Unhindered

On today’s episode: What my daughter discovered about the single most difficult part of being a life coach. Why the self-esteem movement got caught focussing on the wrong solution to the right problem. More thoughts on the use of Psilocybin for personal development in a therapeutic context. And why editing the first draft of my latest book is a life threatening task.

On this week’s episode: How I ‘cooked the goose’ while writing my next book. Why perfect conditions are never as desirable as you’d imagine. The best thing Helen Keller ever said. Why risk averse people are actually the ones in most danger. How one of my clients got drunk on his own fumes for 3 days And the joy of John Farnham’s bagpipes.

My guest today is Charley Valher. Charley is an award wining business, marketing and investment expert from Melbourne who has just completed the Unhindered experience. He was happy to share very personally about his experience eradicating insecurity from his life and answer these tough questions on the subject. - Can you describe your initial resistance to the ‘overcoming insecurity’ content I was...

A big welcome to the bunch of new listeners from the US over the last few weeks. Here’s what’s on today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast:  - Un update on speaking at TEDx and where I’m at in the book writing process. - Why self-promotion always sounds weird and a gentle reminder about why you are special, but your problems are not. - Breaking free from the restrictions of your surname whil...

A big welcome to the bunch of new listeners from the US over the last few weeks. Here’s what’s on today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast:  - Un update on speaking at TEDx and where I’m at in the book writing process. - Why self-promotion always sounds weird and a gentle reminder about why you are special, but your problems are not. - Breaking free from the restrictions of your surname whil...

In order to experience lasting change your life, it is essential to first understand the exact structure of the way things are now.  On today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast I'll show you exactly why this is so damn important.  Also on this episode: The hidden link between the formula for the volume of a cylinder, and the process of eradicating insecurity; Why I believe in...

All success and achievement starts in the mind. As Napoleon Hill says: “More gold has been mined from the thoughts of men than has been taken from the earth.” His book “Think and grow rich” is undoubtedly one of the all-time classics, but his authors note before he launches into the secret of wealth may be the best book introduction ever written. This alone has the power to transform your life. Th...

On todays episode: The great value of psychedelics in healing therapy, spirituality and helping becoming genuinely good humans. I’ll explain how to harness the power and grace of these natural substances and avoid the one big danger. How to live in a way where the goal is to disappoint as many people as it takes to never disappoint yourself again. And, why my last instagram video was too rude for...

It's taken me a couple of weeks to process and integrate all the learnings from the trip of a lifetime to the US and Guatemala with my son, but I've put together some reflections that I think you'll enjoy. Here are some of the highlights from this episode: Why I'm likely to win parent of the year unless chimpanzees assess the awards criteria like they seemingly do for neck pillows. The five keys I...

Get a behind the scenes view of the Insecurity Project and all that has gone into my journey to this point as Sean Steele follows his curiosity and turns the mic around to interview me. Here are some of the great topics we covered: When you set such high standards for your own life, how does that play out in your parenting What is the biggest misunderstanding about insecurity The impact of my reli...

On today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast: You may have heard me talk about my power and grace tattoos before, but today I’ll explain what happens when I get them around the wrong way. Even though these words still are my most important course correctors, this week I got myself in strife by looking for grace when I really needed to use my power. I’ll also talk about the dangerous things that ha...

Teaching someone how to love you. On today’s episode: -       The $50million dollar solution to the problem of Australian bushfires that’s already working. -       Why Malcom Gladwell’s book Blink isn’t that great, and why Jordan Peterson’s book beyond order is. -       How to make an affogato properly. -&nbs...

On today’s episode: -       Showing up in other people’s dreams as the messiah. -       The problem with running your business as a one-woman band. -       My plan B if this life coaching thing doesn’t work out. -       How I resolved my back pain in 30 minutes. -  &nbs...

Jessica Wilson is a repeat tech entrepreneur and cofounder of Women Making Waves which uses NFT’s to fund law reform in Australia and the USA especially in areas that are adversely affecting women. She is a remarkable human doing extraordinary work in the world with an incredible story to tell. Her retail tech company Stashd’ operates in 150 countries and saw her as a grand finalist on China’s ver...

On todays episode of the Unhindered podcast find out: What Jesus was doing at the Super Bowl, Why it’s ok for football players to behave poorly at home, except in my home town of Goulburn, How to go viral on Instagram and stop wanting to be rich and famous, Why you should NOT stop caring about what others think. And why zooming out every once in a while may be the best thing you’ve ever done for y...

Flow is defined as the most meaningful and effective experiences we get to have as humans. It is the moments of bliss, inspiration, clarity and power that transport us into the supernatural realm and allow us to achieve truly extraordinary results. Every has this magic inside them. The issue is, can you access it when you need it most? On today's episode I'll share the most important discoveries I...

The Insecurity Project podcast has a new name! From henceforth it shall now be known as the Unhindered podcast. There really is only one goal - To be completely unhindered so that you can show up to life at your best where it matters most. There really is only one problem - Hidden or unresolved insecurity is the only thing that ever stops people living the life they are truly capable of. And, ther...

If you've listened to much of the podcast before, no doubt you'll have heard me say that in order to fully overcome all insecurity, you'll have to go back to the moments in your childhood where you created these fears about yourself in the first place. But what happens if you just CAN'T remember? Especially when the research suggests these formative beliefs are created before you are 7! If you (li...

Today's guest is Filipa Bellette. She is just about to finish the 6 month Unhindered experience with me and wanted to share what has happened in her life as a result. Filly was already a highly successful, highly motivated, multi award-winning business woman who didn't really know that there was hidden insecurity capping her performance before we started working together. On this episode Filly sha...

Like thousands of others in Australia this week, I was lucky enough to get to hear Jordan Peterson speak live in Melbourne. It gave me a fresh take on the importance of his voice in the world today and why feminists seem to hate him so much. On today's episode I'll unpack my favourite insights from his lecture. I'll also show you a simple model for getting unstuck I've just developed around the 3...

On today’s podcast episode: Why Matthew Perry's brand new autobiography should be on your must read list - even though it is definitely one of the worst books I’ve ever read. The very best thing about being a victim, but why the moment you use it, you lose the game for good. (This was so important to share that I had to pause the music to make sure you heard it straight.) The greatest advice you’l...

Here is the final live coaching session for 2022. Penny has courageously allowed me to share our coaching conversation with you all knowing that her problem is very typical of almost every ambitious adult in the mid-life season. Some of the issued covered in this session are: Reconciling the desire to be seen and heard with the costs involved How to genuinely add value to those around you The chal...

This episode is a little longer than normal. Instead of the usual 10 minute Tuesday or my long form interviews and coaching sessions, today I want to talk about my own experience with Christianity and how it relates to overcoming insecurity - specifically I’m talking about how the bible addresses the dilemma of feeling like part of you is not good or that your core nature is not to be trusted. Jes...

Today’s podcast episode is a live coaching session. These sessions are always rare, raw and very special, simply because they require such a high level of vulnerability from the person willing to share their coaching experience. They also demonstrate how simple and hard transformation really is. In the conversation we examine these themes among others: The challenge of making good decisions in the...

This week's podcast episode is all about what to do when then way forward is literally impossible. In addressing this important dilemma, I'll show you the interplay between what is impossible and state management, the hero's journey and secondary gain. I'll also tell you about the time I got felt up by the smartest girl in school, why my testosterone levels are back on track and how my speaking fe...