Unperform with Tiffany Han (formerly Raise Your Hand Say Yes)

In episode 371 I brought some radical transparency with the announcement of my ADHD diagnosis. This week, I’m revisiting that diagnosis with an update of everything that’s changed since and how my journey has gone! From my sleep, productivity, and anxiety, to my journey with medication, it has been an eye-opening few months and I’m excited to check in on where I am now. Other things I dive into in...

Today I’m breaking down how we can lean on the pillars of #RadSelBel and DFSTAG to show up as our most authentic selves in the relationships that serve us. We’ll also discuss how to know when it’s time to let a relationship come to an end. After all, the people we want to keep in our lives deserve the truest version of you, and so do you. Listen in for a healthy dose of acceptance, spirit tending,...

Hello friends. Just dropping in to let you know that I am taking a two-week break! Feel free to dive into the archives for some inspiration and perhaps take a little break of your own. See you back here on November 2nd! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tiffanyhan.substack.com/subscribe

I am so thrilled to be speaking to  Adam J. Kurtz (aka Adam JK) on the podcast about his new book, You Are Here (For Now) , a collection of essays and art about life, and change, and you, and me, and all of us trying to just be more okay. Let me say I devoured this book and had room for seconds it was so good.  Tune in as Adam and I discuss the difference between living and truly being alive with...

On this particularly inspiring (and particularly vulnerable) episode, I’m so pleased to have chatted with Pulitzer Prize-winning investigative journalist and the author of The Power of Habit and Smarter Faster Better , Charles Duhigg! Together we drill down on what it takes to say “Yes!” to the changes we’d like to make in our lives, knowing where to start, and the role belief plays in all of it. ...

In thinking about where to start when it comes to tackling racism and dismantling systems of oppression, it’s easy to feel like any right next steps can feel simultaneously like way too much and not nearly enough. Luckily I had the opportunity to chat with the incredible Rhonda Magee about her book, The Inner Work of Racial Justice: Healing Ourselves and Transforming Our Communities Through Mindfu...

Forget everything you think you know about minimalism and get ready for an education on liberating yourself from the physical and emotional clutter that’s no longer serving you. Christine Platt, author of The Afrominimalist's Guide to Living with Less , joins me today to chat about the true meaning of minimalism, the best ways to approach letting go of what is no longer serving us, and living more...

Ah, productivity. The finish line we’re sprinting towards that stretches ever farther away the faster we hustle. Here’s the truth: We’ve been sold a raw deal on productivity and time. “Managing” our time stifles the magic of being alive! Today I’m calling out my fellow Super-Doers with a reminder that you can trust yourself.  Listen in as I reveal the lesser-known impacts of stress, how our curren...

Time for some RADICAL transparency: my impulse (note, impulse) was to ask myself today if talking about #RadSelBel and Grown-Up Gap Year even mattered when it felt like so many hard things were happening around the world...until I saw a tweet that reminded me of why I do what I do.  Today I’m offering the warm reminder that it’s okay to feel both rage and hope. That #RadSelBel helps us slow down a...

You may have noticed quite a few ch-ch-changes around here lately and today I’m opening up about all of them. Between the retirement of my Inner Circle and the birth of my new program, Grown-Up Gap year, I certainly stopped to wonder at times what all this change was for. After all, why fix it if it ain’t broke, right?  Wrong.  I’m taking a page out of my own book and getting curious, moving intui...

Today we welcome back author, speaker, and life coach Andrea Owen!  Together we chat about Andrea’s newest book, “Make Some Noise” and what it means to step forward in life, not necessarily with confidence, but with the conviction that you deserve to take up space, raise your voice, and well...make some noise! We also dissect the importance of unlearning all that we’ve been conditioned to believe,...

Today I’m sharing some personal stories about seemingly simple challenges that packed a big metaphorical punch for me. I’m drilling down into the low-stakes situations in which I flex my grace and faith, making it easier to call on them in the future. I’m indulging in my growth mindset, letting myself off the hook, and asking, “What is possible if…?”. Tune in to find out where you can practice low...

Who would I be if I stopped being a “Good Girl”? This is the question on my mind after today’s prolific chat with Majo Molfino, coach and author of “Break the Good Girl Myth: How to Dismantle Outdated Rules.”. Together we dissect the “5 Good Girl Myths” and the importance of dispelling them in your own way. Toppling the patriarchy is a tall order made even stickier when we learn that the patriarch...

