To Stay, To Leave, To Know - A Podcast for Ambitious Women Considering Divorce

One of the most common occurrences for anyone who has done any self-development work, gone through therapy or mindset coaching is noticing the changes in dynamics with your long-term friends. More disagreements, differences in opinions, slight annoyances with things that didn't bother you (or them) before. Especially friendships that started in childhood or teenage years. 📌 You will notice ho...

⚡️ There are a few things that helped me consolidate my thoughts among all the confusion and everyone else's opinions. But before I got there, I was stuck in confusion and feeling torn apart. 🔹 On one side, we have the spiritual teachings that you are the one in control, through the lens of the divine feminine and masculine teachings. That your experiences are the mirror of your inner world....

The answer to this question will depend on a couple of different aspects, as I've mentioned in some of the other episodes. ⚡️ There are certain scenarios in which things can be fixed, and you can reconnect and reenergise your relationship. ⚡️ From my observations, marriages can be fixed when these things apply: ✅ When you are BOTH interested and committed to address and fix what needs to be...

When you’re considering your pros and cons, and thinking of leaving, there is usually that moment that comes to your mind, “ but how he’s such a good dad to our kids ”. ⚡️And while I think this is a contributing factor, it’s also important to take a few more things into consideration. It is similar to what I talked about in the episode of “Death of a marriage by a thousand cuts” when there are no...

⚡️ If you're listening to this podcast, I acknowledge that this is probably going to be difficult to listen to. But it is still important. Observe your thoughts and feelings, and write them down. Sit with it all. Give yourself the grace for any guilt or shame you might be feeling. 📌 This podcast is aimed at women seeking guidance, rather than to paint all men as bad guys. I know you might be...

⚡️ Some of the stuff that bothers you might not seem like a big thing to a lot of people, because on the outside, everything looks ok. Nobody would even suspect that there is anything wrong. He’s not a bad guy. ⚡️ But, he doesn’t see you. He doesn’t notice the small stuff. Some of the things that bother you probably look frivolous to everyone else. ⚡️ But you are fed up. Empty. Depleted. And yo...

⚡️ In some situations, it IS you. Sometimes you're the "problem" in your marriage dynamics. The online world is full of opinions about what others are doing wrong in the relationship. Sometimes we lack the takes that tell us in which way we are contributing to the dysfunction. 📌 Sometimes a partner will bring up a concern and things he's not happy with, but you'll get defensive about it and get...

⚡️ This dynamic is not talked about enough, and I think there is a huge proportion of marriages that last a long time because the primary focus is the kids. But the couple gets lost in the busyness of life. Focusing on being good parents, but the function of the couple is not happening anymore. You lose sight of each other. Then kids grow up, and you realise you're strangers to each other. Yo...

Do I get divorced or not? Should I stay? Should I leave? Do we try a little bit more?  You went through all of the phases of this dilemma… Alone. Because most advice focuses on what to do once you’ve already made that decision.  📌 You thought you were the problem. And then worked on becoming a better communicator so as not to trigger his defensiveness.   📌 You considered couples therapy or couns...