Unspoken Emotions

In this episode, Rachel engages in a heartfelt conversation with Valerie Rubin, an attachment specialist with an anxious style and a trauma-informed somatic coach. Valerie shares her personal journey of navigating anxious attachment, chronic pain, and the complexities of relationships with emotionally unavailable partners. KEY TAKEAWAYS Anxious Attachment is Common: Approximately 50% of people in...

In this episode, Rachel engages in a heartfelt conversation with therapist and coach Blair Pfeiffer, who shares her deeply personal journey of navigating childhood differences, a violent relationship, and the complexities of unexpected motherhood through open adoption. Blair reflects on her late diagnosis of ADHD in her late 30s, coinciding with the onset of perimenopause, which brought clarity to...

In this heartfelt episode, Rachel reflects on the transformative lesson she learned in 2025 about self-abandonment and the importance of prioritizing oneself. As she prepares for the new year, Rachel shares personal stories and insights from her life and those of her clients, illustrating how women often neglect their own needs while caring for others. Through poignant anecdotes, she emphasizes th...

In this episode, Rachel is joined by renowned somatic psychotherapist and author Tracy Whitton to explore the profound journey of nervous system healing. Tracy shares her deeply personal story of "falling apart" on the inside while maintaining a high-functioning exterior, a state many women find themselves in today. After facing consecutive life-threatening illnesses with her children and the onse...

WARNING: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS EXPLICIT GRAPHICAL CONTENT  In this poignant episode, Rachel engages in a deeply moving conversation with Samantha Dale, the best friend and sister figure of Suzanne Capper, a 16-year-old girl who was brutally tortured and murdered in December 1992. Samantha shares cherished memories of Suzanne, highlighting her vibrant spirit and infectious laughter, before delving...

Ready to lighten the weight you’ve been carrying? Rachel invites you to join her 6-week emotional reset programme - Breakthrough .It’s a deeply supportive journey designed for women who’ve been silently carrying unspoken emotions and are ready to reconnect with peace, confidence, and self-trust again. If something inside you knows it’s time, email rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk with the word “Break...

Ready to lighten the weight you’ve been carrying? Rachel invites you to join her 6-week emotional reset programme - Breakthrough. It’s a deeply supportive journey designed for women who’ve been silently carrying unspoken emotions and are ready to reconnect with peace, confidence, and self-trust again. If something inside you knows it’s time, email rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk with the word “Break...

Ready to lighten the weight you’ve been carrying? Rachel invites you to join her 6-week emotional reset programme - Breakthrough. It’s a deeply supportive journey designed for women who’ve been silently carrying unspoken emotions and are ready to reconnect with peace, confidence, and self-trust again. If something inside you knows it’s time, email rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk with the word “Break...

Ready to lighten the weight you’ve been carrying? Rachel invites you to join her 6-week emotional reset programme - Breakthrough. It’s a deeply supportive journey designed for women who’ve been silently carrying unspoken emotions and are ready to reconnect with peace, confidence, and self-trust again. If something inside you knows it’s time, email rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk with the word “Break...

In this deeply moving episode of Unspoken Emotions, host Rachel Elimelech breaks her 18-year silence to share the story that changed everything. After discovering that her partner had sexually abused her child, Rachel spent years carrying guilt, shame, and anger - emotions that quietly shaped every part of her life. This episode is raw, honest, and filled with truth. A reminder that healing doesn’...

In this emotional episode, Rachel speaks with Cari Rickabough, who survived decades of abuse within her own family and carried the impact of that trauma into adulthood through seizures, chronic illness, and a deep belief that she was “too broken to be helped.” After years of feeling unheard in traditional therapy, Cari discovered neuro-linguistic and somatic healing work that allowed her to gently...

In this powerful episode, Rachel speaks with Natasha Costalas, a former Head of English who traded her 10-year teaching career for the world of competitive bodybuilding, coaching, and authorship. Natasha bravely details her journey from a seemingly perfect, high-achieving life that masked chronic exhaustion, panic attacks, and body dysmorphia, to a transformative period of intense self-discovery....

