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From emotional cheating, texting, exchanging photos, to liking pics on Instagram, what is forgivable and what is a dealbreaker? The world of online infidelity is murky waters, is it scarier than taking things physical? And you heard it here first, we’re finally shutting up about being cheated on. We think its time we let chapter of our lives lay to rest…as best as we can!

Why is changing for your partner seen as a bad thing? Let’s get into the weeds of good examples of change as well as bad ones. What is the solution when arguing on things you just can’t see eye to eye on?

We've all been guilty of it and victims to it...the hating on being "basic"! We get into the phenomenon of not wanting to look or do basic things in fear of being basic. We are in a new era of encouraging each other to love the same things and join in on fun instead of hating on other women for choices. So keep loving PSLs and those white flowy skirts with cowboy boots, we are here t...

We give you the rundown on the last quarter of our lives. We talk about our pop culture obsessions like Billie Eilish and Taylor Swift. We get into our career moves and fails. And we leave you with the major and minor of the last quarter and what we are moving towards for Q3.

Let's chat pop culture and what's been on our fyp lately. From the incredible rise of the WNBA to the latest on Jacob Elordi and his bag choices. We're dishing on our thoughts and feelings about the latest in pop culture and social media news.

It's the year of the lesbian! We chat about how queer women are taking over pop culture at the moment. Whether it is artists coming out or just simply empowering the queer community! Representation matters and this year, the lesbians are shining.

Are you sobercurious? We might be! We're talking about why cutting back on booze is becoming the cool thing to do. We share some funny and relatable stories, and looking at the perks of reducing your intake or going alcohol-free. Whether you're looking to drink less or just curious about the whole movement, join us for a chat that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little b...

We're chatting about something super important but often overlooked: setting boundaries with ourselves! We're diving into how drawing those personal lines can actually make us happier and more in tune with who we are and who we want to become. We offer some ideas of our own to nurture self-respect, boost personal growth, and enhance overall well-being.

Sometimes it reaaaaally feels like we're no better than a man. We'll explore how our inner dialogues and casual chats maybe make us realize we're more alike than different. Let's talk about that.

We've gone over the bare minimum, but what comes next is what we can't or need to go without! We get through some heavy hitters like having kids to some more flexible things like vaping. There so many things to consider when saying yes to your next partner.

Life is feeling a lot like under the bar or way over, nothing feels just right. We get into all the things that are currently making us feel too much or not enough like dating, going out, social media and so much more. Here's a little rant to all the things wrong at the moment. Can you relate?

Playtime is over or is it? Let the child in you run free, we get into how important it is to revisit the inner child and do the things that brought us once so much joy. Freedom is an illusion we've created from the start, being an adult can feel free we just have to realign what we are focusing on.

How is our 10 year reunion upon us?! Where did all the time go? Let's chat about the feelings of planning and attending a reunion, facing all our peers again. We also talk about the responsibility of growing up and having to make smart financial decisions...mostly regarding Coachella because we can't shut up about it.

Getting older has also made us extremely aware of the aging process, mentally and physically. Things have changed significantly over the years, diet, exercise, recovery, cellulite...and so much more. We get so serious about the nasty thoughts we had and have about our bodies. If talking about physical appearance is a sensitive subject for you, this might not be the episode for you, we'll see y...

Another solo episode for y'all! Post Coachella the vibes are feeling low but the energy for summer is picking up. Time to update everyone on the latest dating feels and hater ass comments.

Mel revels through what it feels like to be 27…and inching closer to 30. Reflecting on the transformative year of 26, Mel shares her experiences of diving deep into her sexuality and seeking representation in the queer community. From navigating the ups and downs of therapy to grappling with PMDD, Mel opens up about the challenges she's faced along the way. But amidst it all, she's dreamin...

What have we been consuming? Tiktok is a rollercoaster of emotions. We get into the big controversy of tankinis and whether not we need to be bandwagoners. We get inspired to follow some childlike dreams. Listen in for a rant about what's currently rotting our brains.

Meet our bestie Katie! She's a sagittarius and has a lot to say. Give her some love as we talk about how embarrassment is unnecessary, getting diagnosed with ADHD and starting medication. Thank you for being on Katie, we love you!

A very exhausted Coachella recap has arrived. We wanted to get you the details ASAP, so the Monday after Weekend One we laid down and recorded what we could remember. It’s the way we entirely forgot to mention seeing Billie’s set at the DoLab. It was like going to the club with your besties and they play all the best throwbacks. We hope you have an amazing festival season!

Us filming a whole episode about Q1 and for at least 20 minutes not knowing when Q1 ended. Let’s break down how our Q1 went. We discuss tax fraud, Coachella boobs, skipping periods, new bras, and roster of plastic surgery.

Dating culture has a grip on all of us.. what's the right and wrong way to do it? Is it better to have a roster or are we dating one at a time? Is our generation setting the tone for new dating standards?

In dating we always hear about the dos and the don'ts, but what we really think is most important is the bare minimum. In this episode, we redefine what the bare minimum is and what to accept. We agree that the bare minimum is the start to things and not the end all be all. We get into how the old ways of viewing the bare minimum is damaging but difficult to overcome. Are you accepting less th...

Let's dive into the sometimes tricky territory of friendships and finances. We're getting real about the importance of having those uncomfortable money talks with our pals, because sometimes...it can end friendships. From splitting bills to lending money, we're sharing our own experiences, insights, and tips for navigating these potentially awkward conversations. Whether you've bee...

Join us for a candid chat as we gear up for our third year at Coachella! In this episode, we're spilling the beans on our updated game plan for the festival. From what we're doubling down on to what we're dialing back, we're getting real about our priorities this time around. We discuss the experiences we can't wait to relive and the new adventures we're ready to dive into....

At the beginning of the year we attempted the 75 hard challenge- fashion edition. Let's just say we didn't do as well as we thought, but we did have some thoughts coming out of it! We give you some tips on how to move forward in your shopping experiences and how to experiment more.