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Why do we fear rejection? It bruises the ego and touches on insecurities. Do you know what you look for when approaching the unknown? Do you like dating apps, socializing in the wild, letting people while with your buddies or blind dates? Are you even looking for dates? Or just casual flings? So long as the interactions are respectful to self and others, fun, healthy, legal and safe then I say GO...

Things change! Time progresses! And we often aren’t the same person we were last year. The progressions May be small and u detectable in an hour, day or week’s length. But a lot of times we look back and notice maybe our mindset has changed, or we have different values for our time and energy or are seeking different things to feel more fulfilled. Let’s talk about it!

Pre Rona compared to during and at the (hopefully) tail end. Dating has changed and as we have all changed in life and gained more perspective this has impacted dating for many of us such as views, what we are looking for, how we date and experiences.

Sports, art, music, creativity. These are the places where our kind is often represented. We all know stereotypes of femme and masc styles, but how cool is it to watch ballerinos fly, or to watch drag queens dance, or female basketball players dominate! We are out there guys and we are often represented in sports and creative outlets. How awesome were artists such as Bowie, Prince, Queen Latifah....

While dating and forming more close relationships more than friends, we often aren’t taught how to navigate conversations. We are often taught from a majority culture perspective. Here is some info that may be good food for thought related to how queer people can approach different topics in gender and sexuality when it comes to dating, sex life and sexuality.

Check out Jkiillem, momomuscle, and shedoeshim on Instagram for more insights, pics and tips! Here we have a real talk about how hot weather and needs to change clothing seasonally can impact dysphoria, comfort and anxiety. I talk about some tips and experiences. Don’t get down or feel a need to retreat or avoid things! It’s already hard trying to get back into socializing in person again. But don...

Adjusting back into dating in society can be complicated these days. This is the first pride season in a while where we are out there more in society and it’s like coming out of the cocoon!!

Adjusting back into socializing in society can be complicated these days. This is the first pride season in a while where we are out there more in society and it’s like coming out of the cocoon!!

Lining up with the authentic self and the ego’s role in trying to defend us. This can happen publicly in social settings or in private internally while alone. We all know what a mistake looks like, and we know what it’s like to not reach a certain goal or expectation in a life milestone or a traditional expectation. When we miss the Mark how do we talk to ourselves? Or when we are insecure in a so...

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Here the convo is about anxiety provoking situations... perhaps you can relate.

How to expand the mind about androgyny.

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Real talk, I sometimes need support emotionally from a counselor. Life can be stressful and overwhelming. Even though I work in a therapy setting I am not ashamed to say that I need help sometimes too. Just someone who is a neutral party to help me find methods to cope and to confide in about stressors. If you’ve ever experienced distress and felt stuck, this will be a good episode for you! Ambiva...

Here are some methods of coping with gender Dysphoria. It is just a start. But taking time out to slowly figure out how any arising issues are impacting in life and then slowly learning to cope with every aspect of it, this can be done. You can build up a tolerance and understanding to the thoughts and feelings that arise and eventually accept your authentic self. Just because society has not yet...

Many people experience discomfort with some aspect of themselves, but what happens if there are stressors related to making changes. Here we unpack some of the definitions, societal expectations and cultural topics related to the distress surrounding gender identity.

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IG: @tomboyofficialig Many of our views of gender have been shaped by Western civilization view points which are very rigid, requiring everyone to fit into neat boxes and categories. But gender, as with most identifying aspects of a human’s self, gender is a spectrum. Some may fit into the boxes neatly while others of us deal with more fluid aspects of gender with how we identify, present and expr...

Gender tends to be often complex. Have you seen the movie “Her” on Netflix? One scene shows the main character and his coworker speaking during their shift. The coworker mentions to the main character that the main character’s letters come from a female aspect of himself. He continues, commenting that the main character is partially female. And he continues further to state that this comment was m...

Dating in the early stages can be very complex.

Getting defensive and super worried about a potentially new relationship is normal. But sometimes crushes can be exciting but other times quite anxiety provoking.

We all have those friends who are straight but flirty. Here I mention “femmes,” but really this can be applied to anybody who it is hard to tell if they are interested or if they act interested for attention. Remember, everyone matters, LGBTQ+ folx also matter! You deserve valuable and genuine relationships that are not clouded. One frustrating part of presenting as a “non-typical” stereotypical g...

Have you ever declined a job or an interview due to the dress code? How about events, have you ever skipped or passed on an invite because of cultural clothing expectations? It really can be anxiety provoking.

Let us start to slowly dive into some serious and very relevant topics. Lately a lot of us are on dating apps and finding new methods of socially interacting (while in quarantine). What is your experience with different communication styles with love interests? and have you ever been ghosted? Subscribe to hear more content about topics LGBTQ+ topics.

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