Trying Not to Care

reasons you should go for it 1. life is too short 2. regret hurts more than failure 3. who cares what people think? 4. someone needs what you have Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://ollie.com/TNTC today for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThem Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Magic Spoon: Get 5 dollar...

Comparison is the thief of joy. I had a really difficult time accepting and loving myself when I was always worrying about what others thought of me. In today's episode, I talk about embracing who you are, letting go of the should haves, and not sticking to a timeline. This week's journal prompts: What parts of me have I been hiding? Why do I feel the need to hide these parts of me? What would it...

A GUIDE ON HOW TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE. If it feels like nothing ever goes your way, or you've just been in a bad headspace/feeling drained lately...this episode is for you✨🫶🏻 how to protect your peace 1. avoid gossip and drama 2. let go of what you can't control 3. not everything deserves your attention 4. stop comparing yourself to others 5. learn how to say no 6. stay away from energy drainers...

LISTEN FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO GLOW UP THIS SUMMER Questions in this advice session: - What are some easy things that I can do right now to feel better about my skin? - What is your tanning routine? - How do I make my hair and skin glow naturally without spending a lot of money? - How to deal with FOMO when it seems like everyone is living their best life online? - Ways to feel more confident in a bi...

Loss is hard...especially when you're someone who's a little too familiar with it. Whether it's another friendship breakup, another relationship that didn't work out, or another job that you've been let go from, when something ends, it feels personal. You start to ask yourself, is it me? Am I the problem? In today's episode, I talk about reframing that mindset. Thinking about loss as redirection a...

How to ACTUALLY be confident!!! not just fake it!!!! In this episode, I’m giving you all my tips on how to stop doubting yourself and own who you are. From keeping promises to yourself to being okay with people not liking you, here’s a realistic guide to becoming the most solid, self-assured version of you. ✨how to actually be confident✨ 1. believe it until you achieve it  2. keep promises to yo...

Life doesn’t change by playing it safe. In this episode, I break down why the biggest breakthroughs come from the boldest moves and how the fear of failure, embarrassment, and uncertainty can hold us back from even trying. From my own struggles with confidence to giving up on dreams too early, I share how I’ve learned to stop half-assing my efforts and start choosing the uncomfortable path that le...

You don't understand the behavior because you would never do it. In today's episode, I dive into the emotional toll of trying to understand people who treat us in ways we'd never treat them. I unpack the frustration and confusion that comes from expecting loyalty, honesty, and emotional maturity from people who just aren't capable of giving it. This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever asked yo...

Whether you're a podcaster, content creator, artist, or just someone feeling stuck, this episode's for you. I'm diving into the mindset traps that keep us from authentically creating and being inspired. Today's episode I talk about - The need to constantly be creating - Being too focused on others: Comparison/Following rather than leading - Perfectionism: Being too critical/Being scared of failure...

Skinnytok is a side of TikTok where users talk about weight loss and give dieting advice. Although skinnytok may be helpful for some, it has caused extreme harm to others. Skinnytok often promotes extreme weight loss methods and unhealthy behaviors associated with eating disorders. In today’s episode, I talk about my opinion on toxic diet culture and my experience with an eating disorder. My inten...

ADVICE FOR OVER THINKERS AND PEOPLE PLEASERS!!! this episode covers: - being okay with being disliked - how to not let something bother you - embracing confidence - how to stop comparing yourself to others - finding your boundaries regardless of what people think Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc: go to zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today Trying Not to...

If you cry every single year on your birthday...this episode is for you 🧁 In today's episode, I talk about - birthday expectations vs the actual day - feeling unimportant - showing up for people that don't show up for you - how to tell your friends that your birthday sucked - making your birthday special and celebrating yourself BIRTHDAY EPISODE: https://audioboom.com/posts/8274226-hot-girls-cry-...

In today's episode, I talk about "shiny object syndrome" and how people often look for the next best thing. People become so focused on what others have that they lose sight of all the incredible things and people they have! Instead of trying to find better, pay attention to what you already have. The grass isn't greener on the other side! The grass is greener where you water it! Good things take...

