Waffles Friends Work

For those of us who care, we end up caring a whole lot about things that we ultimately can't control. By being picky about where we put our energy, we can save ourselves some stress and time. In this episode, get some ideas on how to best separate yourself from outcomes (at work, with friends) so you can show up as your best self. And yes, still care.

There are some transitions we choose: marriage, college, changing careers, and some that maybe are chosen for us (or happen naturally) like kids leaving the nest, divorce, or job loss. Navigating these changes is always hard, but using our values as a compass can help guide us through. In this episode, Kara and Jensie cover some of the changes they've experienced and how coming back to their value...

Okay, that may be a little hyperbolic. BUT, we're pretty sure if you can root out some of the fake rush rush rush, your quality of life will improve. And these days, we'll take whatever we can get. So take a deep breath and listen in for some ideas on slowing everything down at work, at home, and with yourself. Your nervous system will thank you.

Let's face it, not only is setting goals in January forcing the issue, making a list of goals that don't feel quite right makes the whole tradition pretty boring. In this episode, Kara and Jensie talk about making goals that are in alignment with your values, waiting until February (or later) to start, and using a bingo card to entice your inner 5-year-old with stickers.

Feeling a little resentful toward your job or coworkers? Maybe it's time to set some boundaries at and with work. We have a few ideas on how and where to set boundaries while staying professional and friendly at work. And some reminders on having hobbies and relationships outside of work so it doesn't become your whole life.  Takeaways Setting boundaries is crucial to prevent burnout. It's okay to...

Summary We've talked through setting boundaries with and holding ourselves accountable, but things get a little trickier when we start involving other people. Setting boundaries helps us set our relationships up for success by reducing resentment and helping others understand how we want to be treated. Takeaways Boundaries are essential for building stronger relationships. Misusing the term 'bound...

Keywords boundaries, accountability, self-care, personal growth, relationships, emotional health, setting limits, self-awareness, communication, personal development Summary This episode covers the 3 steps to setting boundaries: identifying where we need to set a boundary, determining what the boundary should be, and enforcing those boundaries. Setting boundaries takes practice and giving yourself...

Keywords accountability, boundaries, emotional honesty, self-compassion, personal development, Ted Lasso, Brene Brown, leadership, emotional bandwidth, values-driven leadership Summary We think accountability partners are great tools, but what if you could be your own accountability partner? By taking the time to understand why you aren't doing the things you want to do instead of beating yourself...

Yes, they are here already. We know it's overwhelming to get through the holiday season and there's a lot of pressure on moms to Do It All. What we'd like to propose is using your values to guide your prioritization and schedule this holiday season. By focusing on what really matters to you and your family and consciously letting some things go, you can relieve some of the busy-ness of the season....

In this final episode (probably really this time) of season one, Kara and Jensie break down the official Waffles Friends Work tried, proved, tested, and approved five-step goal setting process. By aligning your goals with your values, you'll have more success in completing those goals. Why? Because when you anchor those goals in who you are and what really resonates with you, you'll focus those go...

Catch up with Kara and Jensie a couple of months after they recorded the first 5 episodes. They have some thoughts and experiences to share after thinking through personal values, including some challenging conversations they had and what they learned. Listen in to see how they're working to live their values AND learn how "slippery behaviors" can help you identify where you're starting to veer of...

In the first episode of Waffles Friends Work, Kara and Jensie set the table for a rich season-long discussion of personal values. After convincing you that articulating your personal values is a worthwhile endeavor, they give some ideas on how to actually figure out what your values are. Using examples from their own personal values, you'll learn that no two people share the same values or the sam...

How does knowing your values improve your self-care? In this episode, Kara and Jensie make the case that knowing your values is self-care and finding ways to honor them makes your self-care practice much more effective. With practical examples from their own values and self-care practices to a story on being mansplained on how to drink more water, join them to get some ideas on how to incorporate...

Showing up for ourselves and in our values can have a profound impact on our relationships. By knowing who we are, we allow the people in our lives to love us as we are, not as who we think they want us to be. And, in turn, gives us the perspective to love those around us as they want to be loved. In this episode, Kara and Jensie cover resentment and self-betrayal along with ways to identify both...

Living your values at work can be really tricky! Between navigating coworker relationships, leading a team, and even feeling comfortable and safe in your workplace, work can really be the "testing ground" for your values. In this episode, Kara and Jensie talk about ways to identify self-betrayal at work, how to course correct when you need to make changes, and how knowing your values can improve y...

In the final episode of this first season, Kara and Jensie give a full round-up of personal values and how they impact the ways we show up for ourselves, in our relationships, and at work. From starting small to doing it anyway, they run through some of the highlights of the season with a reminder that there is no such thing as balance. We're all just making it up as we go and doing the best we ca...