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Ever felt like you're living parallel lives with your partner? In this raw and honest episode, hosts share their journey through a period of disconnection while dealing with illness, career transitions, and parenting challenges.  The conversation delves deep into: - Managing communication during overwhelming times - Balancing career changes with family life - Navigating the complexities of pa...

Dive into a fascinating exploration of how childhood experiences shape our adult relationships and parenting styles. This candid conversation uncovers the intricate dance between anxious and avoidant attachment patterns, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating similar challenges. The hosts bravely share their personal stories, from juggling toddler care with podcasting to understanding ho...

Navigating Vulnerability: The Art of Sharing Personal Stories Ever wondered about the delicate balance between being authentic and maintaining professional boundaries? This deeply personal episode explores the challenges of sharing intimate experiences while managing public personas and professional lives. Through candid conversations, the hosts open up about their struggles with feedback, self-do...

Dive into an intimate conversation where two partners bravely confront their communication challenges and emotional triggers. At the heart of their discussion lies a powerful revelation: how fear of disappointment can create unexpected barriers in even the strongest relationships. The episode explores: - The delicate balance between providing feedback and managing emotional responses - How anxiety...

Money Talks: Breaking the Silence on Financial Stress in Relationships Ever wondered why money conversations feel like walking on eggshells? In this eye-opening episode, attorney Lori and her co-host tackle the universal elephant in the room: financial stress and its impact on relationships. From managing joint accounts to navigating personal spending, they share candid insights on: - Creating a s...

Ugh! Apologies for the audio - the computer had an error and we had to use our camera audio. This episode contains a lot of amazing information so don't miss out! The Secret Language of Intimacy: Understanding Sexual Connection in Relationships Did you know that couples have sex on average once a week? This eye-opening episode dives deep into the intricate dance of physical and emotional inti...

This intimate conversation delves into the raw reality of raising young children while maintaining a healthy partnership. Learn why "tapping out" isn't a sign of weakness, but a crucial strategy for preventing burnout and nurturing stronger family bonds. The speakers candidly share their experiences navigating the emotional rollercoaster of parenting, offering practical insights on:...

When Is It Time to Take the Next Step? Ever wondered if there's an expiration date on waiting for a proposal? In this compelling episode, we dive deep into the delicate dance of timing in modern relationships. From the pressure of biological clocks to the evolution of traditional marriage expectations, our hosts share candid insights about when it's time to make that crucial decision. Th...

In the season finale of Us Unfiltered join Evan and Lori in this heartwarming episode of "Us Unfiltered" as they dive into the playful side of their marriage. Through an engaging game of connection, they reveal intimate moments that shaped their journey - from the awkward first "I love you" to the mysterious origin of the nickname "pineapple." The couple candidly shar...

Privacy vs Trust: The Digital Dance in Modern Relationships Ever wondered if checking your partner's phone is a relationship red flag or a sign of trust? In this thought-provoking episode of Us Unfiltered, Evan and Lori tackle the delicate balance between privacy and transparency in relationships. They challenge the common notion that keeping secrets from your partner is healthy, arguing inst...

Ever think is the chaos of raising toddlers is secretly testing your marriage? Dr. Lori and Evan reveal their exhausting reality of parenting young children while maintaining a healthy relationship. They tackle the universal challenge that many couples face: feeling disconnected when kids demand every ounce of energy. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they explore how their tod...

Words that Wound: A Deep Dive into Relationship Boundaries Ever wondered about the devastating impact of "words of mass destruction" in relationships? Join Evan and Lori as they bravely unpack a recent disagreement in their decade-long marriage, revealing how casual threats of divorce and thoughtless words can create lasting damage. Through their candid conversation, the couple explores:...

Can Attraction to Others Coexist with Marriage? Ever wondered if it's normal to notice attractive people while in a committed relationship? Dr. Lori and Evan dive deep into this delicate topic with candor and humor, sharing their personal experiences of navigating attraction and trust within marriage. Through playful banter about their own people-watching adventures they demonstrate how open...

