UnYoked Living: The Post Divorce Thriving Guide

In this episode, we address the common temptation to abandon fellowship after the trauma of divorce. We acknowledge the very real institutional pain and relational disappointments that often drive people away from the church, while providing an honest look at why staying away is a dangerous strategy. We discuss how pain functions as a diagnostic tool rather than a navigator, and why your spiritual...

Unchecked, simmering anger doesn't make you look strong or guarded—it simply exposes the exact areas where you have stopped trusting in God's divine justice and instead stepped onto the bench to play judge yourself. Overview of Issues: In this session, we confront the toxic, anchoring nature of post-divorce resentment. Many men believe that anger is a shield or a sign of strength, but we...

Far too many men have successfully traded their eternal, God-given calling for the shiny distractions of material comfort, professional status, or worldly success. Overview of Issues: In this episode, we issue a direct wake-up call to men who are currently coasting on the sidelines of the Christian life. We explore how American comfort has turned many of us into "fans" of Jesus—people wh...

Outward religious routines and public perceptions can make a faith appear incredibly vibrant, but true spiritual life is tested in the dark when comfort fades. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this episode, we address the temptation to hide behind a mask of performative Christianity while navigating life post-divorce. We break down how easy it is to use "church culture" as a shield to avoi...

A Word for Men Who Feel Like They Lost the Life They Were Building Seven years, that's how long it's been since I've lost the life that I thought I was building. My world crashed and burned. This opening episode of Season 3 speaks directly to divorced men who are tired, wounded, isolated, and trying to figure out how to rebuild life without pretending everything is fine. Todd Turner...

What happens when your theology and your biology are at odds? Natural desires for closeness do not simply vanish when a marriage ends, yet this remains one of the least discussed topics from the pulpit. Overview of divorce issues we are discussing: In this season finale, we bring raw, unfiltered honesty to the complex realities of purity, intimacy, and loneliness for single, divorced Christians. W...

The fear of experiencing deep heartbreak again can slowly cause an individual to build thick walls around their heart. Overview of the divorce issues we are discussing: In this session, we explore the modern cultural emphasis on total independence, asking how it can sometimes get in the way of building authentic, shared vulnerability. We look at the "boss" mentality many women adopt for...

Unfortunately, some of the most complex emotional wounds can happen right within faith environments. Overview of the divorce issues we are discussing: In this essential episode, we talk through the vital differences between someone using religious language and someone actually showing Christlike character. We look at practical ways to identify safe, authentic partners, spot deceptive patterns earl...

Before you decide to log back into any dating apps, it is vital to have a clear, intentional strategy in place. Overview of divorce issues we are discussing: In this session, we break down standard relational assumptions and look closely at what genuine compatibility looks like within a shared faith framework. We discuss why rushing into dating often leads to burnout and how to map out your non-ne...

 Before you decide to log back into any dating apps, it is vital to have a clear, intentional strategy in place.  Overview of divorce issues we are discussing: Dating without a plan is a fast track to burnout and repetitive heartbreak. In this episode, we guide you through a thoughtful process to reset your heart, map out your non-negotiable core values, and create a structured dating plan. We cov...

What if getting ghosted by someone else isn't actually a commentary on your worth, but a clear indicator of overall emotional unreadiness on either side? Overview of divorce issues we are discussing: In this episode, we take a strategic look at digital communication patterns after divorce. We dive into the deeper psychological dynamics at play when connections vanish, helping you identify tru...

Experiencing sudden rejection or getting ghosted on digital platforms can reopen fresh post-divorce wounds and sting deeply. Overview of the divorce issues we are discussing: In this session, we discuss navigating the modern ghosting phenomenon with calm assurance and clear perspective. We address the buffet mentality of dating apps and how the ease of disappearing without explanation can make you...

Experiencing sudden rejection or getting ghosted on digital platforms can reopen fresh post-divorce wounds and sting deeply. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this session, we discuss navigating the modern ghosting phenomenon with calm assurance and clear perspective. We address the "buffet mentality" of dating apps and how the ease of disappearing without explanation can make you question...

Pretending everything is fine or trying to hide your pain behind spiritual platitudes will only delay your real healing. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this episode, we break down the unhelpful stigma around seeking therapy within parts of the Christian community. We discuss why trauma, deep-seated habits, and point-of-origin issues require more than just spiritual advice. We explore the essential...

When your life looks completely different from the plan you laid out before God, looking at the debris can feel paralyzing. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this intense session, we uncover the dark truths of the divorce recovery process and show you how to use that rubble to build a rock-solid spiritual foundation. We discuss the reality of "crushed dreams"—the lost traditions, the lost f...

When you feel ready to carefully step back into the dating world, carrying hidden baggage or putting up protective emotional walls will only lead to trouble. Overview of Issues: In this episode, we highlight why radical transparency functions as your single best dating strategy. We detail the art of sharing your story without shame, making sure your past isn't wasted, and seeing it instead as...

Severe heartbreak can completely shatter your most structured, lifelong personal goals—but it also holds the unique capacity to push you into a deeper, life-changing adventure with God. Overview of Issues: In this episode, we share personal reflections on a physical and spiritual journey taken to clear the wreckage of a dissolved partnership. We discuss the necessity of stopping when your "li...

When everything you've built appears fractured, seeing a clear path forward feels nearly impossible. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this special feature, host Todd Turner sits down with guest Victory Lyric to talk through finding hope and personal renewal after life's devastating blows. We look directly at the difficult question of how our ideas of faith and expectations evolve when a li...

 This episode unpacks the hidden struggles behind seemingly "picture-perfect" relationships in the church community, diving into the subtle relational cracks that often drive couples apart.  Overview of Divorce Issues : In this session, we look at the difference between true emotional readiness and just searching for a quick fix after the trauma of divorce. Many people attempt to date as...

True, lasting recovery begins when you intentionally stop chasing fast escapes and start building a life that consistently fosters internal peace. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this session, we analyze the specific daily habits, environments, and mental setups that support real post-divorce wellness. We challenge the "waiting room" mentality where many believe they must wait for a partn...

When everything you've built appears fractured, seeing a clear path forward feels nearly impossible. This episode confronts that absolute brokenness with real evidence of restoration. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this session, we explore how God takes the collateral damage of a marital split and shifts it toward a framework of purpose. We move past "Christianese" platitudes that p...

Rushing immediately back into the dating field often works to conceal underlying wounds rather than heal them. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this episode, we talk through the strategic necessity of hitting the pause button after a divorce. Many people rush into dating to distract themselves from the pain of separation, but this often leads to repeating toxic cycles. We discuss how to separate you...

This isn't about superficial fixes or temporary adjustments—it is an internal reboot. Overview of Issues: In this episode, we map out what it looks like to let go of old behavioral defaults and let God actively shape your new trajectory. Transitioning from "crushed" to "divorced" to finally "single" is a process. True rebooting happens when you stop trying to be...

In this episode, we bring unvarnished honesty to the daily emotional turbulence of building a completely new life. Starting over is the process of redefining who you are outside of your marital title and learning to live authentically in your new reality. We discuss why moving from "spouse" or "parent" first to a whole individual is the key to true growth, and why you need to s...

Loneliness can hit unexpectedly like a sudden wave, leaving you highly vulnerable to making decisions out of desperation. Overview of Divorce Issues: In this episode, we discuss the hard realities of post-divorce isolation. We confront the trap of rushing into new relationships to numb the pain, which often leads to repeating toxic patterns. We provide a roadmap for cultivating healthy friendships...