Today I’m putting my money where my mic is and revealing exactly how I’m walking my walk when it comes to living a life grounded in radical self-beleif (#RadSelBel!). Slowing down to engage in the life-long practice of what I preach is less about the BIG DECISIONS to make change, and more about the daily baby steps we take to flip the script, prioritize our values, and give ourselves permission to...

Whether she is adventuring through the experimental changes in her everyday life or adventuring around the globe, Cait Flanders has created a life led by bold choices. Luckily for us, she has chronicled it all in her newest book, “Adventures in Opting Out” and is chatting with me today about what happens when we reframe our choices as adventures.  The majority of self-help books may assist in insp...

What an absolute honor it’s been to chat with Jessamyn Stanley, an internationally acclaimed voice in wellness highly sought after for her insights on 21st-century yoga and intersectional identity. Listen in as we talk about Jessamyn’s newest book, “Yoke: My Yoga of Self-Acceptance”, the true meaning of “yoke”, and how yoga strongly intersects with the last 18 months of global reckoning we all exp...

Welcome back to part 2 of this deep dive into the fears and doubts that often pop up when we decide to live beyond the to-do list. I’m adding a few more to the list and reminding you that this is a life-long practice that we can continue to work on together! Why does this shift in perspective take time and support? Old patterns are hard to shake, especially when we’ve been brought up in a society...

You’re efficient. You’re a do-er. So naturally, you’ve got those standard fears pretty much covered, at least enough to get through the day and your to-do list. You know the ones...fear of failure, fear of success, fear of change, the list goes on and on. Well, today I’m going to talk about a different set of fears, ones that you might not even realize have been massively getting in the way of you...

When it comes to Radical Self-Belief (heyo #radselbel!), I’ll likely still be talking about it in another 375 episodes. However, I have a sneaking suspicion I’m not alone when I say it’s easier to talk the talk than walk the walk. Today I’m bringing you the five pillars of radical self-belief to make it just a touch easier to lace up your sneaks and take the first step towards your most technicolo...

Welcome to the beginning of the #RadSelBel movement—I’m definitely on a mission to make it a whole thing. This week, grab your favorite pencil case and meet me for a powerful history lesson on Radical Self-Belief and the deeply rooted foundations of why it’s so dang challenging for us to trust ourselves. If this is something you struggle with, you’re not alone, and you’re NOT to blame.  When histo...

I talk a LOT about this “over the rainbow” technicolor life we’re all aiming for...but what does that actually mean? More specifically, what does that mean for you? Can you live your most technicolor life and still get the laundry done? In this episode, I get real about everything a technicolor life truly is, and everything it’s not.  It’s time to dig deep, feel the uncomfortable feelings, and unl...

If you’ve been following along for a minute, you KNOW I’ve fallen head over sticky fingers in love with Molly Wilkinson’s French pastry lessons since the start of the pandemic. Listen in as Molly and I discuss her journey from a marketing job in Texas to teaching the art of puff pastry from her home in Versailles, highlighting the challenges and delicious victories along the way. Sometimes it’s th...

I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD, which feels like the beginning of one journey and the end of another. ADHD diagnoses in creative, adult women are more and more common these days, and in this week’s episode, I discuss why I think that’s happening.  Join me today as I discuss my personal journey to diagnosis, how I approached the conversation with my doctor and advocated for myself, why I was quick t...

We’ve all heard the adage, “If it’s not a ‘hell yes’ it’s a ‘hell no’,”...and I’m asking, “Is it really that simple?”  Today we dive back into a prior episode that just might be bubbling with brand new meaning.  In my experience, there’s no stepping into an expansive, technicolor life without a handful of doubt and a healthy dose of faith. Join me as I chat about the 5 different types of Yes’s tha...

In today’s episode, lovingly dubbed “The Asterisk Episode”, I’m laying down some inconvenient, yet expansive truths about our inconvenient feelings. Let’s exhale into the possibility that we can feel fear and faith at the same time, that we can come to a decision with certainty while still having a few dozen questions to answer, and that slowing down will inevitably spur on momentum. Listen in for...