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We are in the holiday spirit! We’re sharing our plans for the season which consists of travel and creating the perfect activities. Time to start planning New Years!! Is it a cozy night in or are we getting ready to rage? Maybe both?

Need some holiday gift inspo? In this episode, we’re sharing our ultimate Christmas wishlists that double as the perfect gift guide! From must-have goodies to thoughtful surprises, we’ve got ideas for the girls in your life. Tune in for fun, festive vibes and all the holiday shopping tips you need! LTK Link mel LTK sam LTK Episode thumbnail art by @kieronpiper

Grab a cocktail glass (or three) and join us for a festive tasting! In this episode, we’re diving into a flight of three holiday-inspired drinks—because nothing says Christmas like getting lit. Join us for a crantini, cran mocktail, and a santa shot!

It’s officially time to get festive! In this episode, we’re talking all about what gets us into the holiday spirit—from decorating for Christmas (team real tree or fake tree?), to our favorite holiday movies, music, and all the cozy vibes that make this season magical. Whether you’re already in full festive mode or need a little help getting there, we’ve got you covered.

Mel takes us on a recap of her dreamy anniversary trip to Mammoth and Big Sur! 🏔️✨ From the cozy mountain vibes to breathtaking coastal views, she shares all the highlights, hilarious moments, and a few lessons from the road. Tune in for some travel inspo, a peek into her anniversary adventures, and maybe even some tips for your next getaway!

We’re diving into the importance of doing digital decluttering! ✨ We’re talking about unfollowing people who don’t spark joy anymore—whether it’s randoms, old Hinge matches, or even your ex (it’s time). We also get into cleaning up your feed by archiving those cringe-worthy pics and saying goodbye to influencers who don’t inspire you. It’s all about making your digital space feel as fresh and ali...

It’s that time of year—Black Friday season! We’re spilling all the details on our Black Friday wishlist, from gadgets we’ve been obsessing over to those splurge-worthy items we’re hoping to snag on sale. We’ll go through what’s in our carts, what we’re crossing our fingers will get a good discount, and all the deals we’re keeping an eye on.

In this episode, we’re talking about handling the holiday season when you thrive on socializing but also risk burning out with all the gatherings, parties, and family events. We dive into tips on managing expectations, pacing yourself, and balancing the need for connection with the inevitable moments of overwhelm. From family dinners to holiday parties, we chat about navigating it all without losi...

Are single men are the new crazy cat ladies? We dive into why seemingly great, single guys might raise a few eyebrows—like, what’s really going on there? Are they secretly sketchy, or just embracing their independence in a new way? We chat about how this phenomenon flips the usual narrative, join us as we hilariously debate whether it's cute, concerning, or just the new normal for single men in 20...

In this episode, we dive into what it’s like being the last single friend in the group. We chat about all the mixed feelings—everything from feeling left behind and dealing with the pressure to settle down, to embracing your independence and finding joy in your solo journey.

Let's dive into the big question: How long is too long to wait for a proposal? Whether you've been dating for a few years or a decade, figuring out the “right” timeline for engagement can be tricky. We talk about societal expectations, personal timelines, and what we think are red flags (or green flags!) when it comes to waiting for that next step. It's all about having a conversation and knowing...

We’re diving into the 80/20 theory in relationships—how to balance finding someone who checks all the boxes while being realistic about no one being “perfect.” We also get into the chaos of on-again, off-again relationships and what they might be teaching us. Sam opens up about getting honest with herself and what she truly wants in a relationship, does she know? Join us as we explore what it mean...

In this episode, we’re spilling all the latest pop culture tea you need to know! From Aspyn Ovard’s jaw-dropping comeback and spicy divorce drama to the internet’s favorite new show Agatha All Along and morning girl taking over your feeds, there’s a lot to unpack. Plus, we dive into shocking updates on the Menendez brothers and so much more. If you’re craving the juiciest news and some fun, unfilt...

In this episode, we’re diving into all things Friendsgiving! From planning the perfect menu and fun drink ideas to creating a cozy, welcoming vibe, we cover everything you need to host a Friendsgiving everyone will love. We’ll talk about organizing who brings what, fun game ideas, and a few tips to keep it new and fun. Grab your friends, pick out your favorite recipes, and let’s make this Friendsg...

In the spirit of shorter episodes, we are giving you a quick run down on whats been going on lately! From dog updates to meeting two girls at Guinness, the high of Sam’s Europe trip, and... the time Mel's neighbor tried to break in?! Yep, it’s been a whirlwind.

We dive into a fun discussion about what we might be too old for this Halloween! From costumes to partying, we’re reflecting on whether we’ve really outgrown some of the spooky season’s traditions, or if age is just a number. We share what our perfect Halloween might look like and leave you wondering—are we ever really too old for Halloween fun?

Sam catches us up on her two weeks in Europe, and how she is still recovering. This trip brought out a lot of feelings and reminders of how life is changing, for the better! Tune in for the latest on Sam's travels, pottery ventures, and what she's been reflecting on post-trip.

Mel gives a life update and dives into some personal reflections. She shares how far she’s come emotionally and financially, expresses gratitude for the journey, and talks about her excitement for her partner Logan’s new career in real estate. Mel also reflects on growing from young adulthood to nearing 30, wishes she had been a theater kid (Wicked, anyone?), and chats about the movies she’s recen...

We sit down with our friend Linny to talk about the big 3-0! We dive into everything from making decisions with your gut and navigating dating in your 30s to embracing your Saturn return and the life changes that come with it. We also chat about aging (sunscreen, anyone?), evolving personal style, and how our bodies change as you enter this new decade. So much to cover and we had so much fun doing...

We dive into the psychology of fear with our friend Linny, an OCD therapist, who gives us her expert take on why we enjoy scary movies, what’s really behind those intrusive thoughts, beliefs in paranormal and more. If you’ve ever wondered why fear can be so fascinating, this one is for you! Tune in for a mix of insight, spooky stories, and a chat on the inner workings of our minds.

We’re diving into the fine line between oversharing, venting, and just plain yapping. When is it too much? Where do you draw the line between healthy venting and learning to self-soothe? We chat about personal experiences with unloading our thoughts, and how to figure out when it’s time to stop talking.

We’re reflecting on all the exciting moments from the past quarter! From our quarter 3 birthday celebrations to Mel bringing home a new dog, and Sam’s planning a last minute European trip—there’s so much to catch up on. We’re talking about the highlights, the behind-the-scenes of our recent episodes, and everything that’s been going on.

In this episode, we dive into how reconnecting with your childhood joy might just be the key to finding happiness as an adult. From embracing playfulness to rediscovering simple pleasures, we explore how bringing childlike fun back into your life can make everything feel a little lighter. We also share some creative ideas on how to reignite that youthful spark and weave it into your everyday adult...

We're Perfect, Even When We Make Mistakes: A Journey of Self-Forgiveness. In this episode, we’re getting real about how the mistakes we make shape who we are. We dive into the power of self-forgiveness and how to move through those tough moments with love and grace. If you’ve ever struggled with letting go of a misstep, this one’s for you—because learning to embrace the lessons in our mistakes...

As the heat wave leaves us, we’re sharing our favorite ways to feel grounded and refreshed this autumn! We're embracing cooler weather with comforting rituals and activities and food we're looking forward to. Tune in for tips on everything from skincare routines to soul-soothing activities that’ll help you make the most of the fall season.