Trying Not to Care

Here are some gentle reminders for those days that you can't get out of your head. 1. Time heals everything. 2. It's okay if not everyone likes you. You don't like everyone. 3. You've never had an original thought. Negative thinking and intrusive thoughts happen to so many people.  4. When one door closes, another door opens. 5. Small steps make big changes. 6. Them succeeding does not mean you're...

STOP BEING DESPERATE!! If you find yourself begging for partners to treat you right, double-texting your friends for a response, or chasing fame and success, listen to this episode. In today’s episode, I talk about my own experience and how I reeked of desperation as I chased relationships, friendships, and money. Let today’s episode be a reminder that you don’t chase; you attract. ✨✨✨✨ SPONSO...

Now that I'm in my mid to late 20s, I have been stressing a little bit about my "timeline." What my next moves are—if I'm going to have kids, if I'm going to get married, if I'm going to buy a house—the list goes on. The best way that I cope with these stressors is by talking through them with all of you. Today I'm throwing it back to a TNTC community favorite! Last year, I did an episode about na...

Sometimes when we get upset, we don't know entirely why because what we're upset over seems so insignificant. But a lot of the time, the reason we're upset is because things that we've struggled with in the past resurface. In today's episode, I talk about why I think it's important to understand why things trigger you the way they do. I talk about my experience with being bullied over how I smell,...

Welcome to another advice session! In today's episode I answer some of your questions. This episode covers:  - How to handle mood swings - Figuring out if someone likes you back - How to get over a crush - How to stop being codependent - How to face failures - Comparing yourself to older adults - How to deal with social anxiety when hanging out with new people - Whether you should send that long p...

For the girls who want to form habits and feel good but don't want to commit to 75 hard or 75 soft. After finishing 75 hard, I fell off a little bit with my routine, and I decided I wanted to get back into it. I miss working towards something and feeling as good as I did doing 75 hard. I don't want to commit to another 75 days, and I don't believe that challenge aligns well with my current lifesty...

Listen to this episode if you find yourself basing your value on what others think. In today's episode, I talk about my experience with past relationships and how I allowed how they treated me to determine my worth. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal , podcast TikTok: personal , podcast Youtube Revo...

It's no secret that I love fall. I love fall fashion, fall activities, seasonal food, pumpkin spice coffee and even the weather. But once Halloween passes and the temperature drops below 60, I find myself being affected by seasonal depression. During the fall and winter, I struggle a lot mentally. I have an extremely hard time getting out of bed, staying motivated, socializing...and my energy is a...

For the majority of my life, I was under the impression that I got my period and that was it. I had no idea about the four phases of the menstrual cycle and how those phases affect our body. Recently I've been learning more about the menstrual cycle as well as cycle syncing and I wanted to share what I've learned so far with you! I also share my experience with birth control, my thoughts on period...

As much as I love hot girl fall, I want to be hot every single season. In today's episode, I talk about 5 things that I believe not only make someone attractive but also magnetize others to them. In this episode I cover: - Confidence - Being present - Not being open with everyone - Sticking to your word - Taking care of yourself  Try the Peloton App today for free for 30 days: https://www.onepelot...

GET TO KNOW ME! I love to share my thoughts and advice with you on this podcast but very rarely do I share much information about myself. In today's episode, I'm answering 26 questions about me, so you and I can get to know me better.    Ava's episode that inspired today's ep: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tgxac7JAw68eFH4hertPF?si=DLvZ3K87RnqTcGnVTzDaJQ If you want to ask yourself or the peopl...

In today's episode, I talk about my experience with comparing my time in the podcast space to others. As I've compared my journey to others, I've noticed that the only time I find myself doubting my abilities is when I'm putting them up against others. In this episode, I talk about comparison and its negative effects on you, Bevy Smith's "Take a Note, Give a Note" and how the only real competition...