IT’S TIME TO GLOW UP. This past winter hit me HARD but with spring officially here, I felt inspired to talk about going from surviving the winter to thriving in the spring. In today’s episode, I talk about starting fresh, resetting and reinventing yourself, and how to glow up mentally and physically.  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Graza: Take your food to the next level with Graza Olive Oil....

Healing is hard…so let’s talk about it! In today's episode, I talk about ❤️‍🩹Feeling like you’re taking too long to heal ❤️‍🩹Losing yourself and trying to get back to “who you were” ❤️‍🩹Healing your past while being open to the present ❤️‍🩹Finding blessings in moments of breaking Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc: go to zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor...

We've all heard the quote, "If they wanted to, they would." You might have even used that quote to determine how someone feels about you. In today's episode, we're using this type of thinking and applying it to ourselves. If you wanted to do something, you would. If you wanted to chase your dreams, you would. If you wanted to leave that relationship, you would. If you wanted to move across the cou...

Have you ever opened up to a friend about a situation where someone deeply hurt or betrayed you, just to have that friend turn their back on you and befriend that person? In today's episode, I talk about what the quote "a friend to all is a friend to none" means, the importance of friendships, the fear of being disliked, the consequences of befriending everyone and how to navigate friendships wher...

If you’re stuck in a situation that you’re unhappy in or you want to make a change but you’re scared, this episode is a reminder that NOTHING HAPPENS IF NOTHING HAPPENS. If you want your life to change, you need to make the necessary changes. In this episode, I talk about letting go of things that no longer serve you to make room for things that do. The longer you hold on to these things, the more...

Instead of worrying if someone likes you, ask yourself, “do I like them?” Are they kind? Are they funny? Are they honest? Do they meet your expectations? Do they respect your boundaries? Are they living up to your standards? No? THEN WHO CARES IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOU. YOU DON’T EVEN LIKE THEM!!!!! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Honeylove-  Get an additional 20% off the @honeylove Holiday sale b...

I started this podcast in 2022 when I decided to start taking social media seriously. I was so afraid of what everyone thought of me (hence why I called it Trying Not to Care), and I wanted to please everyone. I soon realized that no matter what I do, I cannot please everyone. Today’s episode is a reminder to not lose yourself trying to get approval from others. The things someone dislikes you for...

THE FIRST GUEST EPISODE OF 2025! Welcome Natasha to Trying Not to Care! In today's episode, we delve into the fascinating world of dreams, exploring their significance, the emotional insights they provide, and practical techniques for dream recall and interpretation. Natasha shares her personal journey into dream interpretation, emphasizing the importance of cultivating a relationship with our dre...

WE’RE SO BACK!!!! the first episode of 2025!!!! let’s talk about my ins and outs for the new year. IN ❤️ intentional screen time ❤️ reading and learning ❤️ investing in yourself ❤️ not having an aesthetic ❤️ showing up as your highest self ❤️ doing more of what you loved as a kid and romanticizing your life ❤️ being kind ❤️ investing in friendships and relationships OUT ❤️‍🩹 doom scrolling ❤️‍🩹...

I CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S THE LAST EPISODE OF 2024!!!!!!!! So grateful to have spent this year with all of you. 🥂 Here are a few lessons I learned that I believe are important to remember in 2025. SHOP MY MERCH:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol  - Find out why 4,500 healthcare professionals and stylists recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Go to  Nutrafol.com...

Before the year ends, let's talk about a few things I learned in 2024.  Every emotion has a hidden meaning The people who say you can’t or won’t are usually the ones who are afraid you will  Someone who becomes your enemy over a misunderstanding without trying to resolve it was always your enemy  We are products of our past but we do not need to be prisoners of it  You will bloom if you take the t...

Holiday reminders for anyone who is struggling during the holiday season🫶🏻 We talk about 💌 Don’t compare yourself to others and how their holidays look You don’t have to drop your expectations and boundaries to make family feel comfortable Don’t feel guilty for your eating and exercise schedule changing  Don't isolate yourself 15 days of holiday self care SHOP MY MERCH:  https://shop.dearmedia....