Unrelenting Pursuit

Join us as we get a chance to share about our son, and what God is doing right now. We serve the same God of power and might who answers prayers and moves TODAY We also dig into the question: why do we stop short? Whether it’s in our marriage, our faith, our relationships, or boldly sharing Christ—what could happen if we went all in and truly believed in the power of the One we serve? What if we s...

In this episode, we’re sharing some powerful lessons God taught us while building a home in Guatemala with Casas por Cristo —and how those same truths apply directly to marriage. From the importance of a firm foundation to learning how to pivot when plans change, we saw firsthand how trust in God transforms everything. We talk about how the Body of Christ works together in unity, the power of pers...

In Part 2 of our anniversary special, we’re diving into the second half of the 24 pieces of marriage advice we’ve learned over 24 years together.  These are the deeper lessons—about forgiveness, fun, intimacy, and fighting for each other instead of against.  If you’ve ever wondered how to stay connected through chaos, how to rebuild trust, or how to let laughter and faith carry you through the dar...

After 24 years of marriage, we’ve gathered a list of 24 pieces of advice that have shaped, challenged, and strengthened our relationship—and in this two-part series, we’re sharing them with you. In this episode, we dive into the first 12 lessons, from the practical to the deeply personal. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, there’s something here for you. Tune in for real talk, hard-earned...

Let’s be honest—offense is heavy. And if we’re not careful, we start carrying things we were never meant to hold. In this episode, we open up a raw, no-judgment conversation about what happens when we live offended—and how it affects our heart, our relationship with God, and our marriage. We talk about how bitterness doesn’t just isolate you—it starts to shape how you see everything. You begin exp...

This episode hit different—because as we were recording it, God was working on us . What started as a conversation about marriage and trust in dry seasons quickly became a moment of conviction. We had to face the truth: we weren’t trusting God as much as we thought we were. And most importantly we talk about how God uses the desert—yes, even the hard, frustrating parts—to shape something holy in u...

As moms, it’s far too easy to live under the weight of guilt, comparison, and the constant feeling that we’re not doing enough.  In this episode, we’re breaking down the lie of failure that so many of us carry—and replacing it with the truth: this role matters deeply.   You are seen by God. He has equipped you for this sacred work and the seeds you are planting in this season matter!  Whether you’...

What if the most loving thing you could do… was let someone face the full weight of their choices? In this episode, we unpack the hard truth that rescuing isn’t always love. We dive into why stepping in too soon can actually delay growth, how consequences can be the very tool God uses for transformation, and how to release the people we care about to His process — even when it hurts. We’re redefin...

“Be strong and courageous.” (Joshua 1:9) God calls men to be protectors — not to dominate, but to defend with love. Women were created to strengthen, not diminish. In this episode, we break down God’s original design for marriage: where leadership is sacrificial, help is powerful, and true protection honors, covers, and brings life. We reclaim the beauty of these roles—and why stepping into them i...

Ever notice how the little quirks in your partner’s behavior can be endearing, amusing, and quickly shift to irritating?  In this episode, we dive into the everyday idiosyncrasies that can sometimes drive us up the wall—like leaving cabinets open, repeating stories, or even being hilariously enthusiastic about dishwasher organization—and uncover how these quirks can actually be the secret ingredie...

What does real love look like?  In this episode, we explore the heart of Jesus’ love—the kind that washed Judas’ feet, embraced the outcast, and laid down everything for those who didn’t deserve it.  Jesus said the world would know we are His followers by the way we love. That includes our spouses, especially when it’s difficult. Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a choice, a reflection of Christ.  Wh...

In this episode, we dive into the challenges many couples face when communication breaks down—particularly when reactions fall to extremes.  Whether it's shutting down and withdrawing or explosive outbursts fueled by anger, both responses can cause long-term damage to your relationship.  Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger," and James 1:20 t...

