Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica dive into an email from a listener struggling with distractions during intimacy with his wife. Despite a healthy sex life, he finds himself mentally drifting off during intimate moments, causing concern for both himself and his wife. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, a listener opens up about a rough start to her year after her ex-fiancé of five years called off their wedding and left her for someone she claims is “younger and prettier.” Marcus and Jessica then dive into self-worth and starting over after heartbreak.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the reasons why some black individuals may not pursue certain interests or activities that are perceived as traditionally "white." They explore the idea of certain hobbies associated with specific racial groups and how societal perceptions can impact a person's choices. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the question that has been circulating online: Should a man who is dating a single mother be responsible for paying for childcare when going out with her?  Follow on IG and TikTok @trulyunruly_podcast Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the topic of black men with money dating outside of their race. They share an Instagram clip from a podcast that sparked the conversation and discuss potential reasons behind this, including geographical factors and social circles. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral video about a dad's parenting style in this episode. The dad believes in forcing his child to do things he doesn't want to do in order to develop discipline and healthy habits. Marcus and Jessica share their thoughts on this approach and delve into their own experiences with being forced to do things as children. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica dive into the topic of emotions, specifically focusing on male emotions. They explore why women want to see some level of emotion from men, even if it may not be as intense as their own. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Marcus and Jessica share their holiday vacation experience, including family bonding and an unexpected encounter with jellyfish in Jamaica. A friend reaches out to Kel for advice with a shocking story that sounds straight out of a drama film. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant address a listener's email about her boyfriend ending their 24-year relationship. The listener suspects that her boyfriend is going through a midlife crisis. They discuss the impact on their children, ages 8 to 20, and the financial implications of selling their recently built house. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica are joined by special guest Alli Williams, founder and CEO of FinanciALLI Focus. They discuss relationships and money, particularly during the holiday when people spend a lot. Allie, who has helped many individuals with their finances, shares insights on creating a flexible financial plan and feeling confident in managing money. Follow Alli Williams @financialli...

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica welcome Sex Therapist Nikquan Lewis. She is the founder of Intimate Connections in Katy, Texas. Nikquan is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, and relationship and sex therapist. They dive into questions about relationships, marriage, and the importance of intimacy in maintaining a strong connection. Listen now for a candid...

Marcus and Jessica tackle a listener's question about how to handle kids who are always asking for things, even after being told no. They share their own experience with their children's constant asking and suggest giving the kids tasks or chores to do in order to teach them the value of earning what they want. They also hilariously admit that they often feel overwhelmed and "walked...

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant discuss a viral list of places where women refuse to go on a first date. They question the pressure on men to take women to expensive places and argue that it's unnecessary and unfair. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica get an email from a woman who is pregnant and feeling unworthy of marriage because her partner of 10 years has not proposed to her. They discuss the possible reasons behind her man's hesitation, including any traumas he may have experienced in the past. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, @marcus_trufant and @jessica_trufant discuss "eggshell parenting" and share their thoughts on what it means to be one. They question the validity of a trending TikTok term and argue that parenting is hard for everyone. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, @marcus_trufant and @jessica_trufant discuss a listener's concern about her children growing up privileged and potentially becoming ungrateful. They emphasize the importance of communication, sharing stories of hardship, and teaching gratitude to help children understand and appreciate their privileged upbringing. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a listener seeking advice regarding her 16-year-old daughter's relationship with her boyfriend and the father's overprotective and aggressive behavior. While the father may be trying to protect his daughter, his actions are damaging their relationship. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this podcast episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the issue of privacy boundaries with their kids. They believe in giving their kids some freedom and trust rather than tightly monitoring their online activities. They emphasize the importance of open communication and instilling values and self-love in their children to navigate the challenges of social media and the internet. Follow @trulyunruly...

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a listener's question about his wife calling them unattractive behind his back. And he wonders if his marriage is fake.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Marcus and Jessica celebrate Jessica's birthday in this special 100th episode. They also discuss a listener's email about his girlfriend having slept with some of his friends before they started dating. He wonders if he should tell his girlfriend about his discomfort. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a man who believes his wife has lost all respect for him after 16 years of marriage. They discuss the issues of imbalance in the relationship, lack of intimacy, and the potential impact on the man's self-esteem.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Marcus and Jessica address a complaint from a listener regarding a comment made about single moms in a previous episode. The listener believes that the comment reinforces negative stereotypes about single moms being desperate. They discuss the dating experiences of single moms and the challenges they face in finding partners willing to accept their children. 00:01:22 Single moms face dating challe...

Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a wife who is worried about her marriage. They have been together for 11 years and have two small kids. Both work full-time and receive no help from family. The wife is exhausted and doesn't feel like actively working on the marriage. Meanwhile, the husband wants more intimacy and feels unappreciated. The wife feels forced and is less attracted to him....

Marcus and Jessica share their thoughts on a listener's email about a relationship issue. The listener, a black man, is facing a dilemma as his fiancée, who is not black, wants to set a wedding date. He's hesitant because he had always imagined marrying a black woman. 00:02:10 Love is not defined by race. 00:08:48 Interracial dating requires understanding and patience. 00:12:03 Racial pr...

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss an email from a husband who is struggling with his wife venting to her family about every disagreement. It’s made his relationship with her family awkward, and he wants advice on how to handle the situation. 00:03:18 Lack of respect breeds negativity. 00:09:14 Lack of communication breeds insecurity. 00:17:51 Lack of communication breeds mistrust. 00:19:...