Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

Full disclosure I just wanted a word to rhyme with judge - I actually do not in any way refer to fudge. And here I discuss me working on being level headed and trying my best not to judge or villianize others especially when I don’t have all the information to make the most effective decision. But yeah Will Smith slapping Chris Rock triggered me hard at first 😬😅

Just a quick reminder to step out of your comfort zone even when it’s especially challenging for you. Eventually it’ll become easier. Until then sometimes you just gotta stumble through and roll with the punches 💥👊🏽🙋🏽‍♀️

Insecurities and outside factors can make you question and doubt your worth. What no one tells you is you are worthy as you are right now and you’ve always been. Sometimes you have to be the first to believe it but it’s always true. No one (well the majority) is all evil or perfect. We all have our strengths and weaknesses so please don’t allow outside people and things to convince you that you’re...

What if your negativity, self-hatred, and worth could be based off of you instead of everyone else? What if you and only you had the key to transform your mind and life for the better? Would you give up the old you to become a better, happier, more fulfilled version of yourself? Even if the world wants to constantly fool you into thinking and believing otherwise? Would you risk it all to create ne...

I used to be extremely negative and reactive, believing I was no good. Then I began working to rewire my brain, mind, heart and soul. I used to listen to shit and believe it without question or facts to back it up. Nowadays I’m eager for differences in opinions and beliefs to gain a better understanding about the truth (whatever that may be) in its entirety and from all sides. Maybe you’re thinkin...

I know unpopular opinion and I’m simply offering a perspective and suggesting (hoping) you consider to think & converse about it with others. This topic was inspired from Chloe Roma’s Roma Army movement where she encourages and advocates for equality for both sexes with an emphasis on men’s rights. I know it sounds wild but I promise you, she is objective, fair and accurate. Check her out on most...

Loving myself better never felt so damn good. If you out my life stay the fuck out foo. I got no time for your shit. Only moving forward now - tunnel vision styles

Be you be true and never allow others to distract you from or trick you out of your greatness

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Slowly but surely I will get to where I am going. Also kinda short but wanted to post before I talked myself out of it again.

Just a small win I was extremely proud about and wanted to document it as a reminder that change is slow at first yet so rewarding when done right 🙌🏾

Why is it so damn hard to step out of my comfort zone? It’s a pinche daily struggle for me. Still, it will strengthen me in the long-term so I’m open to learning & growing. One thing is for sure, food is in my top 5 amigas. It’ll get me out the self made prison (la casa) & sometimes (often) I feel chatty when I do🗣💋

And then, randomly, felt the need to do an audio. So excuse the breathing, sniffling and burps; but shit, at least a mo’ fucka out here keepin it real✌🏾Plus you can hear my mother start naggin’ at me at the end 😂

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Today I am feeling inspiring, passionate, and spontaneous. I simply had the urge to speak and instead of just speaking to myself as I have the past few weeks I decided to share it with y’all. So if your spirits, attitude, heart or soul is down - have a listen. You may be inspired. At the very least you’ll hear words of encouragement, genuine tears and a grateful heart 💜

It’s all about perspective

Feeling shitty, down and annoyed beyond belief? Samesies 😑

If you’re trying to grow, move forward and be more positive but it’s feeling bleak this episode might be 4 you

All the feels 😶😑😤🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️💖💖🥰🥰

Being kind matters so much in both the short and long term. Use it genuinely and often. @vanessa89_lajefa & www.medium.com/@nessperience101

Death is such a bummer. I feel too much and I used to struggle with it. So I decided to push it down inside of me and pretend it was not there. I've also been focused on the wrong shit and am grateful to be reminded of what truly matters ❤️💚💙 ➡️➡️➡️➡️ Follow me and say hello. I would love to hear from ya ❤️ Instagram: vanessa89_lajefa ; Pinterest:nestlecrrrunch ; Medium: www.medium.com/@nessperi...

In this episode I discuss the three money handling principles that Dave Ramsey teaches: Give, Save, Spend - and in that order. Dave Ramsey teaches how and why to obliterate debts and even teaches how to save and handle your monies for all occasions and circumstances. Check him out @daveramsey. I was never really taught (nor did I care enough to listen) to handle my money so it left me quick. These...

Just a bunch of jargon about my feelings, Once Upon A Time in Hollywood, budgeting, Dave Ramsey and loneliness. Some other stuff too 😳😩

Hey I’m back ish. Just thinking about how I used to be reckless as shit to avoid and run away from the deeper issues. I’m rambling so don’t say you weren’t warned 😆 Reach me on Pinterest, Snapchat: nestlecrrrunch ; Facebook: Vanessa Echeverria ; Medium.com/@nessperience101 ; Instagram @vanessa89_lajefa

Although I’m not a religious person, prayer is very sacred to me. I had an experience yesterday that helped further maintain my positive outlook. Sometimes we put ourselves under too much pressure for reasons we don’t really care that much about. Practicing staying present in the moments as they occur is challenging, yet so phenomenal when they actually happen. I hope you continue to spread your w...