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Let's talk about sex. Or more specifically—why we're waiting. Dr. Dee and Oscar are both over 40. Both have been married. Both have had children. And both have made the decision to wait until marriage—again. In this episode, they break down why the sanctity of marriage matters more to them now than ever, how purity culture has historically burdened women while letting men off the hook, a...

What does success really look like in the dating pool — and who gets to define it? In Episode 4, Dr. Dee and Oscar unpack the trending conversation about dating Black men in 2026. From the hidden economy behind dating successful people to the generational patterns quietly running our relationships, we're getting into all of it. We also tackle the "traditional woman" conversation — b...

This week Dr. Dee and Oscar are pulling back the curtain. We're unpacking a viral reel that exposed what too many people are living but nobody wants to say out loud: How can you be called to preach and still be completely chaotic at home? Why is the church celebrating image while intimacy is dying behind closed doors? We're talking covenant over compatibility, character over title, and w...

In this episode, they break down why spiritual maturity and alignment matter before marriage, and why praying together might be one of the most revealing things you can do while dating. Is it too intimate? Does it create a false connection? Or is it exactly how you find out if you're equally yoked? This one got a little spicy. Pull up and join the conversation. New episodes every other Sunday...

Before the deep conversations, the trending topics, and the matters of the heart—let's start with who we are. Meet Dr. Dee: author, faith-based coach, and someone who's lived through more than a few plot twists. Meet Oscar: bold, dynamic, and unapologetically himself. Together, they're building something real—in love and on this mic. In this intro episode, they share their individua...