Totally Normal About That

Hi friends! This week we had a Totally Normal conversation about the 1993 Western, Tombstone. We talked about Billy and Fabian's background romance, Doc Holliday and Johnny Ringo's Latin flirt session, and Wyatt Earp's relationships with Mattie, Josephine, and Doc. We also talked about how all of these identical dirty white men should probably just get real jobs. Don't worry Supernatural fans, we...

Hi friends! This week we continued our Pride Month specials by having a totally normal conversation about queerness in history. We discussed pederasty in Ancient Greece, Anne of Green Gables, and the origin of certain tropes. We also talked about lesbian flash mobs in Australia. Got things to say about this episode? Got other queer historical figures we should have talked about? Come talk to us on...

Hi friends! This week our Totally Normal conversation turned to the real world. We talked about the way queer celebrities are often forced to hide their identities and the dangers of being outed as a celebrity. We also discussed parasocial relationships and how the demand for authenticity in media has led to a dangerous trend of forcing celebrities to explain their sexuality before they're ready....

Hi friends! This week we continue our Pride month special episodes with a conversation about the Bury Your Gays trope. We talk about queer characters and queer-coded characters being portrayed as villains, the violence surrounding queer characters, and the way the Hays Code contributed to the trope. If you have thoughts on this trope, we would love to hear them! You can find us on Bluesky and Tumb...

Hi friends! In this episode we celebrate the start of Pride Month by talking about queerbaiting, queercoding, and pinkwashing. We talk about the history of queerbaiting and queercoding, including the Hays Code. We also discuss the dilution of language and how it impacts people. Feeling Totally Normal about something we discussed? Hit us up on Bluesky or Tumblr!

Hi friends! This week we were feeling Totally Normal about Good Omens! We had special guest Veronica join us to talk about all three seasons. We talked about our frustrations with the finale, the whimsy of the first season, and the narrator. We also discussed bad wigs and Crowley's tight pants. If you feel Totally Normal about this show, come yell at us on Bluesky or Tumblr!

Hi friends! This week we felt Totally Normal about the movie Burlesque (2010)! We talked about how Jack and Ali's relationship is one of the least interesting ones in the movie, the history of the burlesque genre of performance, and Tess's relationships with the other characters. If you feel Totally Normal about this movie, come yell at us about it on Tumblr or Bluesky!

Hi friends! This week we've got something special for you! We came up with the plot of a queer movie based on what we want to see in a movie! We talked about casting, shrimp cocktail incidents, and travel gays. What would you want to see in a queer movie? Let us know!

Hi friends! This week we finished up our totally normal conversation about the movie Barbie! We talked about how Mattel has been responsive to feedback over the years, the music choices in the movie, and the way the patriarchy places expectations upon men and women. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at...

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Barbie! We talked about how the patriarchy is the real villain, the way the movie flips gender norms and expectations, and second wave feminism. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie The Wizard of Oz! We talked about allyship, the depiction of the lion as a potentially queer character, and why Glinda is actually the biggest jerk in the whole movie. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@...

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Mulan! We talked about gender as a construct, Shang’s bisexual crisis, and the importance of allowing children’s movies to engage with complex topics. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Crazy Rich Asians! We talked about how terrible men are, how women uphold the patriarchy, and the evils of capitalism. We also discussed our feelings about how pretty men get away with more, and how Nick really dated up. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Blue...

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the book Spell Bound by F. T. Lukens! We talked about found family, teens being cute and in love, and the surprisingly anti-capitalist messaging in this book. If you have totally normal feelings about this book, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Blue is the Warmest Color! We talked about bisexual stereotypes, the need for intimacy coordinators, and the impact of the male gaze on queer storytelling. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

Hi friends! In this episode we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Moonlight We talk about intersectionality, the relationships between sex, intimacy and violence, and the ways our experiences shape us through our lives. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.co...

Hi friends! This week we covered the book And They Were Roommates! by Page Powars. We talked about body dysphoria, teen pretentiousness, horse boys, and wholesome friendships. If you have totally normal feelings about this book, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

Hi friends! In this episode we were joined by our amazing friend Veronica for a totally normal conversation about the 1999 classic movie, The Mummy! We talked about the representation of Evelyn as a strong female lead, the logic gaps that stood out to us, the amazing use of effects and how well the movie holds up, and so much more! If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come...

Hi friends! In this episode we discussed the show Fleabag created by none other than the main actor herself, Phoebe Waller-Bridge. We talked about the complex themes of grief, family, feminism, toxic relationships, and personal development & growth. We also discussed some of the issues brought up in this show like suicide & miscarriage. If you have totally normal feelings about this show,...

Hi friends! This week we were joined by a very special return guest, Lyra, as we continue our conversation about the Heated Rivalry universe. In this episode, we’re discussing Rachel Reid’s 2nd book in the Game Changers series, which was the primary inspiration for the show. If you have totally normal feelings about this book, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or ema...

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the show that everyone seems to be talking about lately, Heated Rivalry! If you have totally normal feelings about this show, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

Hi friends! This week we were joined by our amazing guest Sophie for a totally normal conversation about the newest installment in the Knives Out series, Wake Up Dead Man! We talked about cults, bible lore, giant jewels as choking hazards, Andrew Scott's accent, and so much more! If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr ,...

Hi friends! In this episode, we decided to look back on our year & discuss some of the things we’ve loved, hated, and loved to hate about 2025. We rated some pieces of media and discussed what we're looking forward to in 2026. Happy New Year! If you have totally normal feelings about this podcast or things we should cover in the future, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , T...

Hey Friends! In this episode we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Looking for Her ! We talked about pacing, story choices, and the need for consistent through lines. We also discussed our rankings for each of the holiday movies we’ve watched so far & why we loved (or didn’t love) each of them. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You c...

Hey friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie, Friends and Family Christmas! We talked about fated romances, boundaries, and UHaul lesbians. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky , Tumblr , or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.