Thrive Against The Odds

Most of us hold ourselves back because we're too past focused. We look to what we have done to determine what we can do, instead of looking to what we can become to determine who we can be today. Here's the truth: Your relationship with yourself is just your thoughts about yourself. Your past only exists in your thoughts. So does your future. You get to decide what you focus on and who you ultimat...

Sometimes you expect one thing and get another, which can be super frustrating. But you can still make sure the investment you made was worth it. You get to decide how much value you get from something. You are in control of how you show up and how you choose to respond. Tune in to today's episode to hear more about an experience I had that wasn't what I was promised it would be, and how I chose t...

Once you've accomplished an impossible goal, it's important to keep the momentum going. Tune in to this episode to learn what it takes to cross the finish line and what to do when you've accomplished your goal. You have a ton of potential. You are capable of great things. Go show the world what you can do. Interested in working with me? Send me a message here to set up a free consultation call.

If you really want to accomplish your impossible goal, you need to embrace discomfort when it comes. Don't run away from it. That's a fast path to giving up. And discomfort will come. Plan for it. Overcome it. It's so so important that you DON'T QUIT. Tune in to this episode to learn what you can do when things get in the way of your goals.  You are stronger than you think you are. Interested in w...

You'll never accomplish impossible things if you don't take intentional action. A lot of people have a solid idea of where they don't want to be, but they aren't very clear on where they do want to be. Tune in to this episode to learn all about what it takes to take effective action to achieve your goals.  Get clear on what you want, and your actions become much clearer. Interested in working with...

The first step in accomplishing any impossible goal is to actually set the goal. While it sounds simple, a lot of people get stuck on this first step. Listen to this episode of "Thrive Against the Odds" to learn how to effectively set an impossible goal and set yourself up for success before any of the action even comes. You have more power than you think you do. Let's get you going! Interested in...

We limit ourselves when we set realistic, small goals. If you want to become who you are capable of becoming and expand your capacity, set impossible goals. Impossible goals are not actually impossible. You will be shocked when you realize how much you are capable of.  Go experience the world. Set big goals. Make an impact. Prove people wrong. Learn all about how to set and accomplish impossible g...

Challenges are not something to run away from, but something to be embraced. The sooner you can learn to go after your challenges instead of avoiding them, the sooner you will accomplish your goals. You may have this challenge, but this challenge doesn't have you. Learn more in this episode! Want to work with me? Follow the link here to sign up for a free call.

Money can't buy happiness. It can't solve all of our problems. But it can solve our money problems. In this episode, I dive into how we can have a great relationship with money so that we make it easy to make more of it. If you're ready to set aside excuses and start taking responsibility for your financial situation, this episode is for you. Sign up to work with me here.

Forget everything you've heard about relationships. This episode challenges the common narrative that you need other people to meet your needs, and introduces how you can take your power back in all of your relationships. Come learn how to build relationships based on love and respect, not resentment and missed expectations. Want to dive into this work? Message me here to get started.

We've got goals all wrong. We CAN set big goals that seem almost impossible. In fact, I would encourage it. Don't limit yourself because you aren't willing to set big goals. And, it is so important to understand the WHY of our goals. You miss a lot of growth and opportunities if you don't have a strong WHY behind it. One more thing. We set goals to grow and to build our capacity. We don't set them...

If it feels like you never have enough time, this episode is for you.   You can't make more hours in the day. But you can create a different relationship with the time you already have. In this episode, I break down why we waste time without even realizing it, what’s actually driving those patterns, and how to start taking your time back. This is a practical look at how to be more intentional, cut...

What you believe impacts everything in your life. Even the beliefs you are not aware of. They affect how you see situations, what you expect, and the results you end up creating. If you believe life is hard, it will feel hard. If you believe opportunities are limited, that is what you will keep finding. But once you start to recognize your beliefs and question them, you can begin to change them. A...

How often do you catch yourself thinking, "I'll be happy when..."? In this episode, I talk about the trap so many of us fall into. We believe happiness will come once we reach the goal, get the promotion, change careers, get married, graduate, or finally achieve the thing we’ve been chasing. But if happiness is always tied to the future, it never actually arrives. The truth is that the life you wa...

The life you’re living right now is being shaped by the story you’re telling yourself. In this episode, I break down how your beliefs quietly become your reality. Your brain is constantly searching for evidence to prove your story true, even if that story is completely wrong. If you believe someone doesn’t like you, you’ll find proof. If you believe you’ll never get promoted, you’ll see signs that...

In this episode, I break down a simple but powerful truth: what you tolerate becomes your life. The quality of your relationships, the money in your bank account, your work ethic, your career trajectory, it all reflects what you have decided is acceptable. I share a concept from Ed Mylett about your “personal thermostat.” If your internal setting is at 70 degrees, you will reject anything that fee...

Your life is not created by your boss or your partner or anyone else. It is created by your thoughts. In this episode, I break down the simple but life changing truth that your thoughts create your feelings, your feelings drive your actions, and your actions create your results. If you do not like your results, the solution is not out there. It is in your thinking. Yes, even if you are in a tough...

Urges do not control you unless you let them. In this episode, I share my personal battle with the constant pull to check my phone. The notifications. The scrolling. The reflex to grab it every time I see it. What started as a small habit became something that felt automatic, and I knew it had to change. I walk you through how I recognized the problem, what I did to break the cycle, and the practi...

You don’t need to know everything to take the first step. In this episode, I break down why waiting until you “have it all figured out” is the fastest way to stay stuck. Growth doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from action. From moving. From failing. From learning in real time. If you’re standing at the edge of something new, this is your reminder. You don’t need certainty. You need courage....

You don’t become happy when you finally achieve something. You can be happy right now. In this episode, I break down why the promotion, the relationship, the money, and the milestone don't suddenly give you the emotions you want. I share what I learned living in Ghana and how some of the most joyful people I’ve ever met had the least by the world’s standards. Happiness doesn't come because of resu...

You cannot go 16–0 without going 1–0 first. In this episode, I break down the mindset behind going 1–0 each day of your life. I talk about the championship run of the Indiana Hoosiers football team, the leadership philosophy of head coach Curt Cignetti, and what their approach teaches us about accomplishing seemingly impossible goals. Big goals are built one day, one decision, one win at a time. W...

What if the very things you’re trying to avoid are the keys to your growth? In this episode, I challenge the belief that discomfort and inconvenience are problems to escape. They are often the doorway to growth. When you learn to embrace them with equanimity, you stop reacting to life and start using it to your advantage. I’ll read from Ed Mylett’s book The Power of One More where we will learn mo...

What if thriving isn’t some rare, lucky outcome, but a skill you can learn? In this first episode, I explore what it really means to thrive, what it takes to get there, and why striving for more is better than accepting the lie that the life you want is out of reach. I’ll give you a glimpse into my life and give you some tactics that you can use in your own life to get you out of a rut and build a...