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Dating with trauma — Pt. 1: how being a queer, femme-presenting survivor makes intimacy feel like a science experiment gone wrong: safe feels boring, unsafe feels electric, and sometimes you end up dating the wrong people not because you’re not queer — but because trauma, visibility, and thrill-seeking all team up to make the roster messy. this is Trauma Mommy Part 1: dating with trauma. reading m...

This week on *Trauma Queen*, I’m joined by my hilarious friend and stand-up powerhouse **Olivia Carter**. We dive into everything from the trauma of toxic relationships to navigating new love without losing yourself. We talk comedy, sex, hookup culture, trust issues, and how surviving assault shapes the way we move through the world. We also get into the darker corners of the industry—misogyny in...

:The episode features an interview with Canadian therapist Sarah Hull. The host, Kylie Vincent, and Hall discuss the "trauma of being misdiagnosed" and an underlying fear of the mental health medical field. They also talk about how a lack of understanding of mental health can make people feel "broken" and "stuck". The conversation covers the concept of neuroplasticity and how understanding it can...

The Trauma of Being an American | Trauma Queen Podcast In this episode I kick off my new format, *The Trauma Of…*, starting with **the trauma of being an American.** I talk about what it means to grow up Gen Z in a country where mass shootings and lockdown drills are normal, and how that shaped me during the Parkland era and beyond. I unpack the shooting of Charlie Kirk, not just as a headline but...

This week I dig up my old “Dear Salt” series (like Dear Sugar , but if she had cPTSD and worse boundaries). A listener writes in about getting harassed while babysitting in New York, and we spiral into what it means to protect kids, cry on public transit, and still feel like a “bad feminist” because you didn’t scream at a 6’7” man on the sidewalk. I talk about coming off a pharmaceutical buffet of...

an archived episode from youtube from an advice submission: I struggle with the idea of being a survivor. I have guilt that my assault(s) don't take up much space in my mind. In my day to day, I don't think of it much, but when I'm in a similar setting as when it occurred (a physical therapy session) I get really anxious, uncomfortable, sweaty, and angry. It makes me upset that I never...

Kylie Vincent's "Trauma Queen Diaries" podcast is known for its Gen-Z dark humor , which she uses to address taboo but relatable topics such as mental illness and familial abuse . In her own words, she created the persona of "Trauma Queen" to "own that title and not feel like a a victim of that title, a victim of trauma". Instead, she positions herself as a "...

This week on Trauma Queen , Kylie Vincent records from the kitchen floor — where all great breakdowns (and breakthroughs) happen. In a world that’s burning, both online and off, she unpacks what it means to stay soft, angry, and outspoken when your vulnerability keeps getting weaponized — whether by algorithms or actual people. From getting banned off Instagram for calling out abuse, to navigating...

On this solo ep, I’m on my rock-and-roll girlboss shit, recording from my new lil studio apartment (not the van, mama, we upgraded). I talk about what it’s like learning how to have a home after being on the road with my wheelchair-bound soulmate Bonnie, missing her like crazy, and how we’re prepping to head back to New York. We get into separating art from the artist, living with conflicted rever...

This week on Trauma Queen , I sit down with LA comic and trans icon Effie for a convo that ricochets from Grindr ghouls to growing up evangelical, to how being horny and touch-deprived might actually be a gender. We talk about the brain not being done baking until you're 25, quitting cigs for gender affirming surgery, trans religious trauma, and why women dating men is the new taboo. Also: sel...

Kylie Vincent is back in their chaotic little corner, serving you raw truth and caffeinated delusions about IUD pain, the trauma of the Depo shot, hormonal acne, and why men need to suffer a little . We dive into women's health, birth control regret, CPTSD slow processing, and returning to Brooklyn after an abortion. She talks about being the "hottest girl in the psych ward," the got...

In this raw and unfiltered solo episode, Kylie Vincent takes you inside the real, messy, painful, funny world of getting an IUD—post-abortion, post-hormonal crash, and deep in her Manic Pixie Dream Girl phase. From projectile vomiting on a Palm Springs girls trip to managing life with a paralyzed dog named Bonnie, Kylie shares the deeply personal, sometimes hilarious, sometimes gutting details of...

on today's trauma queen podcast with kylie vincent we talk all about emotions and trauma. emotional avoidance, the "ick", anxious attachment, and boundaries.we answer listener's questions on how to deal with avoidance with emotions and trauma and communication. leading with love, care, and knowing yourself. TRAUMA QUEENS UNITE! join patreon! https://patreon.com/kylievincentthefir...