Trust and connection in marriage don’t just happen—they require regular reflection and assessment. In this episode, we discuss why honest self-assesement, and assessment of your marriage, is essential for both preventing issues and rebuilding trust after challenges. Join us as we discuss practical ways to assess communication, spiritual growth, and why you can’t skip or stay stuck in this step if...

In this episode, we discuss the importance of holding onto faith, even when the road gets tough, and why sometimes the greatest miracles happen in the middle of the mess. Whether you’re facing challenges in your marriage or looking to strengthen your relationship with your spouse, this episode offers biblical encouragement, practical advice, and powerful reminders to never give up. As always, we w...

Infidelity often stems from deep-seated insecurities and unchecked pride, leading individuals to seek fulfillment outside their covenant with God and their spouse. The enemy cunningly offers half-truths, mixing a semblance of truth with poison, enticing hearts away from divine purpose. In this episode, we delve into the common threads underlying unfaithfulness, exploring how the narrative of failu...

What separates those who thrive in marriage from those who struggle? There’s a hidden factor—one that reveals who is truly willing to love sacrificially and who holds back.  In this episode, we explore the biblical foundation of sacrifice in marriage, the unseen heart attitudes that define our willingness, and how embracing God’s design can transform our relationships.  As always, we would love to...

In marriage, what you pursue is what you protect —so how are you safeguarding what matters most? In this episode of Unrelenting Pursuit , we’re diving into the sacredness of marriage —what it means to be set apart , held in high regard, and fiercely committed to honoring your covenant. We’ll explore how treating your marriage as holy and intentional creates powerful safeguards against distractions...

In this episode, we’re diving into two key areas that impact every marriage: emotional intimacy and decision-making. Many couples struggle to connect deeply, not because they don’t love each other, but because they don’t always understand how men and women experience emotional intimacy differently. We’ll also unpack the OODA Loop (Observe, Orient, Decide, Act)—a decision-making framework that can...

The people closest to you have a powerful influence on your character, growth, and life’s direction. Yet, many—especially men—often overlook the importance of investing in this critical area of life. In this episode, we dive into how the people standing beside you shape the person you are inside. We’ll discuss the necessity of building a strong, intentional community, recognizing when relationship...

In this episode, we explore how to keep the true heart of connection alive in your marriage and family during the Thanksgiving season. With all the expectations and traditions that come with the holidays, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters: your connection with God and your spouse. Join us as we discuss how to prioritize love, grace, and mutual respect over perfection, when to let go a...

Manipulation often disguises itself in subtle ways, yet it deeply damages relationships and undermines trust. In this episode, we expose common tactics of manipulation, including: • Emotional Blackmail • Gaslighting • Passive Aggression • Victimhood • Control • Withholding Affection Learn how to identify and address these harmful behaviors—whether in yourself or your spouse—and break free from cyc...

In this episode, we explore how true breakthrough often requires a process of breaking, as God calls us to let go of the things that no longer serve His purpose in our lives.  This journey applies to marriage, too, where compromising on Godly standards can feel like a way to avoid discomfort but ultimately leads us toward temporary relief instead of lasting growth.  We’ll discuss how holding firm...

In this episode, we dive into the subtle, often unnoticed behaviors—micro-rejections—that can slowly create a chasm between you and your spouse.  Join us as we explore what micro-rejections look like, why they’re easy to overlook, and how they can build up over time to erode trust and connection. Learn how to recognize and address these small hurts and ensure you don’t allow this to be an obstacle...

In this episode, we explore three transformative questions from Gary Chapman that can change the course of your marriage:  •What can I do to help you?  •How can I make your life easier? •How can I be a better husband/wife?  These questions, when asked with humility and selflessness, open the door to deeper communication and connection. When you choose to set aside pride, defensiveness, and selfish...

In this episode, we dive into the connection between love languages, respect, and how you both give and receive love. Understanding your own love language, as well as your spouse’s, can radically impact the health of your marriage. We discuss how the way you express love ties into showing respect and how this directly influences your relationship with your spouse and your faith. By aligning your l...