Dive into a powerful episode where Dr. Lori and Evan bare their souls about nearly divorcing after having their first son. Their journey tackles the taboo subject of pre-parenthood doubts, postpartum struggles, and the strain of maintaining intimacy while raising a child. Through therapy and brutally honest conversations, they transformed their relationship from the brink of divorce to a deeper co...

Setting Boundaries: The Key to Relationship Success Discover how unsolicited advice and external influences can silently erode even the strongest relationships. In this compelling episode of Us Unfiltered, Dr. Lori and Evan share intimate insights about protecting their relationship through mindful boundary-setting. Drawing from their personal experiences with loss and family dynamics, they explor...

Breaking the Silence: Men's Emotional Expression in Relationships Can men truly open up emotionally in relationships? Dr. Lori and her husband Evan tackle this challenging question head-on in a raw and honest conversation about emotional expression in modern relationships.  Drawing from personal experience, they explore how traditional masculine expectations often create barriers to meaningfu...

A Mother's Day Meltdown Sparks Deep Insights into Relationship Communication Witness a chaotic Mother's Day restaurant scene that transforms into a profound discussion about relationship dynamics and conflict resolution. Dr. Lori and Evan unpack the delicate art of "fighting fair" and share practical strategies for navigating heated moments in relationships. Key takeaways from...

Can You Really Take a "Break" in Relationships? Dr. Lori and Evan Fish Tackle the Friends Ross and Rachel Debate, infidelity, the and the rocky road of affair recovery. Ever wondered if relationship breaks are just a loophole for infidelity? Dr. Lori Fish and her husband Evan dive deep into this controversial topic, bringing the famous "Friends" debate into real-world context....

Ever wondered why finding love feels harder despite endless dating apps? This engaging episode dives deep into the evolution of modern relationships, from the influence of reality dating shows to the real-world challenges of turning friendship into romance. Our hosts share their personal journey, including a hilariously misinterpreted first encounter, while exploring how financial pressures, housi...

Navigating the Hard Choices in Marriage: Stay or Leave? Ever wondered if staying in a difficult marriage is harder than leaving it? Dr. Lori and Evan bravely open up about their personal marriage struggles and the concept of "choosing your hard" in relationships. In this raw and honest conversation, they explore: - The emotional complexities of divorce vs. working through marital problem...

Lori & Evan play 20 questions (more like 10) to demonstrate the lighthearted side of relationships and why its so important. The episode highlights the significance of unplugged conversations, whether through thoughtful post-it notes or fireside chats, showing how small gestures can strengthen bonds. Their playful banter about watching "Big Brother" together demonstrates how they bal...

The Art of Fighting Well: Navigating Marital Communication Ever wondered why even the sweetest words can turn sour with the wrong tone? This enlightening episode dives deep into the complexities of marital communication and the essential art of "fighting well."  The conversation explores the notorious "four horsemen" of relationship conflict—criticism, contempt, defensiveness,...

The Art of Compromise Without Sacrifice Discover how gaming, date days, and honest conversations shaped Dr. Lori and Evan's journey to understanding true relationship compromise. In this enlightening episode, they reveal how prioritizing collective happiness doesn't mean sacrificing individual joy – it's about evolving together. Through their personal experiences, particularly aroun...

Can the loss of a beloved pet reshape a couple's emotional landscape? In this powerful episode of "Us Unfiltered," Dr. Lori and Evan open up about their personal journey through grief after losing their dog and how it affected their relationship dynamics. The couple bravely explores the delicate balance between maintaining intimacy and managing family life during challenging times....

Navigating Loss, Love, and Communication: A Couple's Raw Journey In this deeply personal episode, a couple opens up about their emotional journey following the loss of their beloved pet Baxter, revealing how grief can strain even the strongest relationships. Through candid conversation, they explore the delicate balance of supporting each other while processing individual pain and work-relate...