Trying Not to Care

Before we move into a new year and start working on our 2026 goals, it's time to let go of the people and things that don't align with us anymore. By releasing what no longer serves us, we can make room for everything we want to call in for the new year. What I'm saying goodbye to in 2025 🪄 1. Starting but not finishing projects/not being dedicated to my goals 2. Environments that slow me down 3....

As much as I love the holiday season, it can be extremely overwhelming - especially if you struggle with social anxiety. If you're someone who has a hard time bringing yourself to go out and socialize, this episode is for you 💌 In this episode I talk about.... - the fear of going back to your hometown and seeing people you went to high school with - how to not be so intimated by small talk - how...

Everything I'm currently loving digitally! My recommendations for holiday movies, binge worthy shows, music, podcast episodes and favorite online creators 🎄🎥🍿🎶❄️🎤✨ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp : visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Revolve - Shop at REVOLVE.com/TNTC and use code TNTC for 15% off your first order. #REVOL...

Happy December!!!! As the year come to an end, a lot of us may be realizing we’re not exactly where we thought we’d be. Maybe you didn’t hit your resolutions. Maybe you feel like you should be “further along.” Maybe you’re disappointed in your own lack of progress and don’t know why things aren’t changing… even though you want them to. In today’s episode, I talk about the truth behind why you know...

It's that time of year again...shorter days, colder nights, and seasonal depression looming around the corner. But it doesn't have to ruin your whole winter! In this episode, I give you easy ways to romanticize your life to actually enjoy the winter, not just survive it. These are a few things I'm doing this season to make winter feel softer and more magical. 🧦❄️🌨️🧣☕️ Grab a hot chocolate or a...

Going through a breakup and dreading the holidays? Missing your ex and considering texting them? Not sure if you should buy your situationship a gift? I got you!!!! This advice session is all about dating during the holidays ❤️‍🩹🎄🥧👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🎁 Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MicroPerfumes -  Find your scent soulmate today and get up to 60% off at MicroPerfumes.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is...

Decentering men doesn't mean you need to be anti-men...it means you being pro-yourself. In this episode, I talk about the implications of making a man the center of your world, the ways you might be centering men without even knowing it, and how to reclaim your power and refocus on yourself. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - G et 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntc T...

This episode is for my overachievers, anxious 20 somethings, and girlies filled with self doubt 💌 Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Graza: Take your food to the next level with Graza Olive Oil. Visit https://graza.co and stock up during our sitewide sale! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp : visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVIC...

"Maybe you have a fear of abandonment because you consistently abandoned yourself to convince others that you're worthy of not being abandoned.” Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com , promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Micr...

Girl wake up....you're literally your own biggest hater. In this episode, I talk about unlearning the self doubt, judgement, and impossible standards that we set for ourselves. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you're not enough, or you're tired of being your own worst enemy, this one's for you. IT'S TIME TO GO FROM ENEMIES TO LOVERS WITH YOURSELF 🫶🏻🫵🏻✨🦋 Trying Not to Care is sponso...

welcome to media of the month!! 👻🦇📚🖤🎵🎃this is going to be a new series (if you like it lol) where I share everything I'm reading, watching, and listening to. I'll also give you recommendations of media I think you'll enjoy! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by PAKA - To grab your PAKA hoodie and free pair of alpaca crew socks, head to go.pakapparel.com/TNTC and use my code TNTC Trying Not to C...

ADVICE SESSION #13 🧡 In this episode, I'm answering your questions to help you get through this season as a more kind, unbothered, and grounded version of you. Questions in this advice session: 1. What would you say is the art of actually not caring? 2. How to stop yourself from stalking people you used to date/be friends with? 3. Any tips on avoiding talking about other people? 4. What’s one thi...

Ever have someone do your dirty...but somehow you're the villain and everyone is cheering for them? This week I’m talking about why people defend toxic behavior, how misery loves company, and why being alone doesn’t mean you’re the problem. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com , promo code TNTC to get $...

How amazing is it that you'll never know this version of me... Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://www.ollie.com/tntc for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThem JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨ https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA...

My ideal night time routine to reduce anxiety and get better sleep 🧸🌙 Listen to this episode for tips and tricks on how to romanticize your night time routine, create better sleeping habits, and feel your most relaxed at bed time.  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FUM - Head to https://tryfum.com/products/zero-crisp-mint to Start with Zero. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Green Chef - Make...

it's me.....hi......I'm the problem....it's me 😮‍💨 In this episode, we're talking about why needing to be right, acting superior, taking things too personally, and being too self absorbed makes us harder to be around. I share ways to let go of these habits that push people away so you can show up better for the people in your life (and be much more pleasant to be around)  🤎Let go of the need to...

Happy fall to those who celebrate 😌 In this episode, I share my tips on how to transition from summer to fall and becoming the happiest, healthiest, and hottest version of you.  From creating cozy routines that protect your peace, to confidence rituals, fitness and nutrition tips, glowing up, and hitting your goals, this episode is all about finding that balance between slowing down with the seas...

We’re getting out of a funk and being intentional this week! This episode is filled with some good stuff to make you feel good :) What to expect ⭐️ - Affirmations - Journal prompts - My fav shows and movies - My fav books and music - Creating your own hope box  JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨ https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 GOOD READS: https://ww...

Next time you find yourself missing someone, ask yourself , "Do I actually miss this person, or did I just forget why we stopped talking?" There have been so many times I’ve caught myself wanting to reconnect with people who hurt me and never took accountability. The distance from them minimized the pain I felt and made it easier to gloss over what they did to me. But just because you stop talking...

"You've changed" ok yea.....that's the point. People love to throw "you've changed" around as if it's an insult, when in reality, it's the highest compliment. Changing is just proof that you're growing. What to expect in this episode  ⭐️Why people get uncomfortable when you grow ⭐️How to spot the difference between changing and evolving ⭐️The real reason some people liked the “old you” better...

Friendships between women are one of the most special and magical gifts. In today's episode, I talk about the bond women have and why having female friendships are so important.  What to expect in this episode 💛 The difference between male and female friendships 💛 Why female friendships are so special 💛 How to attract real friends 💛 Showing up for yourself first Trying Not to Care is sponsored...

Getting what you want doesn't have to be so hard. I'm breaking down how manifestation really works and how you can start calling in the things that you want. This episode is for anyone who’s curious about how to shift their mindset, get clear on what they want, and take action to make it happen. What to expect in this episode ✨ 💓What is manifesting? 💓Deciding what you want 💓Visualizing 💓Belie...

When you think you're not healing fast enough, remember the 3 year rule. It takes 1 year to process. It takes 1 year to adjust. It takes 1 year to start living.  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://www.ollie.com/tntc for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThem FOLLOW ME HERE Instagram: Ashley's Instagram |...

Lately, I’ve been noticing how much time I spend talking about the things I don’t want, the people I don’t like, the situations I don’t want to be in, and the feelings I don’t want to have. Although my intention is to distance myself from those things, all I’m really doing is giving them more of my energy. In today's episode, I talk about the power of your words, how to stop giving so much energy...

I BOUGHT A HOUSE and the story of how it all happened taught me a huge lesson about letting go of control. In this episode, I talk about learning how to detach, why forcing things never works, and how trusting the process can lead you to exactly what’s meant for you. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp : visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month FOLLOW ME HERE Instagram:...