Three Things I Didn't Learn By Not... By Jay Cafferata

This episode discusses the Stories we tell about ourselves and our identity.  What is your story?  Can you change the past? Yes, you can and we do it all the time.  The reframing of how you see yourself and others changes the way you make decisions. It changes how your future looks in your own mind.  Drop the bricks that others gave you as negative stories and start watering th...

These two powerful forces live within our relationships.  Often cited as the cause for divorce and breakups, yet we are not taught how to discuss these important topics or even how important they are.  This episode discusses how this conversation shapes the intimacy of our relationships - committed or not.

There are no New Year Resolutions or goals set for the year - just a budget.  This podcast examines the meaning of vacation or to vacate or "leave" your vocation or job in ways that make 12 vacations a year a reasonable expectation for 2021.  It really is in the budget!  This podcast explains how to do just that! Happy Vacations in 2021!

This episode considers what happens if every country had its own Thanos - who would be left?  What happens when our systems try to act as if they are in a vacuum or independent and not interdependent?  Where do you fit in? How do we change our culture to be for everyone and not just for some?

This podcast is about how gratitude functions as a credit toward the future and as the coin of the realm in the law of attraction.  Thinking about how your energy is produced in a field and as a biological process helps us to focus on what is important!

This episode is about Thanksgiving and how a celebration isn't always joyful.  It is a call to action about changing our culture in the US to acknowledge the wrongs and make things right.  As people - we can only be responsible for our actions, words, and thoughts - and as a nation, we must address the inequalities that we have perpetrated against the humans that live on the planet. &nbs...

This episode explores the connection between us looking at others, them looking at us, and then how that gaze is about connection and closeness to each other.  What will be the impact once we are out of quarantine?  In looking at the Chat - how this utility is changing the power dynamics in meetings - anyone can add to chat - no waiting to be acknowledged - you speak your mind.  The...

This episode talks about how we learn boundaries, how we think about boundaries, and the impact those boundaries have in our world.  The connection between our parents, parenting, and zoom meetings all rolled into one!

How do less government and the definition of humanity intersect?  Who will care for those who cannot care for themselves?  How do we decide who is human?  These are all good questions that deserve a thoughtful moment of reflection. This episode discusses how we need to look closer at who is responsible for what.

This episode explores the messages that came from the movie, The Secret, from 2006 and how it relates to victim-blaming - how individuals are blamed for their lack of ability to rise to positions of power and wealth due to individual responsibility.  Please subscribe to this podcast for the ever-revolving discussion about how everything fits together in wild and uncanny ways.

There are no role models for asking for consent for sex - how do we teach consent?  Consent starts with "Keep your hands to yourself".  I discuss the associations around consent and what it means to give consent.