Voice4Kids

In this episode, Karla Lee shares heartfelt insight into the importance of keeping children engaged in outside-of-school activities after a separation. She speaks directly to separated parents, encouraging them to prioritise their child’s extracurricular involvement—whether it’s sport, dance, music, or art—as a crucial outlet for emotional release and stability. Karla highlights how these familiar...

In this heartfelt episode, Karla Lee opens up about the power and importance of counselling — not just for children navigating the impact of separation, but for parents too. Karla shares why seeking help is not a weakness, but a brave and positive step toward becoming whole and healthy — for your sake, your child’s, and even future generations. She dives into the concept of both parent and child b...

In this heartfelt episode, Karla Lee opens up about the often-overlooked importance of grieving with your child after a separation. With raw honesty and deep compassion, she explores how to navigate this emotional time in a way that honors both your child’s heart and your own. Karla shares practical wisdom on finding the balance—avoiding emotional overload while not shutting your child out. If you...

In this episode, Karla Lee explores the emotional and behavioural challenges children often face following separation or divorce. Karla discusses how children naturally go through difficult phases, but when a family breaks apart, those struggles can intensify. Karla shares the importance of recognising these changes and staying emotionally available. Karla teaches you the importance of walking alo...

In this heartfelt episode, Karla Lee dives into the importance of showing your child that it’s okay to feel—and to talk about those feelings. As parents, we often try to stay strong and hold it all together, but when we shut down emotionally, our children can feel isolated and unsure of where to turn. Karla explains why being honest and open about your own emotions not only builds trust but also g...

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the emotional and practical challenges that children face at school during and after parental separation. From the shifting dynamics of school events to the quiet emotional battles kids carry in their backpacks, we unpack the often overlooked struggles they face both in primary and high school. Karla Lee , shares her powerful personal st...

In this insightful and deeply personal piece, Karla Lee takes readers into the inner world of a child navigating the emotional landscape of parental separation. Drawing from her own experience at the age of nine, she reveals the silent fears, unanswered questions, and emotional confusion that often go unnoticed by adults. Through her story, Karla gives voice to what so many children are feeling bu...

"How to talk to your kids after Separation" Karla Lee discusses the significance of communicating with the children when they are separated and why you should refrain from jumping right in without planning what you are going to say. Where and how you convey the information are all  important considerations. Karla explains why you would not speak to a five-year-old the same way you would a fourteen...

“What do we tell the kids?” Pre-Separation Karla Lee shares about pre-separation: What parents should tell the kids In this heartfelt episode, Karla Lee opens up about the delicate and often confusing time before a separation takes place. She reflects on the emotional weight of trying to figure out what to tell the children—especially when nothing feels certain yet. Karla explains how difficult it...

"My Mess Became My Message takes you on an emotional journey of healing after divorce, exploring the impact on children, family breakdown, and the strength it takes to rebuild. Karla Lee opens the door to the raw, unfiltered reality of being a child caught in the chaos of divorce. At just 9 years old, her world shattered as her family split apart, forcing her to navigate the painful journey of liv...