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More topics about expectations from society, and how those not on the binary may experience relationships differently.

The Cis Straight crowd has often placed a lot of expectations as well as stereotypes on those of us who are other. Here we talk about gender expectations, norma we see or experience in friendships, family relations and with dating and partners or even casual hook ups.

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Diving into our attunement to our own selves and how this translates , interferes or enhances our relationships with others.

Emotions often seem to control us. Here we break down the process of how emotions lead to patterns and those patterns can be unhelpful and keep us stuck. We take a look under the microscope and look into the hidden details of how to notice patterns and how to stop them for long enough to implement changes. Whether the relationship is with ourselves, a partner, a friend or family members we can lea...

Let’s talk about approaching a crush and how to open up about those feelings and what to do with a crush on a friend. About 13 mins in is where the intro ends.

To the baby gays, newly queer, newly out, newly identified and younger OR even older LGBTQ+ and gender queers out there! Welcome!!! Here I take about 15 mins catching everybody up on my current situations and changes in life and then eventually jump into talking to those who are newly out or newly coming into the realization of the most authentic version of themselves ESPECIALLY if you don’t ident...

Dating during “El Ron” has become even mor complex. Adding more factors and fears and concerns than before. I talk here about my recent dating experiences and adjustments of getting back out there.

Here I talk about finance, and asexual and gender minority dynamics as well as how the system impacts. I hope the strategies and tips mentioned are helpful! Im not a financial professional and I cannot diagnose or recommend treatment without a supervisor, so the info listed is just for educational purposes and is not a professional recommendation.

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Why do we fear rejection? It bruises the ego and touches on insecurities. Do you know what you look for when approaching the unknown? Do you like dating apps, socializing in the wild, letting people while with your buddies or blind dates? Are you even looking for dates? Or just casual flings? So long as the interactions are respectful to self and others, fun, healthy, legal and safe then I say GO...

Things change! Time progresses! And we often aren’t the same person we were last year. The progressions May be small and u detectable in an hour, day or week’s length. But a lot of times we look back and notice maybe our mindset has changed, or we have different values for our time and energy or are seeking different things to feel more fulfilled. Let’s talk about it!

Pre Rona compared to during and at the (hopefully) tail end. Dating has changed and as we have all changed in life and gained more perspective this has impacted dating for many of us such as views, what we are looking for, how we date and experiences.

Sports, art, music, creativity. These are the places where our kind is often represented. We all know stereotypes of femme and masc styles, but how cool is it to watch ballerinos fly, or to watch drag queens dance, or female basketball players dominate! We are out there guys and we are often represented in sports and creative outlets. How awesome were artists such as Bowie, Prince, Queen Latifah....

While dating and forming more close relationships more than friends, we often aren’t taught how to navigate conversations. We are often taught from a majority culture perspective. Here is some info that may be good food for thought related to how queer people can approach different topics in gender and sexuality when it comes to dating, sex life and sexuality.

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Adjusting back into dating in society can be complicated these days. This is the first pride season in a while where we are out there more in society and it’s like coming out of the cocoon!!

Adjusting back into socializing in society can be complicated these days. This is the first pride season in a while where we are out there more in society and it’s like coming out of the cocoon!!

Lining up with the authentic self and the ego’s role in trying to defend us. This can happen publicly in social settings or in private internally while alone. We all know what a mistake looks like, and we know what it’s like to not reach a certain goal or expectation in a life milestone or a traditional expectation. When we miss the Mark how do we talk to ourselves? Or when we are insecure in a so...

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Here the convo is about anxiety provoking situations... perhaps you can relate.

How to expand the mind about androgyny.

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Real talk, I sometimes need support emotionally from a counselor. Life can be stressful and overwhelming. Even though I work in a therapy setting I am not ashamed to say that I need help sometimes too. Just someone who is a neutral party to help me find methods to cope and to confide in about stressors. If you’ve ever experienced distress and felt stuck, this will be a good episode for you! Ambiva...