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Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged , wedding professionals Paul, Isla and Esme are back with Part 2 of I Do or I Don't?, debating some of the biggest wedding trends couples are talking about right now. From first looks and destination weddings to personalised vows, unplugged ceremonies, matching bridesmaid dresses, signature cocktails and choreographed first dances...

Send us Fan Mail Wedding awards are everywhere in the wedding industry but what do they actually mean for engaged couples? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're unpacking our experience at the latest wedding awards, discussing what goes on behind the scenes, what judges are really looking for, and whether awards should influence your supplier decisions. From industry recognitio...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Isla are joined by Matt and Joey from Dirtbag Entertainment and The Hustle to discuss everything couples need to know about wedding entertainment. From building one of the UK's most exciting alternative wedding entertainment companies to performing hundreds of weddings, Matt and Joey share their expert advice on choosing the r...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged , Paul and Isla are joined by Pete and Philip, the brilliant duo behind Crazy Nine Golf, the multi-award winning wedding entertainment company transforming drinks receptions across the UK with their handcrafted mobile crazy golf course. From a chance conversation at a family gathering to becoming one of the most sought after wedding supplier...

Send us Fan Mail Would you ban kids from your wedding? Should bridesmaids pay for their own dresses? And are wedding favours actually pointless? 👀 In this hilarious and brutally honest episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re joined by Esme from behind the scenes as we play “I Do or I Don’t” — the ultimate wedding debate game where we blind react to some of the most controversial wedding tren...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged — the wedding podcast created specifically for engaged couples planning their big day 💍 This special BONUS episode follows on from our previous County Brides episode with wedding industry expert Duane, but this time we’re diving even deeper into advice specifically for brides, grooms, and newly engaged couples. If you&...

Send us Fan Mail In this special bonus episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged , we dive into the business side of the wedding industry with Duane from County Brides — one of the North West’s most recognised wedding marketing platforms. Following on from our previous County Brides episode dedicated to engaged couples, this supplier-focused special is packed with honest advice, marketing strategies,...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Unpacked, we sit down with wedding videographer Laura from Vision Wave Weddings to talk all things weddings, filming love stories, and the reality of working in the wedding industry. From starting out filming £400 weddings to capturing over 450 wedding days, Laura shares how she built her business, what really happens behind the scenes, and why wedding videograp...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re switching things up and hearing directly from a REAL bride! 💍 Bex joins us to spill everything about her wedding journey — from the engagement and venue search to budget shocks, family drama, wedding regrets, photographer mistakes, and the emotional reality of the big day. As both a bride AND wedding coordinator, Bex shares hon...

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding? This episode is FULL of honest advice that every bride, groom, and wedding supplier needs to hear. In this solo episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re breaking down the biggest frustrations, misconceptions, and behind-the-scenes truths in the wedding industry — from BOTH the couple’s perspective and the supplier’s side. We discuss: • Why slow replies l...

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding and wondering what stationery you actually need? In this episode, we dive into wedding invitations, save the dates, and on-the-day stationery , breaking down what’s essential, what’s a waste of money, and whether DIY wedding invitations are really worth it. We’re joined by Michelle from Rella Event Stationery, who shares expert wedding planning advice , insid...

Send us Fan Mail If you’re planning a wedding or working in the wedding industry… this episode is a MUST listen. We sit down with Duane from County Brides — one of the biggest names in the Northwest wedding scene — to break down: How wedding awards REALLY work What brides should be asking suppliers The biggest mistakes couples make How suppliers can actually stand out at wedding fairs The truth ab...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Isla and Paul sit down with Emma, a professional bridal hairstylist from Finesse Bridal , with nearly 10 years of experience in the wedding industry. If you’re planning your wedding, this episode is packed with expert bridal hair advice to help you avoid common mistakes and feel confident on your big day. 💍 We cover: The biggest bridal hair mistakes brides make H...

Send us Fan Mail We took the podcast LIVE for the very first time… and brought together real wedding suppliers to answer the questions couples actually need to hear . In this episode, Isla & Paul sit down with multiple wedding industry experts including jewellers, photographers, content creators and more — all sharing unfiltered, honest advice from real weddings . 💍 We cover: The biggest wedd...

Send us Fan Mail Planning your honeymoon? This episode is a must listen! We’re joined by honeymoon expert Alex Collins from Travel Counsellors to break down everything you need to know before booking your dream trip. From choosing the right destination and managing your budget to avoiding common mistakes couples make, this episode is packed with honest, practical advice. We also dive into whether...

Send us Fan Mail Wedding planning isn’t all Pinterest-perfect moments… sometimes it’s chaos, controversy, and completely unhinged stories 🤯 In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, it’s just us — no guests — diving into our viral TikTok and Instagram comments, reacting to the wildest takes, biggest debates, and funniest (and harshest) opinions from the internet. From wedding DJs vs playlist...

Send us Fan Mail Planning a wedding and feeling overwhelmed? This episode is a must-listen. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged , we sit down with Hollie from Hollie B Events, an award-nominated wedding planner, to uncover what really happens behind the scenes of weddings. From last minute disasters to the truth about DIY weddings, Hollie shares insider secrets, real stories, and practic...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Marcus and Nathan from Your Singing Waiters, one of the UK’s most experienced wedding entertainment acts with over 20 years in the industry. Marcus and Nathan reveal how the famous “singing waiters” concept works at weddings and why it has become one of the most memorable entertainment choices for mod...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to Totally Absolutely Engaged. In this episode, Isla and Paul sit down with the team from The Plough Inn, one of Cheshire’s most popular wedding venues, to talk about everything couples should know when choosing and booking their wedding venue. For many engaged couples, finding the perfect wedding venue is one of the biggest and most exciting parts of wedding planning...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we explore why more couples are choosing celebrants for their wedding ceremonies and how celebrant-led ceremonies are shaping the future of modern weddings. If you are planning your ceremony and want something personal, meaningful, and completely reflective of your relationship, this episode is for you. We touch briefly on the difference between a celebrant and a...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Phil, owner and lead photographer of Zap Image, a highly experienced wedding photographer with over 15 years in the wedding industry and one of the original Hub members. Phil shares his journey from a corporate sales career to becoming a full-time wedding photographer, including the personal story beh...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul. On this week’s episode, the duo are joined by the incredible Emma, co-founder of The Precious Pets, a professional wedding dog chaperone service she runs alongside her partner Ade. Together, they’ve appeared on Dragons’ Den and This Morning, sharing their expertise on including dogs in wed...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged ! This week, Isla and Paul sit down with Laura, owner of Miss Deal Casino Tables, to explore one of the fastest-growing trends in wedding entertainment. From cruise ships and corporate events to unforgettable wedding receptions, Laura reveals the insider secrets behind hosting casino tables at weddings. She breaks down...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul. In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Joe Reeves , a wedding saxophone player whose career has taken him from school performances to playing for brands and names like Manchester United, Porsche, and Gymshark . Joe shares honest insight into the biggest mistakes...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul!  On today's bonus episode, the pair are joined by Esme, one of the organisers of the hub wedding showcase. If you are recently engaged, or in the depths of wedding planning, you NEED to listen to this episode as it contains exclusive information about the upcoming wedding show on the...