We Are More: Sisters Talk Faith & Feminism

What if everything you’ve been told about “biblical womanhood” missed the mark? This week, we're looking at complementarian versus egalitarian viewpoints—are women too strong? Too weak? Too much? Too little? Priscilla, one of Paul’s co-workers and a fearless leader in the early church, didn’t seem to struggle with any of that nonsense. She taught, she led, and she might have even written the book...

We're digging into Danae Dobson’s Let’s Talk... again , and wow—it’s a lot. From telling girls to tone down their personalities to teaching that courtship is just a prelude to being “married off,” this book is a time capsule of bad advice. And the “Let’s Talk About Boys” chapter? Let's just say that a chapter interviewing teenage boys about what they find attractive in girls is as gross and shallo...

Let’s be honest: devotionals for "Christian Girls" are painful. This week, we're talking about a book from our youth, which isn’t just outdated—it’s a masterclass in teaching girls to feel small, ashamed, and silent. We’re unpacking the purity culture, body shaming, and impossible standards it peddles. This is just the first in a series, and trust us, we’re not holding back. Women, if you're ready...

Ever prayed as a kid for a miraculous snowstorm—just to skip church? Been there. In this episode, we're talking about growing up in ultra-conservative churches, complete with boring devotionals and the same sermons over and over. Alyssa dishes on her “perfect Christian girl” phase—spoiler alert: it didn’t age well—and Bri shares how being single in the church sometimes feels like wearing a neon “u...

Today, we’re talking about Mary at the wedding in Cana and the audacious faith it takes to ask Jesus for a miracle—even when he seems to brush her off. The wine’s running out, the party’s about to flop, and Mary’s like, “Hey Jesus, do your thing.” His response? Basically, “Not my problem.” But Mary doesn’t even flinch—she just tells the servants, “Do whatever he says,” and boom, miracle time. Join...

When you picture Mary, the mother of Jesus, is she draped in blue, head bowed, the epitome of quiet submission? That’s the image art and tradition have sold us—but Mary was so much more. She was fierce. She was resilient. She was a leader—one whose husband submitted to her. This week, we’re taking a sledgehammer to the demure Mary trope and uncovering the incredible woman behind the blue veil. Wan...

Alright, gather 'round, because we're talking Mary, the OG mother of Jesus (or MMOJ as the cool kids call her). Most Christmas services say, "Let's start at Luke 2, no need to go any further back." But not us, we're going all the way back to Luke 1 to see Mary make her big debut. And let us tell you, this teenager was way more than just some demure figure in a painting. Mary was the real deal - re...

The holiday season: a time for joy… so we're told. Between gift lists, family gatherings, and endless to-dos, how do you hold onto that deep, lasting joy we’ve been told we're supposed to feel? In this episode, we’re talking about finding joy in the chaos and stress of the holidays. With a little help from Scripture (and maybe a laugh or two), we’re unpacking what it means to protect your peace an...

Picture this: the turkey’s still frozen, your aunts are already arguing about the mashed potatoes, and someone just brought up politics at the table. Sound familiar? We’re diving into all the chaos that comes with Thanksgiving – from setting boundaries that actually stick to finding real gratitude (even when it’s hard). Grab a slice of pumpkin pie and join us, because this year, we’re all about th...

Thanksgiving is here, and so is the family drama buffet. But what if setting boundaries wasn’t just a self-care trend but something Jesus himself modeled? In this episode, we talk about why saying "no" to the guilt trip and the extra helping of stress might actually be Biblical. Whether it’s dodging awkward questions at the table or stepping away from toxic traditions, we’re here to remind you: ev...

Frankly, this episode got deleted in a haze of computer programs, migraines, and more than a few angry shouts into the void. But it's back, and better than ever! Probably. Anyway, listen in as we talk about learning to be still and protect yourself, even when you've been told to turn the other cheek.

Dating: Why is it such a nightmare for so many women? Whether it's safety concerns, boys looking for a mom-replacement, or pictures no one wants to see, women have dating rough. In episode 30, Bri is going to share her real-life experiences with online dating, screenshots and all. Then we'll ask some hard questions about our "Christian Dating" upbringing, including courting, kissing dating goodbye...

