Unrelenting Pursuit

One of the greatest elements we see in thriving marriages, and those that have successfully navigated healing after a crisis, is the ability to own their part. Over and over we see couples playing the blame game. If it isn't their spouse, they blame other aspects of their past as an excuse for their present behavior.  The blame game only breeds hurt, and shame, and leads to disrespect. Before...

Is there a right way to fight? In this episode, we discuss four different ways that couples tend to handle conflict from the book Vertical Marriage by Dave & Ann Wilson.  " Win . A winner is usually good at conflict. Winners actually like conflict and are skilled at winning the argument. They bring eyewitness accounts and evidence, complete with full-color pictures, proving they are right...

Are you in a season that requires patience? Have you ever practiced patience? It is not easy! On this episode, we discuss examples where we have had to practice patience, and what God has taught us in those moments. Sometimes, we have missed opportunities in the middle of the waiting because we have been fixated on what we think should happen, or are so distracted we don't see what is right in fro...

We are delighted to share this interview with Couples Connect. We loved the questions they asked as it caused us to look at some things we hadn’t really thought about before.  Curious about our story?  This is a great place to hear about our journey and how God moves in impossible places. We encourage you to follow this couple on social media and listen to their amazing content! https://...

This is an interview Lisa did with Wren Robbins on Friends of a Feather Podcast.  Please go follow her and subscribe to her podcast @ https://linktr.ee/friendsofafeatherpodcast For a full blog post on this interview, go to www.wrenrobbins.com/podcast/188

Did you know there is such a thing as good stress? Find out on this episode what the difference is between eustress and distress and ways to handle each of them in your life.   Things like... Exercise Keeping a sense of humor Being able to say no to things Not taking things personally Forgiveness Ultimately, we want you to lean into Jesus no matter what life throws your way. Over and over in...

Do you struggle with control? Think about it again, do you find yourself fearful or angry? These things can be evidence of a desire to control things in your life. If you don't struggle with control, do you find yourself dealing with passivity? Do you remain disconnected from your faith, marriage, kids, and circumstances? God doesn't call us to live our lives in either of these places. He wants us...

Have you ever thought about the difference between hearing and listening? In this episode, we discuss the nuances of communication and some questions you can ask yourself to become a better listener. We were blessed to be panelists at the Intentional Marriage Conference where this topic was discussed by Kevin & Jessica Bullock. Please go follow them @ https://linktr.ee/Jessicasbullock for more...

We are thrilled to be back for Season 3 and thrilled that you are a part of our listening family. In this episode, we discuss some of the things we did over the summer and we tackle the question, "Can you make your spouse cheat?" Tune in as we discuss our experience with this issue and the many ways you can protect your marriage. We are also guest speakers at the International Marriage Conference...

Today we celebrate 20 years of marriage. There was a time in our marriage when we never thought this would be a day we would have a chance to celebrate, and we are beyond grateful to God, who has taken our broken story and done something beautiful.  We spend this episode answering 20 questions from our dear friend, Ariel Houston, about various stories & advice we have from our marriage. D...

On this episode, we have featured guests from Transformed Couples with us. They share some of their story as a blended family and give advice on how to navigate some of the intricacies of bringing two families together. We are so grateful for the hope they are bringing to so many and their transparency and openness on this topic. Join the conversation! Find additional resources @ https://www.trans...

We had so much fun on this episode and also answered some very deep questions from YOU guys, our listeners! We answered questions such as: What does discipleship look like for y'all? Both with married and non-married people? What are some practical ways to stop living in habitual sin? What does it look like for you to pick someone to walk with you spiritually? What are some ways to implement your...

On this episode we did our 1st part in a 2 part series of questions from you guys! We answered questions like these: Advice for engaged couples & newlyweds? Will Brad be on a tiktok soon? Do y'all fight? Do you want more kids? What is our most embarrassing moment in marriage? How do you navigate In-law relationships? What is your big dream for Unrelenting Pursuit? We got very transparent and r...

Have you ever struggled with only being consistent in something if you see an immediate change? Do you give up easily when/if you don't see the end result?   What if you developed consistency:  Spiritually?  Physically?  Mentally?  As a spouse?  As a parent?  Verses referenced:  Galatians 6:9  1st Corinthians 15:58  Matthew 5:37  We have...

On this episode we dive into what purity is and both the pitfalls and guardrails that we have experienced. It is is so easy to adopt a culture of acceptance and assume that we can never maintain purity with what we see, what we hear, and how we behave, but that is not the case! We invite you to be radically different and experience your marriage the way God designed it to be. With great discipline...

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a rut? Do you feel like you are struggling with doing the same thing day in or day out? Did you know that adventure is healthy for your relationships? On this episode we cover five different ways that adventuring can benefit both your marriage and family. It challenges you. It bonds you together towards a common goal/experience. It creates amazing memories. It...

We have had a lot of questions regarding the enneagram. So, we decided to consult a Christian Enneagram expert! Join us as Kim Eddy answers a ton of questions for us on this episode. We wanted to know what the enneagram thing is about and have an overview of what each number means. We asked her if this was something Christians should even be looking in to and how it can help marriages. Don't miss...

This week has been a hard hit with the reality of our teenagers rapidly growing up and how the lessons we are learning can be applied to any season of life. We are finding the delicate balance required of giving both freedom and establishing guardrails and we would recommend these three things to help you navigate parenthood. •Prayer - Pray over your children's future spouse and for your kids to d...

Being a man in today's culture comes with a lot of stereotypes and misconceptions. We share from the heart on several strategies that have helped our marriage in this area. We also discuss how discipline, humility, and serving have had a huge impact in Brad becoming who God has called him to be.  We also want to recommend additional resources like "Soulcon" which is an online community, and "...

Our story involves rebuilding trust and a lot of traveling for work.  Those two things don't work well together. We found several tips that have helped us and we share them with you on this episode. These can be applied to any season of your marriage and we hope they help you as they have helped us.  P - Priorities R - Reactions A - Accountability Y - Yearning

On this episode we interview Ryan Frederick. He is passionate about helping men treasure Christ most and love their families well. He and his wife, Selena, created Fierce Marriage with one simple mission: to point couples to Christ and commission marriages for the gospel. Together, their writing reaches millions of monthly readers around the world with the transformational message of the gospel.&n...

On this episode we continue to go over topics you submitted for us to discuss. We talk about things like insecurities in marriage, questions you should be asking your spouse, and what is something you should be doing weekly with one another.  We would love if you would take a few moments to write out a written review as it helps other people discover us.

On this episode we go over some of the questions YOU asked us to discuss! Tune in as we go over the advice we would give newly married couples/parents and discover whether you should you be doing a weekly "check in."

We have many differences as a couple and on this episode we discuss a few of them and what has helped us navigate them in a healthy way. Things like finances, change, perspective can all influence how you handle your day to day life a a couple, and it's so important to recognize those differences and find ways to grow with one another, and love each other, despite of them. Join us in the conversat...

On this episode we are thrilled to interview featured guest, Nancy Kaser, who gives amazing advice regarding marriage. Nancy is author of "Crown" which takes women through 30 Wife-Changing Lessons. Tune in and join us for the conversation.