Trying Not to Care

In today's episode, I talk about my experience with comparing my time in the podcast space to others. As I've compared my journey to others, I've noticed that the only time I find myself doubting my abilities is when I'm putting them up against others. In this episode, I talk about comparison and its negative effects on you, Bevy Smith's "Take a Note, Give a Note" and how the only real competition...

If you’re worried about what others think, listen to this episode.  After seeing a video of two women (who run a podcast) making fun of aspiring creators for posting online, I decided it was time for me to talk about the topic myself. I started this podcast with nothing. I just quit my job, I didn’t have a huge online presence, and I had no idea how or if Trying Not to Care would work. I looked at...

Here's a glimpse into my morning and night routine! Social media is filled with so many aesthetically pleasing morning and night routines which are fun to watch, but they're not always realistic. Not everyone has time to have a dedicated routine! But in today's episode I share how you can build a routine that is beneficial and works for you. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of fu...

We've all heard of "pick me" girls or girls who refer to themselves as not like "the other girls." After watching a video of a girl talk about her disinterest in Taylor Swift, I started thinking about why some women try so hard to separate themselves from others. In today's episode I talk about why some girls refuse to share similar interests and opinions as other girls and why I personally love b...

Recently I’ve noticed that I’ve been falling back into not so great habits of mine and honestly I’ve been struggling a little. When this happens, I know that the only way to get through it is to work through it. In today’s episode I talk about some things that I’ve done and am currently doing that make my life more enjoyable. By making an effort to do these things, I am much less frustrated, am mo...

I’ve been a little behind on advice sessions and wanted to get one out there for my besties who are lacking motivation or inspiration.  In today's episode, I answer your questions about  Lowering your screen time  Staying consistent  Being afraid of failure  Changing career paths  Change  Spending time alone  Motivation to workout  If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode i...

Lately I've been reflecting on past experiences of mine where someone has hurt me. There's been plenty of times where I've fought fire with fire and tried to get even, but it never got me far. We've all heard the saying, hurt people hurt people but what if instead of hurting others back, we grow and heal instead? In today's episode I talk about breaking the cycle and getting better instead of bitt...

Positive self talk is so important but it can only do so much when you don't believe the words you're saying. In today's episode I talk about why your affirmations aren't working and things you need to stop saying to yourself. The words you speak become the house you live in.   Listen to Leo's episode here! ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal , podcast TikTok: personal , podcast Youtube Revolve, Amaz...

In my early twenties, I felt extremely lost and confused. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I felt like everyone had it figured out while I wasted away. Now at 26, I can confidently and proudly say I know what my purpose is. In this episode I talk about how to find your purpose and why you may be struggling with finding it. I go over ways to discover it as well as reasons...

It's very easy to beat yourself up/judge yourself for things that have happened in your past. As someone who has difficulty letting go of past mistakes, this episode is a gentle reminder to me and you to not hold the past over your head. It's not fair to blame yourself for things that have happened to you or things that you've done. Instead of shaming yourself by saying "I should have known better...

With the Fourth of July and summer events, drinking may be a hot topic of discussion within you and your friend group. I wanted to put out an episode where I talk about the pressure of drinking alcohol and why you shouldn't drink if you don't want to. In this episode I talk about alcohol being so normalized, being pressured into drinking as well as hangxiety and tips to avoid/manage it.  Control B...

In today's episode I talk about 5 things that I think make someone unattractive. We all can see when someone is physically attractive but I truly believe someone's behavior and how they treat others also influence this. I go over talking negatively about others, being insecure, being negative/complaining, competition and following trends. Through talking about how these 5 things make someone unatt...

Forget about hot girl summer, it's healed girl summer. This summer we're putting ourselves first, embracing who we are, leaving bad company and FOMO behind, and doing what we want. In this episode I talk about - putting yourself first - listening to your body - embracing your body, hair and skin - spending time with good company - letting go of FOMO - doing things alone - less imaging and more doi...

The feel good episode of your dreams. Today I talk about the little things in life that I love so much. I think gratitude is so important and I want this episode to remind you to find joy in the little things. Ava’s episode that inspired today’s ep!! https://open.spotify.com/episode/1qr21lSPTbFJJ4pf0KYaHn?si=5-KOJVdoR0aopbQt8-ZJxQ This episode is sponsored by Dipsea - To get 30 days of full access...

ADVICE ON BEING IN YOURS 20S In today's episode, I answer your questions on how to navigate your 20s. This episode covers: - Feeling like you're behind in your 20s. Not being "on track" because you aren't doing conventional things like getting married, buying a house and having kids. - Finding the courage to move out and live alone for the first time. - How to manage personal finances and save mon...

In today's episode I talk about setting boundaries and sticking to them (despite others being unhappy about it.) We often get push back when we set boundaries, especially in friendships and relationships, which is why it's important to be clear with your expectations and stand your ground. I talk about my experience in past relationships, learning that it's okay for others to not understand how yo...

How to take control of your life when you're feeling stuck and unsatisfied. I give you a list of things that I believe get in the way of living your best life: 1. Adjusting your screentime + what you're consuming during that screentime 2. Working a job that you hate 3. Staying in your comfort zone 4. Engaging with people and things that don't serve you 5. Letting others tell you who you are 6. Neg...

Listen to this if you're in a slump. In today's episode I talk about navigating life through the highs and lows, realistic ways to get out of a funk and finding balance between work and rest. This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id54770...

Listen to this if you’re struggling with your mental health. To kick off Mental Health Awareness Month, we are talking about 6 things that can improve your mental health.  This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 This episode is...

I have been struggling hard with Coachella FOMO which got me thinking about the fear of missing out and why it happens. In today's episode I talk about FOMO, what it feels/looks like, the reasoning behind why it happens and how we can avoid it by turning it into the joy of missing out.  This episode is sponsored by Blissy - Get better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off...

Listen to this episode if you are someone who overshares a lot. I talk about the reasons behind why we overshare, why we feel regretful and embarrassed for sharing too much and why oversharing isn't a bad thing. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tind...

Welcome to my birthday therapy session! In today's episode I talk about why I struggle so much with my birthday. I cover why birthdays are hard, having high expectations, feeling lonely, anxiety about aging and my new mindset about my birthday.  This episode is sponsored by Headspace : Try Headspace FREE for 30 days CODE: TNTC30DAY Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast I...

ADVICE ON ALL THINGS RELATIONSHIP AND SITUATIONSHIP RELATED This episode covers: - How to move on from an ex - Regretting past decisions and hookups - Do guys settle when they're ready or in love? - Do you like him or are you bored? - Boredom in long term relationships -  Growing as an individual in a relationship - First loves This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try: ge...

In today's episode I talk about overthinking, why we do, why we shouldn't and how we can stop.  This episode is sponsored by Headspace : Try Headspace FREE for 30 days This episode is sponsored by Dipsea : 30 day free trial Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice o...

Listen to this if you've ever been told you're too sensitive or too emotional. This one is for my besties who feel too much/feel as if they are too much. In today's episode I talk about the heaviness that comes with being an emotional person, my struggles with having deep emotions and why being "too emotional" isn't a bad thing.  This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try:...