If you’re worried about what others think, listen to this episode.  After seeing a video of two women (who run a podcast) making fun of aspiring creators for posting online, I decided it was time for me to talk about the topic myself. I started this podcast with nothing. I just quit my job, I didn’t have a huge online presence, and I had no idea how or if Trying Not to Care would work. I looked at...

Here's a glimpse into my morning and night routine! Social media is filled with so many aesthetically pleasing morning and night routines which are fun to watch, but they're not always realistic. Not everyone has time to have a dedicated routine! But in today's episode I share how you can build a routine that is beneficial and works for you. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of fu...

We've all heard of "pick me" girls or girls who refer to themselves as not like "the other girls." After watching a video of a girl talk about her disinterest in Taylor Swift, I started thinking about why some women try so hard to separate themselves from others. In today's episode I talk about why some girls refuse to share similar interests and opinions as other girls and why I personally love b...

Recently I’ve noticed that I’ve been falling back into not so great habits of mine and honestly I’ve been struggling a little. When this happens, I know that the only way to get through it is to work through it. In today’s episode I talk about some things that I’ve done and am currently doing that make my life more enjoyable. By making an effort to do these things, I am much less frustrated, am mo...

I’ve been a little behind on advice sessions and wanted to get one out there for my besties who are lacking motivation or inspiration.  In today's episode, I answer your questions about  Lowering your screen time  Staying consistent  Being afraid of failure  Changing career paths  Change  Spending time alone  Motivation to workout  If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode i...

Lately I've been reflecting on past experiences of mine where someone has hurt me. There's been plenty of times where I've fought fire with fire and tried to get even, but it never got me far. We've all heard the saying, hurt people hurt people but what if instead of hurting others back, we grow and heal instead? In today's episode I talk about breaking the cycle and getting better instead of bitt...

Positive self talk is so important but it can only do so much when you don't believe the words you're saying. In today's episode I talk about why your affirmations aren't working and things you need to stop saying to yourself. The words you speak become the house you live in.   Listen to Leo's episode here! ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal , podcast TikTok: personal , podcast Youtube Revolve, Amaz...

In my early twenties, I felt extremely lost and confused. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I felt like everyone had it figured out while I wasted away. Now at 26, I can confidently and proudly say I know what my purpose is. In this episode I talk about how to find your purpose and why you may be struggling with finding it. I go over ways to discover it as well as reasons...

It's very easy to beat yourself up/judge yourself for things that have happened in your past. As someone who has difficulty letting go of past mistakes, this episode is a gentle reminder to me and you to not hold the past over your head. It's not fair to blame yourself for things that have happened to you or things that you've done. Instead of shaming yourself by saying "I should have known better...

With the Fourth of July and summer events, drinking may be a hot topic of discussion within you and your friend group. I wanted to put out an episode where I talk about the pressure of drinking alcohol and why you shouldn't drink if you don't want to. In this episode I talk about alcohol being so normalized, being pressured into drinking as well as hangxiety and tips to avoid/manage it.  Control B...

In today's episode I talk about 5 things that I think make someone unattractive. We all can see when someone is physically attractive but I truly believe someone's behavior and how they treat others also influence this. I go over talking negatively about others, being insecure, being negative/complaining, competition and following trends. Through talking about how these 5 things make someone unatt...

Forget about hot girl summer, it's healed girl summer. This summer we're putting ourselves first, embracing who we are, leaving bad company and FOMO behind, and doing what we want. In this episode I talk about - putting yourself first - listening to your body - embracing your body, hair and skin - spending time with good company - letting go of FOMO - doing things alone - less imaging and more doi...

The feel good episode of your dreams. Today I talk about the little things in life that I love so much. I think gratitude is so important and I want this episode to remind you to find joy in the little things. Ava’s episode that inspired today’s ep!! https://open.spotify.com/episode/1qr21lSPTbFJJ4pf0KYaHn?si=5-KOJVdoR0aopbQt8-ZJxQ This episode is sponsored by Dipsea - To get 30 days of full access...