Three is a Crowd Podcast

Does the internet allow for growth? This week, we tackle the heavy weight of Cancel Culture. From Noah Schnapp’s recent headlines to Simi’s past tweets, we’re breaking down whether the public is punishing people for what they don’t know, rather than what they’ve done. We’re asking the ultimate question: When is a creator truly beyond redemption? Join the conversation.

Is content creation really the "dream job" everyone says it is? In Episode 16, Emem and Fikayo sit down for a reality check on the creator economy. We’re breaking down the hard truths: the inconsistent income, the "waiting game" to go viral, and why it might not be the right fit for your personality or goals. If you're feeling the pressure to be a "creator" but ha...

Is your "extra mile" actually self-sabotage? In Episode 15, Fikayo and I kick things off with a quick vent about why April Fools' Day feels like it’s lost its spark in 2026. But once the air is cleared, we dive straight into a heated debate: Do creatives overdeliver because they genuinely care, or because they don’t believe their work is enough? From the pressure of Nigerian bargaini...

In this episode of Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo tackle a topic that every creative in Nigeria has experienced at some point, creative licensing and idea theft. But before getting into the serious conversation, the episode kicks off with some light banter about the chaotic reality of Lagos traffic. Emem shares her complicated relationship with it, how she absolutely hates being stuck in traffi...

This week on Three Is A Crowd , Emem and Fikayo talk about something almost every creative experiences but rarely admits: the fear of posting your work. Is creative block actually real, or are we just afraid of criticism? From social media pile-ons to the way one bad comment can start a wave of negativity online, we unpack why so many creatives hesitate to share their ideas with the world. We also...

This episode is a big one for us — our first guest on the show. We sat down with Sorire to talk about her experience as an architect and a face model, and what those industries actually look like from the inside. We started with her 10KM race on February 14th, what pushed her to run it and what that experience taught her about discipline and mindset. Then we got into the viral video she posted abo...

In this episode, we aren’t holding back. We’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truth: most creatives are underpaid not because they lack talent, but because they lack business structure. We kick things off with some life updates, discussing the buzz around Vekee James’ pregnancy and whether we would love a destination wedding or not. But then, we get down to business. If you’ve ever struggled t...

Is being multi-talented actually a flex… or is it overrated? In this episode of Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo start with pure chaos from our first Out Of Office experience to the prank Emem pulled on Fikayo (yes, we’re still recovering). But then we get serious. Today’s unpopular opinion: Being multi-talented is overrated. Stop spreading yourself thin. It might be time to specialize. Three Is...

When IShowSpeed touched down in Lagos, Nigerians did what Nigerians do best, lost all composure. From aggressive begging to embarrassing fan behavior, we had to ask the hard question: why does shame disappear when a celebrity shows up? In this episode, we unpack Nigeria’s obsession with fame, why people feel entitled to celebrities’ money, and how excitement quickly turns into public embarrassment...

Friendship and weddings? Yeah… dangerous combo. This episode started with a hot take, why we wouldn’t pick our friends as maid of honor and spiraled into a much-needed conversation about feedback, ego, and creative sensitivity. We unpack why creatives take feedback so personally, why tone matters more than people admit, and how “I’m just being honest” is often just bad delivery in disguise. If you...

"Spectacle sells fast"— but at what cost? Emem and Fikayo are back to unpack the reality of being a creative in Nigeria today. We’re exploring the unspoken rule that you have to be "extra" to be noticed. From viral stunts to high-budget content, we’re asking: has the spectacle replaced the substance?

In our first episode of 2026, we’re taking a look back to move forward. We break down the most iconic moments in the Nigerian creative sector from 2025, celebrating the creators who pushed the boundaries and redefined the game. Inside this episode: A look back at the best of 2025 (The content, the creators, the shifts). Our personal Top 5 moments of the year. The 2026 "Stop Doing" list f...

Everyone’s using AI but is it making us lazy? In this episode of Three Is a Crowd , Emem & Fikayo unpack how AI is changing creative work from writers to designers to musicians and whether it’s helping or slowly killing originality. We talk about dependency, stolen art, and why “tool ≠ talent.” Plus, our hot takes on how to use AI without losing your creative voice. Watch till the end - this o...

In this episode of Three Is a Crowd , we’re calling out the It Girl pressure and the fake “soft life” chase that’s draining creatives. We talk about why looking rich online can actually cost more than being rich, why you don’t need to borrow wigs, props, or aesthetics just to shoot content, and how doing things within your capacity is not just enough — it’s sustainable. The truth? People scroll, l...

In this episode of Three Is a Crowd , we’re diving into the question nobody wants to say out loud: are friendships in the creative scene really genuine, or are they just vibes? From “collab bros” that ghost after one project to friends who secretly see you as competition, we’re breaking down the messy, funny, and sometimes fake side of creative friendships in Nigeria. We share our own experiences,...

In this episode we talk about how connections are better in paying your rent than passion in the Nigerian economy. What actually works if you’re chasing success in Nigeria We also speak on hustle culture, the endless side hustles and no days off mindset, and if the grind is really worth it. Whether you’re a creative, entrepreneur, or just trying to figure out how to navigate the system, this conve...

Welcome to the very first episode of Three Is a Crowd 💜💚 We’re Emem (producer at Arise News) and Fikayo (project manager in advertising)—two creatives in Nigeria just trying to figure it out, one conversation at a time. In this episode, we’re introducing ourselves, sharing why we started this podcast, and giving you a peek into our personalities (spoiler: chaos and laughter are included). Expect...

University was a journey I wasn’t fully prepared for—navigating friendships, struggling with money and grades, and learning life-changing lessons along the way. In this episode of Unscripted Conversations , I share my personal experiences, from the highs to the really tough moments, and the realities no one talks about. If you're in uni or about to go, this episode is for you. Don't forget to rate...

In this Valentine’s Day special of Unscripted Conversations , Michael and I dive deep into how we may have completely lost the plot on what Valentine’s Day is supposed to be. From over-the-top trends to whether couples should still ask each other to be their Valentine, we break down how love and romance have evolved—and if this holiday has turned a little…toxic. Is Valentine’s Day still about love...

This week on the Unscripted Conversations Podcast, we take you inside the world of Derrick UGC like never before. We talk about his music, the creative process behind his latest EP, and the stories hidden in his lyrics. But that’s just the beginning—we also get into his life beyond the studio, his love life, and everything in between. If you think you know Derrick UGC , this conversation might sur...