Buckle up, witches! This Halloween, we’re diving broom-first into Salem’s dark history—but with a twist. We're here to mix some laughs and spooky singalongs with a fresh look at Salem’s so-called witches, who, honestly, deserve a lot more respect than the history books give. Think of them less as villains and more as martyrs caught in a real-life witch hunt. So light a candle, grab your cauldron,...

In episode 28, we’re getting real about people-pleasing, passive partners, and why setting boundaries can feel like a full-time job. From dealing with someone else’s baggage to being the go-to for everyone’s responsibilities, women have been raised to keep the peace—but should we? We're diving into the story of Mary and Martha, and asking: Did Jesus really expect Christian women to handle all the...

Welcome to the latest episode of the We Are More Podcast, where we navigate faith and latest Feminist TikTok trends—all while Alyssa battles a 'plague!' Join us in our bubblegum pink room as we react to our favorite videos and quotes. We delve into societal expectations, Pride and Prejudice, and the boxes we put "masculinity" and "femininity" into. Get comfy, grab a glass of wine, laugh, and engag...

In this episode, we wrap up Bathsheba’s story and dive deeper into the broader narrative of women in the Bible. Bathsheba's story is one of resilience, strength, and the impact of her legacy. But she isn’t the only woman in the Bible whose voice has been overlooked or misunderstood. From Queen Vashti's defiance to the tragedy of Tamar, there are countless women whose stories have shaped history, f...

Bathsheba’s story is back for part three, and we're taking a modern look at the scandal that rocked King David’s reign. How can our current-day lenses be used to see this story for what it really was? How much more can we talk about a story that only takes up 2 chapters in the Bible? Listen in to find out! Trigger warning: We discuss themes of abuse and assault, so please listen with care as we ex...

In this episode, we’re diving even deeper into Bathsheba’s story—because one episode just couldn’t handle all the drama. If you’ve ever pictured her seductively lounging on her rooftop, well, we’re here to tell you that your pastor probably got it wrong. We’re busting myths, calling out misconceptions, and asking the real question: Was Bathsheba even naked? Spoiler alert: Dove soap wasn’t involved...

Bathsheba: villain or victim? Spoiler alert, she's not the bad guy here. Forget the tired story of Bathsheba seducing David with a wink and a bathrobe—it’s time to clear her name. We’re breaking down how history (and some seriously messed up sermons) got it all wrong. So, grab your coffee and join us as we set the record straight. Bathsheba deserves a better legacy, and we’re here to give it to he...

Ever felt like you're doing all the heavy lifting while your partner conveniently 'forgets' how to help out or acts like you're the queen of all things domestic? In this episode, we dig into the fine art of weaponized incompetence. Why do some partners seem so helpless, and is that really okay? Come hang out with us as we talk about unhealthy relationship expectations and ask why so many of our Ch...

Welcome to the married church lady club, where the hymnals weigh a ton, the expectations are impossibly high, and the pressure to be the "perfect wife" is a full-time job. In this episode, Alyssa is talking about what it’s really like to be married in the church. For many women in church, it feels like getting married means you "made it," but the demands keep piling up. And the advice from other m...

Imagine stumbling upon a stranger in a place he's not supposed to be—it's fight or flight, right? Welcome to episode 20, where we dive into the Woman at the Well and her unexpected encounter with Jesus. For generations, pastors have pushed the narrative that this woman was rude to Jesus. That she was immoral and ashamed of herself. That she "had an attitude." But what if that's not true at all? Wh...

In this episode, we’re taking on the Christian singles scene and its marriage-or-bust mentality. Bri is sharing her experience of what it’s like to be single in the church, where the pressure to find a husband can make you feel like a second-class citizen on Sundays. We’re pulling apart the tired idea that marriage is a woman’s highest calling and talking about why churches need to stop treating s...

In this episode, we're diving into the TikTok drama of 2024: Ballerina Farms. We’ll break down the article that kicked off the controversy, the family’s response, and our own take on the mess. Are they really all about family values, or is it just a show for control? What’s the real cost of living by someone else’s rules? And what does the whole "Trad Wife" trend mean for women today? Tune in as w...

In this episode, we’re tearing into imposter syndrome, sparked by a question from Alyssa’s daughter about whether she’s allowed to be a feminist yet. As we grapple with blending Christianity and Feminism, we’ve had our own moments of doubt about whether we get to be "real" Feminists. But this feeling isn't new! Imposter syndrome has kept women feeling unworthy—both today and in Biblical times. Jus...