Today, Rachel invites Sam Halliwell, a trauma-informed endometriosis coach, to share her deeply personal journey with endometriosis, chronic pain, and the emotional toll of living with a chronic illness. Sam discusses her early health struggles, the challenges of being dismissed by medical professionals, and the impact of her diagnosis on her identity as a woman.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Emotional Impact of...

In this raw and necessary conversation, Rachel welcomes Nic Collins, a therapist, coach, and host of The Advance men’s retreat. He opens up about his personal journey from high-pressure industrial sales to a life of sobriety and authentic connection. For 20 years, Nic lived with the unspoken weight of substance use, depression, and suicidal thoughts, masking his struggles in an environment that va...

In this inspiring episode, Rachel welcomes Linda Eastburn, a remarkable guest who shares her transformative journey of courage and intuition. At the age of 50, Linda made the bold decision to leave a 23-year marriage and a successful career in real estate to reinvent herself. Linda discusses the pivotal moments that led her to trust her intuition, the challenges she faced while starting anew, and...

In this insightful episode, Rachel welcomes Sharon, a holistic health practitioner and PSYCH-K facilitator for a deeply moving and eye-opening conversation about the inner voice we inherit and how it quietly shapes our confidence, relationships and sense of worth. Sharon shares how childhood programming can bury our true identity, and how rewriting those internal stories can free us from years of...

In this powerful episode, Rachel welcomes Regina Hiremath, a survivor of emotional and financial abuse who spent 23 years in a challenging marriage before finding the courage to reclaim her life. Regina shares her journey of healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing unspoken emotions and the impact of living behind a mask. Regina discusses the emotional and psychological abuse she endured...

Today, Rachel welcomes Becky Cohen, founder of The Conscious Revolution and a multi-passionate entrepreneur, to share her transformative journey from burnout and disconnection to alignment and purpose. Becky, a certified transformation coach and human design expert, reflects on her 15 years in the corporate world, where she chased external success but ultimately felt misaligned. KEY TAKEAWAYS Jour...

In this powerful episode, Rachel welcomes Reese Maskwa, a woman who has overcome unimaginable pain and loss. Reese shares her journey of surviving a devastating car accident while six months pregnant, which resulted in the loss of her first child, years of seizures, disability, and debilitating pain. Through a combination of energy healing, mindset work, and sheer determination, Reese completely t...

Rachel sits down with Lloyd Ditforth, a caregiver who faced the emotional and physical challenges of supporting his wife through her breast cancer diagnosis. Lloyd shares his journey from a resourceful upbringing in a small Texas town to navigating the overwhelming feelings of helplessness that arose during his wife's illness.  Lloyd discusses the mental toll caregiving takes, particularly from a...

Rachel welcomes intuitive coach and group facilitator Lara Bokovay, who shares her profound journey through corporate burnout, personal loss, and the challenges of motherhood. Lara reflects on her past, revealing how she was conditioned to sacrifice her well-being for success, often ignoring her emotional and physical needs. After taking a transformative summer off to reconnect with herself, she d...

In this deeply moving episode of Unspoken Emotions, Rachel sits down with Lee Whitwell, a mother and business owner whose life was torn apart by a single tragic mistake behind the wheel at the age of 48. What began as an ordinary January evening ended in devastation when a moment of misjudgment led to the loss of another person’s life. Lee opens up about the harrowing aftermath — the crushing guil...

In this powerful episode of Unspoken Emotions, Rachel Elimelech sits down with Lisa Negus to explore her incredible journey of overcoming childhood bullying, self-doubt, and the trauma of a life-altering accident. Lisa shares the deeply personal story of how she battled limiting beliefs and felt invisible for much of her life. She opens up about the struggles that led her to discover her resilienc...

In this deeply moving episode of Unspoken Emotions, host Rachel Elimelech sits down with Jude Hill, a mother whose world was shattered when she lost her young son Adam to a brain tumour. Jude shares her raw and honest story of navigating unimaginable grief. Whether you're grieving, supporting someone who is, or simply curious about the emotional depths we often avoid, this episode offers hope, und...

In this inspiring episode, Rachel engages in a heartfelt conversation with Barbara Lewthwaite, whose journey of resilience and defiance against early trauma and societal norms is both profound and transformative. Barbara shares her experiences of surviving abuse, the emotional intelligence she developed at a young age, and her courageous decision to report her father, which led to significant pers...