United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle

For over two decades, Bi Fuck Fest has existed in bi male spaces as something almost mythical. Some people don’t believe it’s real. Others believe it’s real but have no idea how to find it. In this episode, we sit down with the third owner and current organizer of Bi Fuck Fest to talk about its 21-year history, how it began, what a multi-day BFF experience looks like, and how the vetting process w...

Anal play doesn’t have to be intimidating, awkward, or painful — when done right, it can be safe, fun, and incredibly connecting. In this episode, Rob shares his journey with toys and bottoming, while Ashley dives into topping, pegging, and what every partner should know to make it enjoyable for everyone. We also talk about safety, quality products, and why patience and communication change everyt...

In this episode, we share our first swing experience with a fully bisexual couple. We talk about what went right, what went wrong, and what we learned navigating a scenario where the men were also having sex. It was Rob’s first time being with a man in front of me, and we break down the emotions, communication, and takeaways. We also announce our new affiliation with Future Method and tease next w...

We went into our first experience looking for bi play and somehow ended up with a straight couple, a laugh track, and the universe actively testing us at every turn. From missed signals and awkward timing to a husband who hadn’t even told his wife he was talking to swingers, this night had full 90s sitcom energy. It was hot, chaotic, and wildly imperfect. Along the way, we touch on our very differ...

This episode continues Rob’s story as a bi man. In part two, the conversation covers his marriage and the process of navigating same sex attraction while trying to make sense of who he was internally. Rob shares his first coming out experience, the fear that came with it, and what it felt like to begin accepting himself. The episode then moves into meeting his current partner and what it was like...

This quick Christmas Eve bonus episode is our little gift to you. In just eleven minutes, we share three holiday surprises: our signature cocktails for the night, a sweet and playful poem just for the Bi Tribe, and a few updates on where you can catch more of us this week. It’s simple, fun, and full of heart. Merry Christmas, and thanks for being here with us. 💗💜💙 🎄 Ashley's Anything Goes Holi...

In this episode, Rob begins sharing his story. (PART 1) From early same-sex attraction and internal conflict to the emotional toll of hiding parts of himself, this conversation focuses less on labels and more on the cost of silence. This is not an episode about graphic experiences. It’s about fear, shame, love, and the long road toward honesty, both with yourself and with the person you’re committ...

Thank you, Bi Tribe. Truly. This bonus episode is all about you, the incredible listeners who’ve supported our show, shared our content, sent messages, and helped us grow across countries and time zones. We’re blown away by how global this community has become. In today’s gratitude-focused episode, we: - Celebrate our listeners and share what this journey means to us - Highlight an amazing resourc...

Join us as Rob and Ashley take to the ring to go toe-to-toe on bi chatting vs straight chatting. We had very differing opinions on which is more important to have all members of both couples present. We hope you enjoy the playful banter from your ring side seats! Connect with us!! We want to hear from you!  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: h...

In episode 2, Rob and Ashley dive into the top three stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle community — and what it’s really like to navigate them as a bi couple. We share our personal experiences, the misconceptions that still linger, and the amazing people who don’t buy into the hate. Ashley opens up about the emotional moment of being in the same room with another woman who p...

In our very first episode of United Bi Swinging, we're introducing ourselves - Rob and Ashley - a married, fully bisexual in the swinging community. We share who we are, why we started this podcast, and what we hope to create: a supportive, open space for bisexual men and their partners in the lifestyle. This episode sets the stage for everything to come - real conversations, shared experiences, a...