In this candid and unfiltered episode of the Trauma Queen Podcast, Kylie Vincent invites listeners into her world as she navigates the complex aftermath of an abortion, two and a half months later. She openly discusses the "psychedelic" pain of her second period since the procedure , and shares why a beer at 7:30 PM is a perfectly understandable coping mechanism. With her "famously...

Join your Trauma Queen, Kylie Vincent, in this raw and honest episode as she shares her personal journey post-abortion, a little over a month after her experience. Kylie delves into the complex emotions of feeling hopeless and useless, yet finding profound ways to connect with her body and navigate intense societal feelings. In this powerful conversation, Kylie reflects on the current state of the...

Alright, settle in, because this isn't just any podcast. This is, and I don't say this lightly, a tight-lipped podcast. Yeah, we keep it, we keep it contained. We keep it young and tight. Remember when I used to say that all the time? That was my whole thing. People associated that with me. And that feels good, to be associated with being young and tight. So, here's the deal. We're...

In this highly anticipated episode back of the Trauma Queen Pod, host Kylie Vincent invites listeners into her remarkably candid world, sharing a journey that navigates the unexpected twists of life. With her signature blend of raw honesty and sharp wit, Kyle recounts the realities of post-abortion recovery—including the rather unscripted experience of hormonal shifts leading to an unforgettable i...

Trauma Queen Podcast by Kylie VincentS2: Abortion GuideIn this multi part Abortion Guide, 25 year old ex mother Kylie Vincent takes you through what to expect when you're not expecting. (TW abortion, mental health, addiciton, etc.)In Part 1, Kylie takes you to through all the events leading up to finding out she had been pregnant for almost two months. Follow Kylie on IG & TikTok: @kylievi...

hey I’m 7 weeks pregnant and currently going through the abortion process after 4 weeks of undiagnosed constant nausea and throwing up (haven’t had a real meal in a month) with no answers including from ER doctors who did not do my urine test until literally 2 days ago after the second time I went to the ER with no relief from the constant hell I’ve been in the last two weeks. I just turned 25 I l...

Trauma Queen Podcast by Kylie Vincent S2: Abortion Guide E3: Part 3 In this multi-part Abortion Guide, 25 year old ex mother Kylie Vincent takes you through what to expect when you're not expecting. In Part 3, Kylie gets to Los Angeles, California and runs out of her Zofran medication, which causes her to have around the clock sickness again, unable to keep food or beverages down. Her relationship...

Trauma Queen Podcast by Kylie Vincent S2: Abortion Guide E2: Part 2 In this multi-part Abortion Guide, 25 year old ex mother Kylie Vincent takes you through what to expect when you're not expecting. In Part 2, Kylie discusses how her pregnancy went undetected for two months despite going to the ER multiple times, they did not give her a urine test. The horrors of medical care in America, the g...

hey I’m 7 weeks pregnant and currently going through the abortion process after 4 weeks of undiagnosed constant nausea and throwing up (haven’t had a real meal in a month) with no answers including from ER doctors who did not do my urine test until literally 2 days ago after the second time I went to the ER with no relief from the constant hell I’ve been in the last two weeks. I just turned 25 I l...

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Back in the booth solo, back in Pamela Vanderson mode, and back in the same trauma cycles I swore I’d broken. We’re talking clarity, self-delusion, and the mental gymnastics required to convince yourself you’re “healed.” Also, Bonnie’s officially producing this podcast now, which means things might actually run smoothly—against all odds. Other topics on the docket: - Bonnie's adoption story- p...

This week on Trauma Queen , I’m joined by stand-up comedian and Reductress writer Freddie Shanel. Freddie started doing comedy at 11—at school assemblies. In Singapore. We talk about growing up under strict rules, learning how to break them (including gender), and how they went from doing censored kid comedy to being a silly personal comedian. If you’ve ever repressed your entire personality for s...