Through My Looking Glass

When a child lives with a depressed parent the child can get depressed as well. Children feel what the parent is going through. They feel the energy the parent is putting out. Lets keep these children safe and healthy. Once we get help for ourself we can then help our children.  Remember very young children gets depress as well.

As Victims we have to be happy for the little things in life. First and most, we have to be happy for waking up this morning. Being alive in this moment this time. For that I am happy. Join me, lets fine the little things to be happy about. 

Love should come naturally but i realize at times we have to be mindful.  Love has different meaning to different people. When it comes to family. It is sad but we have to be mindful of them as well. Your first love should be you.   

Marijuana is not for children. When children mistake "edible" marijuana (like gummy bears, brownies, lollipops, etc.) for regular food and eat it unknowingly. Small children are at higher risk based on their size and weight.  Because edible products have very high amounts of marijuana, the symptoms are more severe on a small child. Many young children who consume marijuana edibles require hos...

As victims and survivors, we have to have self-Discipline. Some of the choices we make can make or break us.   Lets set goals so we can become a better us.   

Back in slavery our ancestors so much want it to be free. freedom was their main goal. Some learn to free they're mine in order to go through there every day. Today freedom mean a whole lot of different things to a whole lot of people. Yes some of us are still victims. We don't have the freedom that others do. One thing we do have is the power to free our mind. When we allow ourselves only to cont...

Happy Father's Day to all the great fathers. so many wonderful fathers do not get to see their children for one reason or another. Most  common is because of child support or because that mother for whatever reason does not want them to. Children needs their positive fathers in their lives. For all you mothers who are keeping the children from their fathers, you are hurting the fathers but you are...

Times when we lose a loveones, we question why. Today I question why my children ws taken away from. I miss mt children

I have had the displeasure of saying my final farewell to my son Omarie.  A bitter taste in my mouth, an even bigger hole in my heart. It is not easy for a mother to put her child to rest. For me, this is my third. When will the pain end? how much can one bear. Omarie i know your soul is at rest and you have gotten your wings. For that i will rejoice knowing you will be beside your sister Ebo...

Children are sometimes taught to say sorry when they hurt someone. The problem ls, if there is no consequences behind their action, they will go up and continue hurting other feeling saying sorry is all they need to do. We need to learn that out negative  actions can affect not just the person they hurt but the ones closes to them. Lets be positive to others. caring does not cause anything. M...

Another one of my children passed away this week. Right now I am lost, broken, I am not sure how i am process it. My son Omarie as left a positive on many. My message this week is to love your love one. Love the people around you. Do not wait until they are gone for you to say i wish I said I love him or her. Love does not cause anything.

The one thing no one can take from us is the gift of giving birth. That is a feeling like no other. Lets celebrate  the joy of being a mother. Join me in celebrating all the mothers.

Nov. 18, 2021 -- The CDC reported that an estimated 100,306 Americans died from drug overdoses during the period of April 2020 to April 2021, a 28.5% increase from the previous year.

As Victims and survivors, we are lucky. We have a lot to give thankful for. Give thanks for getting up every time we go to sleep. Lets give thanks for the little things in life. Lets help other. 

So you have a goal. What steps are you taking to accomplish that goal. If you are a victim, your goal might be to become clean or get out of that  abusive relationship you are in. How do you do that. We are strong lets go for it.

As victims and survivors there are a lot, we have to accomplish. In doing all that we have certain goals we want to achieve. What are those goals and what do you need to do in order to achieve those goals?

This is a people needing people world. We all need to be connected to someone. As victims and survives we know at some point in our life, we need someone. The wonderful thing is we are also needed by others. We can support and be a positive connection to others

We all try to seek out that special person to spend some quality time with. Why is it so wrong to expect to have a good time without it being negative or be violent? There is so much misconception on reason and ideas of why.   

At times we allow others to influence the way we see ourselves. We allow others to shrink us down to where we fall from the positive path we are traveling. Lets keep our eyes on the prize which is us. We can be who and what we want to be.

instant gratification is something that most of us look for every day. At time we even feel we should not have to work for it. WE need to discipline our body and mind to work at what we need to in time we will achieve our goal 

Sex trafficking is on the rise.  Lets look at Who is most vulnerable and who are the traffickers. Lets help the victims and put an end to the traffickers. 

One thing I have learned is everyone needs support. If you are a victim support is out here. Domestic violence is on the rise every day. If you are experiencing domestic violence which can also include sexual assault, support is out there for you as well. You just have to be ready to take it.

Being a victim is one of the most difficult things a person can experiences. Weather someone is hurting you are you are in the process or hurting yourself, know, things can get better. Let today be the tomorrow you have been waiting on. Lets get support and do all the little things we dreamt of doing when we were in that dark place.

As  survivors we are gifted, we are educated, we are lucky, we are strong, we are messengers. We are an example to the survivers to come.

Child abduction is happening all over the world. About 8 million children are reported missing each year worldwide. There is about 2300 children are reported missing daily in the US. Teenagers are the most common age group for abduction. this is very say lets do what we can to keep out children safe at home.