To My Sisters

Is polygamy REALLY all it’s cut out to be? Does it benefit the modern woman? Is it something that the sisters of today can sustain? On today’s episode of TMS, we talk the tea on having more than one partner - for better, or worse! 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newslette...

With divorce rates skyrocketing in the modern age, and the conversation around marriage becoming seemingly more negative, where does that leave the girlies of today’s day and age? Is it naive to aspire towards a ‘healthy’ marriage? Are marriages doomed to fail from the jump in the 21st century? Check out today’s episode to find out!  ⚡️ Come to the live event so we can talk, have a hug and I can...

Does getting plastic surgery make you ‘insecure’? How do women keep up with a changing standard of physical beauty? How do we engage with the influx of celebrities, influencers and even friends hopping on the cosmetic procedural train? All questions we examine with the appropriate dosage of tea, in the latest episode!  Support Yoko in the fight for girls education in Sierra Leone:  https://gofund....

As amazing as sisterhood is, with every good thing comes its counterfeits. From fake sisterhood to stealing partners, how do we discern between who is really down for the sisters, and who wants the sisters down bad? The sisters weigh in on today’s episode!  GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my...

Welcome to 'Girls Night In' a series of deep and candid conversations your favourite online sisters will be having with the women they love and admire. In today's conversation, we dive into the life of Zoe Alexandra - an entrepreneur, podcaster and one-third of the iconic trio 'Live From Layfield'. She talks about the emotional rollercoaster of ending their YouTube channel, realizing she was faili...

In part one of our Valentine’s Day special, the sisters speak candidly about their worst dating experiences and the reality of finding a long-term partner in the ‘streets’ of the current climate.  GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌...

As one of the sisters harkens in a brand new age, and the sisters are in deep reflecting mode on some of their mid-twenties learnings. We’re keen to share the essential hacks, lessons and wisdom we’ve managed to pick up on the way. GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://w...

Planning for the future and working out your dream life is often something many women do. After all, it’s important to ensure that you have goals and visions to aspire towards to motivate you in your daily life. However, sometimes it gets hard along the way - anxiety, giving up, and watching others win where you have failed can be tough. How should we deal with it all? The sisters weigh in, in thi...

'Tailor your consumption’ and ‘consume critically’ are all sentiments we use a lot over at TMS. When we are constantly bombarded by endless streams of content and social norms, what does it look like to intentionally curate your feed and critically think when confronted with problematic content on regular basis? 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER ou...

Misogyny, red pill and predatory advice - we saw it all in 2022, but what is the future of the gender wars in 2023? Are we finally leaving it behind? The sisters weigh in, in today’s episode. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💰 Apply to the Visio...

New year, new me - or new year, more me? The sisters are back this season with our reflections on how we can stack the healthy habits and behaviour the girls need, in order to win big in life. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable an...

Merry Christmas Sisters! As the festive season is upon us and 2022 draws to a close we wanted to share our gratitude and the greatest lessons of the year. So sit back, relax, have a mince pie, and enjoy the conversation. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysist...

As much as we are looking forward to 2023 and all it’s gifts, it’s important to address the not-so-pretty side of ourselves which have prevented us from progressing and achieving our goals. From toxic behaviours to addictions, it’s time to give it up sis - all of it. Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Pre-order our new book here: https://short...

In today’s episode, the sisters delve into how you can ensure 2023 is the year you win! How do you practically cultivate consistency, overcome failure, implement accountability and celebrate your wins? Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https...

In today’s episode, the sisters come together to have a little bit of girl chat - we touch on overcoming #shygirl feels, the trend of ‘kicks’ that has taken the online world by storm, adjust a dash of eating low vibrational plates. Get your glass of tea, wine or coffee ready and get into this one sis! Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Pre-ord...

The unfortunate passing of Shanquella Robinson has taken the world by storm - especially the harrowing details of her death at the hands of people she called ‘friends’. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the dark side of friendships, the importance of justice and accountability, and the significance of Shanquella’s case for friendships more widely. Join the conversation and the sisterhood...

The reality of being a woman means that many of us are subject to the real effects of what society perceives as ‘pretty’. However, beyond this being something that we just talk about, the sisters chime in on whether pretty privilege is a real form of capital affecting the way men see women - and even how our sisters see each other. Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysist...

A viral tweet of a woman sharing how much she loves spending time with her husband over coffee in the morning sent the internet into a frenzy and has led the sisters to ask, have we as a generation given up on love? Why have so many people become resistant to positive representations of relationships? And how do we overcome this hopelessness? Pre-order our debut book here: shorturl.at/JUWX5 Join t...

It’s easy to think of this glowing and growing journey as a chance for you to heal and move on from past hurt and trauma. However, we always encourage a 360-degree approach to become your best self, and that means also acknowledging when you have been the perpetrator or the villain. In today’s episode, the sisters get super transparent as we talk about the trauma that we, as women, cause other peo...

The sister’s continue down the controversial takes with an episode on sugar babies, transactional relationships and ‘dating up’. Should a sister seriously consider having a ‘Sucralose papi’ and is it okay for women to use money as a means to judge suitability for a partner? Find out more in today’s episode! Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com F...

Gather round sisters - in today’s episode we take on the controversial state of the dating streets, and the real impact of the rise of casual dating and hookup culture on women of today. Is the new found, no-strings attached approach really hitting, or is there some issues for the girlies lurking beneath the surface? Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysis...

The reality of family dynamics can be tough, and trying to facilitate healing and reconciliation can be tougher when it feels like it’s you doing the heavy lifting. In today’s episode, the sisters speak about the practical ramifications of trying to put yourself first and completely reshaping your relationships as an eldest daughter Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysis...

The pressure to mature and having your life figured out when it feels like everyone else is racing ahead is immense. From job promotions to engagements to new houses, seeing your peers or favourite influencer online can cause insecurities about your own journey. In today’s episode, we dive deep into how to steam ahead even when it feels like you’re falling behind. For 10% off affordable and access...

Many of us have had those moments where it feels like we aren’t doing enough, or we simply feel as though we aren’t on the right path in life. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about their experience with existential crisis, and what to do when the real possibility of depression and darker thoughts enter the picture. TW: Mentions suicide and depression For affordable and accessible online thera...

When the reality of a cost of living crisis is hitting the sisters severely, conversations around money and resourcing are colliding with beauty standards and the pressure to keep up aesthetics. How much is enough to keep up ‘beauty maintenance’? Should women be transparent about beauty costs? Who gets to decide what beauty is and how much it costs? How easy is it to afford to keeping up with the...