two be honest

In this episode, we unpack our experience of modern womanhood and the complexities of living in a period of recent social progress. We discuss whether the benefits and harms associated with being a woman stem from the same beliefs, and whether the benefits still come with hidden costs. We then turn to modern dating norms and the transactional elements that can show up across different kinds of rel...

In this episode, we dive into the evolving role of Artificial Intelligence in education. From our own experiences using AI to its growing impact on classrooms across elementary, secondary, and post-secondary levels, we explore how generative AI is reshaping the way we teach and learn. Tune in to hear our thoughts on how AI harms and benefits meaningful learning and how education systems can respon...

In this episode, we dive into the messy, intimidating, and alluring world of art. We talk about what art means to us, how it feels to engage with it without formal training, and the ways we’ve tried to define art for ourselves. Tune in to hear our takes on the head–heart dichotomy, how much artist intent really matters, and if meaning can emerge even from technically-driven or purely aesthetic pie...

In this episode, we unpack our tangled thoughts on beauty, body image, and what motivates us to pursue self-betterment. We talk about buying into beauty culture, the strange tension between body positivity and wanting to change, and whether we’re all just gaslighting ourselves a little. We also explore the potential connection between posting on social and creating art, aesthetic vs. candid photos...

Tune in this week to hear Amy and Grace delve into their hesitancy to not post on social media. They share what it has meant to them in the past, the way these views have changed, and their current idea of the pros and cons of being active online--how it may perpetuate comparison, be a medium through which to brag, and lead to a lack of vulnerability, but also how it can stimulate connection and m...

In this episode, we revisit an old recording on romantic relationships and reflect on how our views have changed—especially around admiration, identity, and power dynamics. We talk about whether healthy relationships need to include arguments, and why predicting if a relationship will work is harder than it seems. Later, we dive into power dynamics: how educational programs shape them, how our per...

In this episode, Amy and Grace reflect on some of their experiences with group projects, the benefits of working with others, and the struggles in balancing the strive for perfection with other commitments. They also talk about the benefits and detriments of comparison and learning to look at metrics objectively. Lastly, they touch on professionalism and how it sometimes prevents us from being aut...

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on our evolving views about healthcare, purpose, and what it really means to make a difference. Grace shares her shift away from a long-held dream of entering healthcare, and Amy reflects on her own hesitations about the healthcare system and its reactive nature. We explore our thoughts on the healthcare system—its reactive nature, the importance of lifest...

Join Amy and Grace as they explore the origin of imposter syndrome and whether vulnerability is truly the cure to this sensation of self-doubt. They also discuss the correlation between imposter syndrome and the "fake it until you make it" attitude. Lastly, they delve into a conversation regarding decision-making, risk-taking, the trolley problem, and moral foundations.

In this episode, we unpack the difference between true vulnerability and "polished vulnerability," and how sharing personal details isn’t always the same as being truly open. We also talk about how our proximity to others shapes our vulnerability, why long-distance friendships tend to see more "polished vulnerability", and how some of the best friendships are the ones you least...

In this episode, Amy and Grace have a conversation regarding their experiences with and personal connotations of the phrase "scarcity mindset." They ponder the connection between being frugal and having respect for one's environment. They also discuss the feeling of never having enough of a seemingly scarce resource and the comparison and competition perpetuated by this way of thinki...

In this episode, we talk about our experiences with perfectionism—how we’ve dealt with it, how our mindsets have shifted, and whether becoming “less perfectionist” was the right move. Grace shares the dissonance between who she wants to be and her perfectionist tendencies, while Amy reflects on going from overly perfectionist to feeling almost too comfortable with failure. Later on, we get into ex...

Tune in to this episode to hear Amy and Grace compare the nature of various school subjects, their prior and current experiences in learning, and the benefits of general and specialized degrees. They also discuss different connotations of intuition and approaches to self-studying and active learning, and reflect on the teachers that have led them to where they are today.

In this week's episode, join us in hypothetically raising the golden child! We explore what makes a self-motivated child, whether overbearing parents create unmotivated kids (or vice versa), and some unconventional parenting tactics we've seen (or experienced). We also reflect on whether we’d be good parents, our fears about parenting, and how we’d approach achievement and success with our...

In this episode, Amy and Grace dive into their approach to life and how it has changed over the years. Tune in to hear them discuss changes in their enneagram types, the feeling of being "brain empty no thoughts", the correlation between gaining knowledge and being jaded, and conditions they find stimulates peak learning. Read more about the enneagram: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descr...

In this episode, we talk about what makes childhood friendships unique, the role of conversation in sparking creativity, and how knowledge gains meaning in our lives. Tune in as we explore whether our prime friend-making years are behind us, how to break free from brain rot, and what fuels peak mental performance.

Welcome back to Two Be Honest! In this episode, Amy and Grace share what has happened and changed since the last time they recorded and discuss the feeling of anonymity and trying to find your identity in a new environment. They also talk about the impact their surroundings have on their perception of themselves through their tendency to seek affirmation from others and to fill roles that are need...

This week, we’re super excited to share a spoken-word inspired speech we prepared and performed for The Ripple Effect’s Music of the Mind event! In this episode, we share our fears, how they affect us, and how we shifted our mindsets in our journey for self-improvement.

In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of metaphysics with insights from Grace's philosophy class! We'll examine the debate between determinism and free will and its relation to the internal and external locus of control and the fundamental attribution error. Later on, we’ll uncover inconsistencies in our behaviours and beliefs and the paradoxical nature of it all. Lastly, we...

Welcome to a caffeine-filled episode packed with our thoughts on accomplishments, motivation, and adversity! In this episode, we talk about why sleep is important, what motivates us to try hard in life, and why results-oriented mentalities are roundabout and inefficient. Tune in now to hear about optimistic vs realistic worldviews, immigrant parents and ivy league schools, whether having "iss...

In this episode, Amy and Grace share their experiences with being in a rut (or potentially the brink of burnout). They discuss their personal burnout warning signs and whether burnout is beneficial. They also return to the philosophy of "life is suffering" and go over their thoughts on Arthur Schopenhauer's three methods of escaping suffering. Arthur Schopenhauer's Philosophy Art...

Welcome to the final episode in the good person-ness series! In this one, we discuss whether good people are just naive, what makes someone a pushover, and the role of power dynamics in relationships.

Welcome to the second installment of Amy and Grace talking about good person-ness! In this episode, we discuss the connection between Grace's existential crises and her personal character, whether and why people may perceive themselves as "bad people," and how we tend to villainize major corporations. We also touch on positions of power and the human tendency to want our perceived se...

What does it take to be a good person? In this episode, we'll be performing a case study on our resident, good-person poster girl–Grace–to learn about what goes on behind the scenes. We discuss different motivations behind being a good person, how personality types contribute to good person-ness, and how it might be affected by your viewpoint of the world. https://www.ihearteating.com/whipped-butt...

Tune in to this week's episode to hear us open up about our experiences with imposter syndrome, discuss the benefits and drawbacks of long-term friends versus short-term friends, and share some different perspectives on how suffering may be the meaning of life. We also talk about why happiness seemingly cannot coexist with deep, meaningful art and the role responsibilities may play regarding our r...