finale!  Too much happens to describe here, just listen!  Also, change of plans, the recap will be out next week.  Rise and shine!

S3 Ep17: What Goes Around Comes Around 28.10.2018

So much happens in the penultimate episode of season 3!  A robbery, a really bad hangover, a moment of infidelity, a fall, and a separation.  And that's not even getting to the weirdness this is Samantha's story line.  Season 3 is almost over!  And we're officially half way done with the whole series!!

S3 Ep16: Frenemies 21.10.2018

Charlotte and Trey get nautical!  Miranda gets stood up!  Samantha makes a new friend!  Carrie proves herself to be not much of a teacher!  Mike remembers to recap, and Elise reverts to not knowing names!  Ahoy!

S3 Ep15: Hot Child in the City 14.10.2018

Mike and Elise forgot to record the recap for this one, so here it is.  Carrie dates a grown man who works at a comic book shop, rides a scooter, and lives with his parents.  Miranda get braces to fix her "tongue thrusting."  Samantha throws a Bat Mitzvah celebration for a 13 year old girl who acts shockingly "mature" for her age.  And Charlotte goes from researching male anatomy body modification...

S3 Ep14: Sex and Another City 07.10.2018

The girls have a few more days in sunny California!  Two of them get waxed, one of them gets a fake Fendi, one of them meets up with an old flame, and one of them picks a fight with a Playboy Bunny.  Elise and Mike wax poetic about it.  See what I did there?

S3 Ep13: Escape From New York 02.10.2018

All right.  Let's try this one again.  The ladies take off for the West Coast just as Mike returns to NYC.  While in L.A. three of the ladies encounter adult toys, mechanical bulls, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and a super creepy Mathew McConaughey, while Charlotte stays home and plays a stamp wielding Nancy Drew, and Elise spends much of her weekend on social media explaining that all will be fixed...

S3 Ep12: Don't Ask, Don't Tell 23.09.2018

This episode is all about honesty.  Mike honestly liked the movie Mother!  Elise is honestly kind of rude about Aidan's sentiment regarding the wedding gift he made.  And both Mike and Elise are honestly confused about the timeline leading up to Charlotte and Trey's wedding.

S3 Ep11: Running With Scissors 16.09.2018

Elise thinks the most important thing to know about this recording is that she's aware that Lauren Bacall was in Applause The Musical not Ballroom The Musical.  Mike thinks the most important thing to know is that the worse Big behaves, the more of a crush Elise has on him.  Mike does not approve.  Also there are talking hoagies, ill-secured swings, and Mentadent.  As Oprah Winfrey once sang, Run...

S3 Ep10: All or Nothing 09.09.2018

Elise and Mike take a look at episode 10 of season 3.  Topics range from trips to Pennsylvania, delivery service in NYC, confronting a future mother in law, and proper phone etiquette.  See Manhattan!  We can have it all!!

S3 Ep9: Easy Come, Easy Go 02.09.2018

Elise and Mike take a look at an episode that Mike thinks is great and also hates.  Steve moves out, Samantha tries wheatgrass, Charlotte pops the question, and Carrie stays at a hotel.  Also, Elise begins to wage a war on kittens.  Here we go...

S3 Ep8: The Big Time 26.08.2018

This is a Big one you guys.  Pun intended.  And I don't just mean the episode being discussed.  This is the pod where lines are drawn and sides are taken.  Elise and Mike stand on opposite ends of perhaps the greatest debate involving Sex And The City and things may never be the same...

S3 Ep7: Drama Queens 19.08.2018

Elise and Mike really like this one!  Episode 7 of season 3 brings up topics like umbrella etiquette, aggressive gum chewing, and how under appreciated much of Kim Cattrall's work was.  Also, Aida!  (Though not the one Mike saw thirteen times on Broadway...)

S3 Ep6: Are We Sluts? 12.08.2018

An important question indeed.  Elise and Mike answer this question and more while also discussing improper sexy time declarations, how to win (or not) the approval of your fellow tenants, and why a character we've seen before is answering to the wrong name.  It's a puzzler.  Enjoy!

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