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I don’t resolutions, planners or set goals. I try to just make changes to better myself. I’m falling back into being my angry self which isn’t a good thing, but it’s what I know. It’s still me against the world but it’s not about to get the best of me. K bye! 

Heyyy y’all! It’s me you know that person that started a podcast and still trying to get my footing. Anywho, just me catching y’all up on stuff…you know life. K bye! 

Update on me & Covid aka my new bff. Lol! So yeah I caught covid over Christmas. Being I’m boosted my symptoms was like a bad cold. Now it’s just a waiting game of it running its course and me finally testing negative ( hopefully soon ). K bye! 

When did we put a monopoly on products others outside of our race can’t buy or promote? Why do we feel the need to get angry because another likes a product we created? Why can’t we as a people have an open dialogue if we feel said others are trying to move in? We have to coexist and with that we need to have conversations and learn. Not everyone is out to hurt or take what we deem as OURS. 

This is a year end of sorts kinda! Truth be told 2022 was like 2020 for me. It sucked big time and I have no fond memories. Que sera sera!!! Let’s all try to be better humans to each other and this planet. We only have one life. Live it to the fullest!! Happy New Year to you all! K bye! 

This is about me & my former bowling partner. Yes, I bowled in a league once. Lol! I also mention why I feel you need to be kind and speak to everyone. I also acknowledge homeless people. They too are human. K bye! 

I will not be doing a year end recap and you’ll hear why. We’re just days away from saying good bye to 2022.  Have you created a vision board, written down your New Year’s resolutions and/or set goals? Whatever your plans I wish you all the best! Let the countdown begin….. Here’s last years recap https://wp.me/s5Ofr2-2021

Death is hard to hear, but especially when it’s someone you know. Whether personally or from afar. tWitch danced his way into our hearts on SYTYCD. To hear of his passing was like a gut punch. Suicide is an unexpected reality for those going thru some form of mental illness. We as a people need to be mindful, caring and in tuned to others. Rest in Peace tWitch

You would probably ask do I regret saying what I said out loud. That answer is no,  because I rarely take back anything I say. I’m guessing the universe could’ve put an expiration date on it. Lol! Happy birthday Jimmy to the sky! ❤️ Check out the blog post below https://ewp.me/p5Ofr2-dk

Brittney Griner is FREE and there’s nothing but backlash and negativity around it. You have to weed thru all the hate to find the good in this. I’m sure most weren’t even following her imprisonment, yet you have alot to say. What’s sadder is it’s coming from all sides ( black & white ). This episode is as raw as it gets because I’m drained from reading all the negativity. K bye! 

So last night was very interesting. You have to listen, because it’s something in this climate we shouldn’t be doing. Let me just say….be conscious when you call your goon squad. Your actions can have detrimental consequences and luckily that didn’t happen last night. 

So it’s 28 days ( and episode 28 ) until 2023…..got any goals, resolutions or just gonna go with the flow? I hoping to be out more, see people, get my camera out & shoot and just be present. I’m not setting any expectations. I’m just going to do me and I hope you do the same. K bye!

Here’s a little update on surrogate and little miss sunshine. Our dynamic has changed but I don’t think they’re really aware. The kid is now seventeen. Do I miss interacting with her yes, but I can’t keep fighting a losing battle. She has to come around on her own. Stay tuned…surrogate has something to tell me 2moro. K bye! 

Today or maybe a week ago it finally made sense why YouTubers were always saying share, subscribe and hit that notification bell. I’m now becoming that person while attempting to podcast. Bottom line is if we don’t say it, you probably won’t partake. The latter is where I am and at times it’s bothersome to be honest. Anywho, if you’re listening…..thanks! K bye! 

There’s a lot of stories around Black Friday. I’m not about to go into it, but I will tag links for your reading pleasure. In the meantime, get your shopping on ( yeah I’m partaking too ). K bye! https://www.bbc.com/news/business-25110953 https://www.history.com/news/black-friday-thanksgiving-origins-history

No I’m not about to quit, but I have thought about.  In life we want things to happen immediately. We want to be see, want to be heard and when it doesn’t happen ( for some ) we bounce. Right now that’s where I am. It’s a do I stay, do I go kinda thing. For now I’m staying.  K bye! 

I’m constantly wondering how do people go viral. How do you hit that sweet spot as they say? I’m guessing there’s a formula or playbook of sorts. Or maybe just pure luck.  Rest in peace Shanquella Robinson!  https://wp.me/p5Ofr2-kT

That’s right y’all. In 47 days we’ll be in 2023. Sheesh! This year was a slow crawl until recently when it’s now speeding thru. So I guess it’s almost time to reflect on 2022. You know the good, bad & ugly of it all. I think I have more bad & ugly than good, but hey I’m here. 2023 is coming fast and I guess I better think long and hard what next year will mean for me. K bye! https://wp.me/...

The time has come…actually it’s way overdue, but I’m cutting the kid and her momma off. Surrogate doesn’t know yet, but I’ll drop that on her when she returns home. In my heart of hearts it should’ve happened awhile ago, but I couldn’t. This five weeks has shown me they won’t change. I cannot continue giving my all to a family not willing to make changes. My health is taking a beating and I’m not...

Just listen to the episode. Lol! But would I do it again? I’ll answer that towards the end. Y’all know it’s always something with me. K bye! Side note : he was fine!!! 

We all know the Twitter we knew is basically no more, but you gotta checkout Chief Twits account. It’s the stuff of comedy…kinda. Not sure how bad Twitter is going to get, but just peep his feed. Don’t linger there too long tho! Lol! 

Didn’t mean to disappear and not put out an episode or two, but this thing called Life took a hold. I had a lot of stuff hitting me from all corners and doing a podcast wasn’t on the to do list. So I’m back for now , but bear with me. I’m still doing temporary parent duties while surrogate is  on the mend. 

So little miss sunshine is playing with the wrong one aka me. I’m not about it and I really don’t want to pull surrogate into this. Especially since she’s in rehab getting herself better. All I know is this child better get it together. K bye! 

It’s midterm election time and I don’t want to hear no excuses. Get your lazy asses up and out to VOTE like your life depends on it. In actuality it does. We are living in uncertain times and this can’t continue. Vote with a purpose. If not for yourself, for the future generations. Gonna add some links to check out. K bye! https://www.vote.org/early-voting-calendar/ https://www.bbc.com/news/world-...

This episode is the latest update on gym dudes 1 & 2. He thought he was gonna catch ya gurl slippin. Not today satan, not today. Lol! Oh and don’t come for me telling a little black lie,  cause we all do it. Mine was harmless, but I did see his soul leave his body. This is my Friday wrap up….enjoy. K bye!