Waiting with Love

Waiting with Love: A Check In In this episode, Matt and Andrew open up about their ongoing surrogacy journey, the challenges of waiting for important updates, and how they stay grounded amidst uncertainty. They share personal reflections, coping strategies, and insights learned along the way—offering comfort and solidarity to anyone navigating a similar waiting game. Key Topics: The emotional roll...

In this episode, Matt and Andrew explore how to manage travel plans amidst the unpredictability of fertility treatments like surrogacy and IVF. They share personal insights, practical tips, and emotional strategies to help others navigate this complex terrain while still living their lives and creating meaningful memories. Key Topics: The emotional impact of delaying or adjusting travel plans duri...

Waiting With Love: Does the Wait Ever Get Easier? On this episode of Waiting With Love , hosts Matt and Andrew explore the realities of long-term waiting—how, despite perceptions, it doesn’t necessarily get easier over time. They share personal insights, common misconceptions, and practical strategies for navigating the emotional rollercoaster of waiting, especially in the context of fertility and...

Rethinking Infertility: The Challenges Facing Gay Men in Family Building In this episode, Matt and Andrew explore a thought-provoking article on the conception of infertility within the gay community. They discuss the legal, financial, and emotional barriers that make family formation a complex reality for same-sex couples, highlighting the need for systemic change. Main Topics: How the definition...

Navigating International Surrogacy: The Logistics Behind the Journey In this episode, Matt and Andrew peel back the curtain on the complex, often overlooked logistics of international surrogacy. From legal hurdles, cross-country coordination, to the emotional weight of waiting, they share their real-world experience navigating this intricate process—highlighting why patience, understanding, and sy...

Navigating Hope and Fear in the Waiting Season In this episode of Waiting with Love , Matt and Andrew explore the complex emotions that come with waiting for life-changing news—whether it's for a child, a medical breakthrough, or other long-held dreams. They discuss how moments of good news spark hope, but also bring a wave of fear, and share personal stories that highlight the delicate balance of...

Waiting with Love: Exploring LGBTQ+ Family Building, Challenges, and Community In this open and transparent episode, hosts Matt and Andrew share their personal journey of navigating family building as a same-sex couple, and the surprising dynamics they've observed within their community and beyond. They emphasize the importance of shared experiences, vulnerability, and creating safe spaces for eve...

Finding Joy in the Waiting Room In this heartfelt episode, Matt and Andrew share their personal journey of waiting, surprise, and finding joy alongside grief. They discuss how unexpected moments, like a surprise visit from a loved one, can reshape our perspective and deepen connections even amid uncertainty. In this episode: The significance of showing up and finding joy while waiting, especially...

When Good News Starts Feeling Less Good: Navigating "Good news" in Adoption, Surrogacy and IVF In this episode, Matt and Andrew share their personal journey through adoption and surrogacy, exploring how their perception of good news has evolved over a lengthy, often challenging process. They discuss emotional resilience, managing expectations, and the balance between hope and caution, providing in...

Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Waiting for Parenthood: Support, Questions and Compassion In this episode of Waiting with Love , Matt and Andrew delve into the often challenging questions and comments they encounter while navigating infertility, surrogacy, and adoption. They offer insights on how friends and family can provide meaningful support without causing inadvertent hurt, emphasizi...

Embracing Parenthood and Hope at 40: A Conversation on Waiting, Growth, and New Beginnings In this heartfelt episode, Matt and Andrew reflect on navigating the journey to parenthood later in life, turning 40, and finding hope and strength in the process of waiting. They share personal insights, challenges, and the many benefits of becoming parents at this stage, offering encouragement to others wa...

Navigating Inconsiderate Questions During Fertility and Adoption Journeys In this episode, Matt and Andrew shed light on the common questions friends and family ask that can unintentionally hurt those going through infertility, surrogacy or adoption. They offer practical, compassionate alternatives to foster understanding and support. Key Topics The impact of questions like "Any updates?" and why...

In this episode of "Waiting with Love," Matt and Andrew explore the emotional landscape of long-term infertility and the importance of community, fellowship, and shared experience. They discuss the limitations of conventional advice and highlight the power of compassion, laughter, and authentic connection in navigating challenging journeys. KEY TOPICS The impact of unsolicited and superficial advi...

Navigating Life While Waiting: Embracing Feelings and Continuing Forward In this heartfelt episode, Matt and Andrew explore how life's inevitable hardships—like loss and illness—intersect with ongoing journeys of hope, such as fertility or family building. They emphasize the importance of allowing oneself to feel, process, and live fully even amidst pain, ultimately advocating for a balanced appro...

Summary In this conversation, Andrew and Matt reflect on their decade-long journey of trying to become parents through adoption and surrogacy. They discuss the emotional evolution from initial hope and excitement to a more guarded cynicism, and ultimately to a place of acceptance and finding joy in the present. They explore the coping mechanisms they've developed, the impact of setbacks, and the i...

Summary In this episode, Andrew and Matt discuss the complexities of navigating conversations around infertility and surrogacy, particularly within the LGBTQ community. They explore the expectation gap between reality and what one hopes for, the challenges of seeking support from family and friends, and the importance of compassionate listening. The conversation emphasizes the need for understandi...

Summary In this episode, Matt and Andrew reflect on their journey through the complexities of building a family, particularly focusing on the concept of 'no regrets'. They share personal anecdotes from their experiences with adoption, including the emotional rollercoaster of being matched with birth mothers and the subsequent challenges they faced. The conversation highlights the importance of rec...

Summary In the first full-length podcast, Matt and Andrew reflect on their journey into the world of podcasting, sharing the challenges they faced in selecting topics and building credibility. They discuss the complexities of going public with their personal experiences surrounding adoption and surrogacy, emphasizing the emotional weight of sharing their story. The duo candidly admits that the pro...

In this inaugural episode of 'Waiting with Love', hosts Matt and Andrew share their personal journey of waiting to build a family over the past decade. They discuss the emotional challenges, the silence surrounding their struggles, and the importance of creating a supportive community for those navigating similar experiences. The episode emphasizes the coexistence of hope and grief during the wait...