Unequally Yoked: Us Now

The continuation of our dialogue with Gene, the former president of the Hickory Humanist Alliance, delves into the profound exploration of moral frameworks independent of theistic belief systems. We engage in a critical examination of the notion of 'good without God', articulating how individuals can cultivate ethical values and altruistic behaviors devoid of religious underpinnings. Gene recounts...

In this episode, we engage in a profound discussion with Gene, the former president of the Hickory Humanist Alliance. We delve into the significant influence he has had on our lives since our relocation to North Carolina, exploring the pivotal moments that have shaped our community interactions. Gene shares his experiences in fostering understanding among individuals with diverse beliefs, emphasiz...

This episode of "Us Now" delves into the profound reflections of Neil and Naomi Winters regarding the significance of their respective parental influences, particularly in the context of Mother's Day. The discussion is anchored in a celebration of the positive aspects of their upbringing, as they reminisce about cherished experiences and the valuable lessons imparted by their parents. Throughout t...

In Part 2, the conversation shifts toward emotional healing, identity, and the qualities that make someone “good,” regardless of belief. Krista shares her journey into faith‑based coaching, and the group explores how hurt, healing, and compassion shape our lives.

Rich and Krista join Neal and Naomi to talk about life as new empty nesters, their involvement in church ministries, and why their congregation’s “God‑led, not process‑led” approach feels different from traditional Christianity. A warm, funny, and thoughtful look at faith, service, and community.

In this intimate episode of Unequally Yoked Us Now , Naomi and Jen open up about their personal journeys with alcohol—from early childhood conditioning to trauma‑driven drinking to long‑term sobriety. With Neal joining the conversation, they explore how addiction forms, why some people become dependent while others don’t, and how neuroscience explains the compulsions many experience. Drawing from...

Neal and Naomi open up about the gender roles they inherited, how those expectations shaped their marriage, and the work they’re doing to unlearn old patterns. From Naomi’s experiences with being labeled “emotional” or “rude” for speaking directly, to Neal’s reflections on patriarchal teachings and emotional shutdown, this episode explores communication, boundaries, and healing inside a long‑term...

In this intimate episode, Neal and Naomi sit down with their daughter Rosalyn for a raw conversation about growing up LDS, navigating childhood depression, losing her sister, surviving her mother’s alcoholism during COVID, and living with chronic illness. Together, they explore grief, forgiveness, boundaries, and the long road toward healing as a family.

In this candid and unexpectedly hilarious episode of Unequally Yoked Us Now , Neal and Naomi dive into the real story of Neal’s Mormon mission to Ireland (1994–96) — the rules, the culture, the sister‑missionary drama, the loneliness, and the surprising ways young elders sought connection. Naomi brings her Irish heritage and spiritual perspective, challenging and teasing Neal as they unpack gender...

How do gender roles, faith, and hidden bias still shape women’s lives today? In this conversation, Neal, Naomi, and Jen dive into the realities of women’s health, the invisible mental load at home, and the cultural messages that keep equality feeling out of reach. From being dismissed by doctors to carrying emotional labor without recognition, they share honest, funny, and eye‑opening stories abou...

Neal and Naomi welcome their friend Jen for an open-hearted conversation about how early family experiences shape who we become. From childhood fear and people-pleasing to therapy breakthroughs and attachment styles, the three explore what it takes to unlearn old reactions and build emotional safety in relationships. It’s honest, vulnerable, and sometimes funny — a look at how past pain can lead t...

This podcast episode delves into the profound complexities of faith, personal belief systems, and the intricate dynamics of human relationships forged through shared experiences. In particular, we explore the journey of one guest, Jen, who articulates her upbringing in a devoutly Christian household and the subsequent evolution of her beliefs as she engaged with the realms of philosophy and apolog...

In this enlightening episode, we delve into the complex evolution of gender roles within our relationship, highlighting the profound changes that have transpired over the years. We candidly discuss the expectations that stem from our upbringing, particularly the traditional notions of masculinity and femininity that have shaped our identities. As we navigate the intricacies of parenting and partne...

This episode elucidates the profound challenges and transformations experienced by Naomi and Neil over the past decade, particularly in the context of navigating grief and addiction. Central to our discussion is the impact of alcoholism on their family dynamics, particularly following the tragic loss of their daughter, which exacerbated Naomi's struggles with alcohol dependency. We delve into the...

The predominant theme of this podcast episode revolves around the exploration of the impact of religious upbringing on individual identity and interpersonal relationships. Specifically, we delve into the experiences of young adults who have distanced themselves from the faith traditions in which they were raised. Through candid discussions, we illuminate the complexities of navigating religious tr...

The focal point of this discussion revolves around the profound and harrowing experience of coping with the loss of our daughter, Sabrina, who tragically passed away at the tender age of 17 due to complications arising from a suicide attempt. In this episode, we provide a candid account of the events leading up to her untimely death, offering insights into the myriad emotions and reflections that...